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Told Oneitis No - Did I Do The Right Thing?

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November 25, 2017
62 upvotes

Ask with my previous posts I have a terrible oneitis. She was just getting back with me but I said no bullshit to myself. I promised myself that. We were going to meet tomorrow, but I get a message tonight asking me to meet. I respond some 15 minutes later and then she says I was too late.

So I cancel tomorrow. I tell her to forget it. Life is too short for this shit. My phone blows up with messages telling me how I am being oversensitive and how I should xyz. I turn it off. It is in the draw and I am not looking at.

I did the right thing. I know I shouldn't need you guys to back me up but this time I just want some validation myself.


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Title Told Oneitis No - Did I Do The Right Thing?
Author ouchthosebitches
Upvotes 62
Comments 25
Date 25 November 2017 09:43 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/543
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/7fi88o/told_oneitis_no_did_i_do_the_right_thing/
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[–][deleted] 58 points59 points  (1 child) | Copy

Good call. Next.

[–]ouchthosebitches[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children) | Copy

Thanks man.

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon45 points46 points  (1 child) | Copy

Yup. No bullshit. You did right.

A funny thing will happen to you now: women won't bullshit you as much in future. It's fucking weird.

The next stage is to walk away sooner and happier. Then you'll get even less bullshit from them.

They know. They can smell strength just like they can smell weakness.

[–]ouchthosebitches[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Thanks man this means a lot.

[–][deleted] 25 points26 points  (1 child) | Copy

[–]ouchthosebitches[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Was down the gym three times a week till it shut a few months ago - just started up 3 weeks ago at a new place :)

[–]mrHappyPotatoe10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

Also u can tell where you live if ahe want to meet you. Why u have to lift a finger or hamster about such stuff.

[–]LordThunderbolt4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

N.E.X.T.

[–]TheRedKeepx4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

Good job. Also its a drawer, not a draw. Stay strong!

[–]ouchthosebitches[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

UK

[–]dontgiveupcarib2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Do not give two shits about a woman unless she's a close blood relative or you have kids with her. Even then don't put up with too much bullshit. This girl is useless.

[–]neopet1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's hard to ignore a oneitis, you did really well and you should stick to your guns, in a couple weeks you won't regret it. No one should have that much influence on your emotions.

[–]Je_suis_throwy1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I get a message tonight asking me to meet. I respond some 15 minutes later and then she says I was too late.

My phone blows up with messages telling me how I am being oversensitive and how I should xyz

She tried playing games with you to solidify her control. Good that you canceled.

[–]hawkeaglejesus1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

I get a message tonight asking me to meet. I respond some 15 minutes later and then she says I was too late.

Odds are she messaged like 5 different dudes looking to get a quick dick fix. You did right by not putting up with her shit.

[–]ouchthosebitches[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah that's exactly what I thought was going on. Then I imagined being out with her for dinner tomorrow and I just could not picture a scenario where I was not pure rage. So I canned it.

And one of the brothers here told me to block her on everything. I've been told to do that before. But I left her unblocked on phone and she'd call. This time she is blocked on everything. EVERYTHING.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy

I think you were a bit oversensitive based on what i read and how little i know. Maybe she was just driving by and was sincere. maybe she was playing games. Who knows and really, who cares?

But it was your decision, stand by it and keep moving forward. If she was really your oneitis then this is for the best.

[–]ouchthosebitches[S] 1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

Based on past behaviour I have let her off this sort of thing time and time again. When compared to my other friends they rarely cancel or if they do it's a big deal and they make it up to me. Not sorry... "too late"

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

you dont need us to validate your decision. all you can do is whatever you feel is best.

[–]ouchthosebitches[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

That's why I did it. Because I knew it was best.

[–]ouchthosebitches[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

And yeah she was a oneitis.

[–]MinaKatja-3 points-2 points  (0 children) | Copy

oneitis is a myth to us select few, but I guess not everyone can have pussy at their beck and call.



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