That if I marry here, I’m going to throw all of my dreams and aspirations since childhood away, from traveling around the world anytime I wanted, to buying a sport car like the Corvette, all to settle down, buy a house, raise children, and listen everyday to a nagging wife and at best having duty sex every once in a while.

And I come from traditional society with no divorce rape, I still refuse to get married and chained down, I value my freedom the most.

Although I’d like to move out elsewhere, I still have to gain more work experience in my field.

I’m 30 years old.