So - This happened to me in college. It was pre-red pill days and after getting disrespected I decided to dump her ass. My ex- completely went berserk and started tarnishing my reputation in college. She took Instagram, crying infront of my friends and so on..

In return, I never did anything citing it is as a cheap behaviour to make private things public. I took the high road and ignored her.

Normally I wouldn't ask this as it was poor management on my part and I should have managed the bitch better.

But I came across something similar but on the celebrity scale:

In short, A celebrity with ~5 million followers did something similar and called her ex- out over IG live.

It’s heartbreaking to know he made one small girl pregnant, took money from girls, flirted with students. Is that how a teacher should be?

Newspapers, the magazine followed and she had the support of the world.

The guy himself is a mini-celeb with~2 million followers but after remaining silent for a month he came out and basically denied everything.

My question is: How to deal with such shitstorm? I know, the best answer would be to avoid it completely but if this happens then how to respond here? It is easy to destroy the girl if she is hell-bent on doing the same. In a relationship, Both of them know some secrets which if made public would tarnish the reputation of the opposite sex. But would that be advisable?

Any insights are appreciated.

Thank you