So a woman I know who is mid 40s (so a few years older than me) was giving me a lot of IOI's so I figured I'd follow up on it. I'm more or less MGTOW and don't care but figured why not see what happens.
So she is very eager at first, then she just drops off. I know it sounds like she is stringing me along, but in my blue pill days I had women string me along and I don't know if that is whats going on with her. When women do that they try to get you hot and bothered, then they drop you. Then they try to do it again. I never chased her and I'm not going to, so I don't know if she was trying to get me to chase her and gave up or what.
Also she gives off many red flags. She is mid 40s but still pretty hot. I'd rate her better looking than 95% of women in her age bracket, and she is hotter than most women in their 20s. Back in her 20s she was probably a 9.
But she is constantly broke. If she had game she could easily put up a profile on an online dating site and have well off guys in their 50s offering to buy her cars, pay her bills, buy her food. So I'm getting the impression she has very little game based on this.
So here is what I'm seeing as red flags
Mid 40s, hot but unmarried
Constant money problems
Flaky
She does seem to get along with people (so she can't be totally nuts I'd guess), but who knows. I'm guessing she is either mentally ill (borderline personality disorder or biploar), severe self esteem problems, a drug issue, or just plain dumb.
Any ideas what I'm dealing with here? I've only been red pill aware for a year, I still have a lot to learn.
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