Just got this from my main girl. She earns more than I do, is the head of her department, has run her entire life for the last 16 years. This is not prompted, we were talking about how she wants to be dominated, about how I tell her to get naked, then I pick a hole to fuck and the effect it has on her. She was teasing about only liking it to please me.
She sent this, and she has been told to think it's sexist to want a strong man. It's not sexist to accept who you are what you want or are attracted to. It's reality.
When I was with the ex I always felt on edge. And the reason for that is he wasn't doing his job of being a man. He not only leaned on me, he crushed me. It's okay for a man to need a hand and even to be carried -- once in a while. But not always. He just became so fucking lax knowing I would handle EVERYTHING. Consequently, I felt stressed out and found it very difficult to be feminine with him -- since I felt like more of a man than he was.
Your head is already huge, so try not to explode: with you, I can be as soft and feminine as I want to be because you are being "man." This makes me feel good. I like to curl up next to you and rub on you. I feel like a girl. Like I should. Also. I am a sexist pig.
Girls want a real man, someone who can get shit done and handle the problems. They want you to hold her up, be her rock the waves are crashing against, the mighty oak weathering the storm. No matter what they say, this is exactly what they're attracted to. This is what they need, and the more dominating and masculine you can be, the more she will be attracted.
Girls are not comfortable being the one in charge at home, even if they can do it at work like this one. She will dump your ass like this one did her husband years ago, and find a man who handles things competently. The easier you make it look the more at ease she will be.
This is 101 shit. She is one of the very few girls I've known who could put it into words.