Tdlr: There is good and bad in fucking lesser girls than what you could get.
First things first: if she’s fucking you, she’s already below you SMV. Or at least she feels that she is. If it’s not clear to you, go read the sidebar.
Now, I’m talking about fucking women that are way below. If you’re close to Chad, I’m talking about the 7 who has a great body but is pushing 30, or the cute young waitress who gives good head and doesn’t shit test. Come on man, if you applied yourself you would be fucking twins, models or college prom queens.
If you’re an 7-8, I’m talking about all theses average-looking girls we don’t notice in social events, which is the vast majority of them, unless we’re too horny and/or drunk to think straight. Come on man, if you applied yourself you could be fucking the hot 7 with a great bod, instead of her being pumped and dumped by Chad.
If you’re a 6 or below, I’m talking about the hambeasts, the fat girls, the girls with a little bit of moustache, the ugly girl at the end of the party who you take home when nobody is looking. Come on man, if you applied yourself you could be fucking a nice average girl on the regular, instead of her being pumped and dumped by the group above.
Pros and cons of fucking girls way below your SMV:
PROS
You get these women with little effort, and can focus your effort on something else: Those girls are easy. High quality women, or more generally women you care about, are more time and energy-consuming. If you don’t care at all and are willing to treat them like shit rather than adapt, more freedom for you.
You practice game regularly: Since you don’t really care about these girls, you have no pressure and can have a IDGAF attitude. Tease, push-pull, you can practice your routines (‘so I was backpacking in Europe’ and the likes) making these stories more fun each time you tell them.
You learn to be somebody’s Alpha: These girls will worship you. They’re so happy to snatch a high-value man. You’re still insecure and beta on the inside, but with them you can fake it all you want. Tell her to be at your place at 6 sharp and to not wear anything under her skirt. Laugh her off in public if she’s being stupid. Make her send you nudes. Make her beg for your attention. Make her do chores for you. Tell her exactly how you want it, and see how she revels in meeting your standards. Once you tasted being a girl’s Alpha, doing exactly what you want to do and having the girl loving it just because her SMV is way lower, the red pill is much easier to swallow.
You get to shoot your load and it beats masturbation: Less computer porn, more real-life porn. You can practice getting better at sex, use new positions, spit on her ass, slap her face, see how it feels, try a little bondage. Worst thing the hambeats leaves. Best thing you actually learn about what you like, what she likes, and how to make it work.
Feminine energy is good for you: if you don’t get addicted to it (i.e. put the pussy on the pedestal), women have an innate energy that is nurturing, soothing and relaxing to us. Personally, I feel equally rested after sleeping with a girl for 6 hours than after sleeping alone for 9 hours. Just like having a pet decreases your chances of getting cancer, having loving women in your life feeds you and relaxes you. In this sense, it’s better having low SMV women than no women at all.
CONS
Biggest con is that you fuck up the sexual market place: Easy access to sex combined with women’s hypergamy has it that almost all women have now been fucked by somebody they really don’t deserve. And now they believe this is the standard by which all future partners should be measured. That’s Alpha Widows for you. There are nice, good-looking betas that would make amazing partners for these girls, but they have tasted your cock and now the nice betas (sometimes your own friends, who although they are betas can still be great men) are left to fuck the hambeasts.
You become complacent: Why chasing the model and displaying your arsenal of awesomeness (fun, friendly, high-energy, bounces to many settings, etc.) when you can just show up and have the cute waitress right on your balls? So you know what, your skills slowly fade. It’s like everything, if you’re not improving you’re regressing. As men, we should always aim higher, that’s how we grow, that’s how we improve. I know the Arnold Schwarzenegger example has been overused, but he could have been content to fuck bleached bimbos with his early accomplishments, yet he decided to go higher and actually fuck a Kennedy. You can find her hot or not, doesn’t matter, you get the point. Once in a while, it’s good to chase something that is difficult to obtain, and that goes for girls as well. Keep improving.
You start hating women: If you fuck women way below your SMV, you go from woman to woman, but you get bored. You never meet you match. Girls aren’t hot enough, not fun enough, not entertaining enough, not smart enough. And it starts to feel that all women are below you. Well, most are, but there are still women that would be great first mates, the thing is that you’ve become lazy and you’re not chasing them. These women grow tired of not meeting great men to defer to, and they become jaded and start using their looks for personal gain only.
Socially, you’re not doing yourself a favor: Women want a man with a mission, not a man with a pussy ambition (Cypress Hill). Socially, if you’re seen with girls way below your SMV, it rightfully looks like you’re giving your attention and your dick easily, and that you’re not really on a mission. Women are actually right to not find that attractive, and you shouldn’t find it cool.
CONCLUSIONS
Being Alpha is about making your own choices. Some here advocate having high standards and not selling yourself short. Others believe that practice make perfect. In my case since I found the RedPill I’ve always been some girl’s Alpha, and the quality of these girls has been improving over time. But I also acknowledge I have suffered of all the cons listed. Whatever you choose, be wise about it and don’t stop improving. The next girl will almost certainly be better than the last one.
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