Tl;dr: The grass is greener on the other side, but that doesn't mean foreign women, nor any, are perfect.

Body: TRP has been good to me and I want to give back, and I know that most of you are probably young adults from the U.S. When I discovered this three years ago, at seventeen years of age, I never thought my life would change this much. Every time I read one of the field reports in here, though, I am surprised. If girls were that easy here, at least 50% of men here would be slaying pussy left and right.

A common topic around here is that women in the U.S. are simply not worth it and that if you want to marry one you have to look for somebody from a more traditional country. I usually don't believe in a grass is greener mentality, but when I look at the U.S. I see a grass is muddier situation, and I'll tell you why.

I live in Monterrey, Mexico, the biggest Northern city and one of the three big ones in the country, alongside Mexico City and Guadalajara. The women here are turning more liberal every day, most of all because we're pretty close to America and whatever your culture is like, our city adapts about five to ten years later. Right now, we're starting to see more sluts being open about it, people with an infinity of genders, single moms, drug users (which is particularly bad because it feeds money to the machine that terrorizes our country in the first place). When you go to the park, young couples don't walk their kids anymore, they walk a dog. Essentially, what's going wrong with American culture is starting to affect us, and not in a good way. I've still got a little more to ramble about before I talk about the U.S., though, so bare with me.

I used to date this particular girl who had more red flags than Communist China. She'd kissed more than five guys, liked to go clubbing and return at three A.M. every couple of weeks, smoked weed a couple of times, essentially, we had a lot of fun but I wasn't going to tolerate it in the long run, I let her go. Now, all that she had as a red flag, is pretty fucking common, and now she's the good girl amongst everyone else. I have friends in econ who bring weed brownies to parties and make out with two or three different guys in a night. Girls tell me about their girl sex tourism trips to Cancun, Acapulco, the Caribbean, etc., I see people talking about legalizing drugs, which I do want but more for not letting money get into the wrong hands, I've been in classes with two or three different single pregnant girls who want to find somebody who'll pay for their kids, but the difference between now and ten years ago is that these people used to be put in their place, they used to be shamed, and now they're praised, like they're doing something good. Divorce laws and all tend to favor women but not as heavily as in the U.S., but it's still pretty bad, and I don't think I'm marrying anybody unless I find a pretty girl from a pueblo who's been educated well by her parents. But I'm saying that here, in a country which is still viewed by the rest of the world as "machista and traditional", what about the U.S.?

I have a friend who studies in Rochester, who came here for winter break. I'm not giving more information on her because I don't want her to be doxxed by anyone, even though I trust you guys. You know how SJWs are. Anyways, she's from a very traditional family so she shares a lot of our views when it comes to masculinity and femine characteristics. Her roommate was a slut and the shit she told me was pretty shocking to hear.

Every couple of days, this girl would come home, almost puking from the booze, at four A.M., freshly fucked. Sometimes she'd bring a guy and my friend would make him leave because she wasn't having any of that shit. Occasionally, she'd find her passed out in front of a frat, giving a blowjob in the bushes, getting high, and one time she got pretty sick from mono so my friend had to take her into the hospital. Nevermind orbiters, she'd take advantage of them without batting an eye.

When I asked her whether this was an exceptional case (because I read your field reports and I had to know whether your girls were that easy or this was an "uncommon" case), she said that no, sex is pretty rampant and unless you're the literal poster child of autismo you're getting pussy one way or another. The only guys who didn't get any, she said, were the ones who gave a damn about how they treated the girls, otherwise, girls were pretty much free. Then the girls would wonder why the guys wouldn't take them seriously, why they wouldn't act like gentlement. "Where have all the good men gone?" They asked, and she'd tell them that you can't expect that if you're not a good woman. Pretty important footnote to make here, don't treat her like a gentleman if she's not acting like a lady.

I know that to this point this sounds like random ranting, but hear me out. I'm not even going to start with politics and laws and all because I could talk about that all day, but if people over here aren't having kids anymore, aren't getting married, there's a reason, they know it's smart because it's not going to be that kind of world anymore. If that's how we're seeing it here, I can only imagine how difficult it is in the U.S. The truth is, though, that it's only a matter of years before what's going on in there will be going on in Mexico, and a lot of other former traditional countries too.

Don't fall in love without using your logic to trump emotion, don't get married; you'll only lose respect and lose at life for most occasions, don't treat whores like they're ladies because you'll only get treated with disdain and miss out on a lot anyways. I'm not going to tell you to regain control of society and its values because by this point, it's pretty difficult unless you're extremely influential, but don't let yourself be taken down by the decline.

Lessons learned: The U.S. is one of the most "sexually liberated" places out there and is probably beyond recovery in the short term, but once other places start to act like the U.S., the true nature of women is the same all around, the difference is that some know they make a choice between dignity or "fun", but society isn't teaching them that anymore.

TL;DR Lessons: AWALT, the less they're shamed, the more they show it