Summary: I live in a guesthouse with about 8 Long stay people that keep my social proof as the Alpha of the house. New girls are always fresh meat for the guys (except long stay) and this new one is no exception. The guys come to me before pursuing any of the girls whether I'm going for it or not. I was originally going to post on /askTRP about how to get it, but I've already fucked up and this is a breakdown of her desires for a "6-pack" man and my mistakes. Also, Preface this that I'm a terrible fucking writer

Body: I will refer to this girl as HB8. I first see HB8 at the guesthouse while I'm in the free space with my HB6ish plate. Plate is sitting on my lap and I strike up a conversation with HB8. She passively mentions she has a boyfriend (as in, "I was in Different country with my boyfriend... blah blah"). I ignore and keep talking. Eventually I take plate home and go to work.

Skip ahead to later that evening when it's me, HB8 and an AFC talking about RP shit. I often will use RP truths in my game but it can come across as tryhard or fake. Most of the time, however, it works. AFC is okay (very passive and needy), but keeps interjecting shit that doesn't really help my game. We get onto the topic of how HB8 wants to see a 6 pack guy (we will call 6p), but insists that she doesn't want to see if the price is a bj or something. Soon after this, we both go outside and are talking about how open and free the guesthouse is when it comes to talking about this kind of stuff. I bring up how we are typically really honest about personal shit at the guesthouse and bring up an N-count conversation I had with some other roommates the other night. She bites and tells me hers is 7. We are all getting a little drunk (it's Sunday night) and there is a anniversary for a local bar. She comes with the pretense she might find a 6p, AFC joins.

We get there and there are no military guys, so she's a little upset, however, I'm having a good time as I have the Social Proof in that bar (Know all Bartenders, some of the guys, and most the cuter girls). Shitty part, my plate is there. I talk to HB8 a bit and others a lot. Myself, AFC and HB8 were supposed to leave as soon as I finished my beer, however, AFC (who has been keeping HB8 occupied for me) leaves and I didn't notice. During that 5 minute period, HB8 finds some lower SMV than me random (Future reference: Random). I go to get some food and she says, "you missed your chance" (something like that in Japanese).

Later on, I go outside and she is there with Random. I'm telling her I'm going home as Plate comes outside. HB8 says she going to come but Plate convinces her to come back inside and have fun. Plate 2 shows up while we're all outside, so I'm like, fuck it, I'm gone.

Next day, I talk to HB8 about how last night ended. She ended up fucking Random and says it wasn't worth it (small dick). Other girls ask her about it and she says "maybe, blah blah". She also mentions she feels like she wants a new guy every night (blames it on her biology, which isn't all wrong). Gets some shit from the other girls, but as I have the social proof of the guesthouse (older, known for getting girls, attractive, real job), they keep bringing up that she should sleep with me. She deflects a few times and then I ask her, why not? Says some comment about my thinning hair and instead of pressure flipping (think would have been best) or A&A, I explain. I mention that I accept my hair and am okay with it (still not the best with shit tests). I also haven't initiated much kino on this girl.

My plate is at the guesthouse and I'm trying to wait her out while texting another potential plate (girl is down for sure). During that time, HB8 says a pass/fail test for her bfs is that they must be able to arm wrestle and win against her dad. I take that as an opportunity to arm wrestle her. We do and I let her get me almost all the way down, then get us back to starting position while she uses all her strength. She says she didn't expect me to be so strong. Honestly, I work out, but don't eat right, so I have a little fat on all my muscle. Plate leaves, and I get HB8 to go to the bar with me for 1 drink. Social proof in play again, but my Plate is there (which I completely ignore this time). Myself and HB8 leave and just about skinny dip in the ocean (I hold her hand (first kino)). We get back home, wet, but she makes comments like I'm the "older brother" of the guesthouse or something (I take this as LJBF) and didn't know how to react/didn't expect it. I thought trotting in the ocean (which I led and she enjoyed) would have gained me some points. She explains that it's because we live together. I'm still not sure if I should give up or not. She goes upstairs to sleep (dormitory, top bunk, no guys allowed, someones there) and I bring something up while she's putting on her red panties. Tell her goodnight, go to my bed, text my plate (who thought I slept with HB8) and she comes over.

  • Lessons Learned

Lesson 1 Lift. If I had a six pack, I would have been balls deep in this chick from day 1.

Lesson 2 Girl has had a bf for a year, supposedly low N-count and cheats on him day 1 after being apart AWALT

Lesson 3 Plates are good, but when they cockblock it sucks. Need to get your own place or keep the plate more in check (I've soft nexted mine since all this).

Lesson 4 STFU! Be careful about being too cocky. Honestly, I think I talked myself up too much in front of this chick. I need to learn to keep my mouth shut sometimes.

Lesson 5 Some girls may be unattainable (at least in my experience) and if they were and you fucked it up, it's a huge hurdle to get back from.

Lesson 6 Don't use the pretense of meeting other guys as your excuse to take the girl out. I pussy-footed too much and wasn't direct with my intentions of this girl. I wanted to take her out, I should have just asked her to come out.

Lesson 7 Soooo many more lessons I could write down and will if you guys provide them (and legit).

Lesson 8 Lift. I can't express that no matter how much game and social proof you have that in cases like this (a girl that just wants raw fucking by a beast), lifting is almost all you need.

Lesson 9 This whole experience has made my main plate want me so much more. Think I'll go for anal soon just to see how well it worked. I don't even like anal, I will just use it for a gauge.

  • Also, if you guys see any chance (I've already written it off) of still plating this girl, let me know

PS:

As I know this will be brought up, I live on a fairly small island where everyone knows each other. Makes keeping your plates apart a little more difficult. Add that the bars in the area that people party the most are within a 3-10 min. walk from my place and there aren't many other options when going out.