Summary

Low cuckoldry rates is not in conflict with AF/BB, it is in fact an expected consequence of modern contraceptives and declining birth rates.

Body

As you might have seen, recent research suggests that the cuckoldry rates are quite low; only 1-2% of men unknowingly raise children who aren't theirs. Google "Ars Technica cuckoldry" if you want to see it.

The bloopers of course love this metastudy, but let us reexamine the female dual sexual strategy.

What does the typical beta man experience when he enters an LTR? The first years, things are good. He might not get the kinky, frequent sex of an alpha man, but he does get sex. The starfish sex and eventually the deadroom typically won't become a problem until after the first or second child.

What is going on here? Well, women need two things for their babies: good genes and a man to provide for them. Since few women are able to join the warrior king's harem and get both his protection and his genes, they will typically have to settle for a man who either has good genes or the ability and desire to provide for them. Since having strong babies only to have them starve to death is pointless, she chooses to hook up with the beta who will commit to her.

If beta men never got to have children, this would be an evolutionary dead end for them. The betas would be bred out of the gene pool in a few generations. The co-evolved strategy between the genders seem to be that the beta gets the first one or two children. After that, if he is too beta her attraction to him drops off drastically and sex becomes very infrequent.

In modern times, the average number of children per couple is below 2. Of course cuckoldry rates are low, by the time women switch from "pure BB" to "AF/BB" and begin sneaking off with alphas behind her husband's back, she's on birth control.

And do women even want to have children with alphas?

If we take men, from an evolutionary perspective, we're wired to want to fuck girls because we're supposed to get them pregnant. However, we're only wired to want to fuck them, which worked out fine because girls didn't have contraception in ancient times, but these days it is different. You don't want your plates getting pregnant, so you put on a condom and get to enjoy doing what you're wired to do without any of the consequences that evolution intented.

Similarly, I don't think a married woman has any particular desire to get pregnant with her personal trainer Chad. She just wants him to fuck her. So either she's on birth control, or she makes him put on a condom. (At this point, some of you might argue sperm jacking: but that shit only happens when the guy is also rich and there's a government that will force him to provide for her and her baby afterwards.)

When she is off birth control, most likely her relationship with her husband is good. She's made a conscious decision to have his babies. They're planning to have sex every day while she's ovulating. The chances of Chad getting access during that period is just pretty fucking slim.

And the final kicker: the alpha who is fucking a married woman don't want her to get pregnant either. If he's not 100% sure she's on birth control, he's wearing rubber.

Alphas are probably getting more sex these days than they ever did, but they're getting fewer children. It is no surprise that cuckoldry rates are low.

LESSONS LEARNED

Bloopers don't know how to science and will misunderstand and misrepresent research to discredit red pill theory. This is how you set them straight.