This myth can be dispelled with three key points. The first point is the desire for human beings, particularly the weak, to buy into the karma myth. It is the belief that somewhere in the universe is a divine force which rights all moralistic wrongs. It is usually coupled with the sour grapes myth. So oppressive asshole has all these things but he isn't happy.

The second myth is that women view men as something else besides a provider. This ties into the woman has intrinsic value versus a man only has value which is earned. So under the tradcuck model, women with low SMV would get saddled with low value men. Inherently the woman is going to resent the man, she knows he is low value, she will keep on telling herself maybe she could snagged a high value man.

The third and final point is men underestimate the whining ability of women. The fact is, except of the extra risks associated with child birth, women have always lived longer then men. The question to ask, is what did elderly women do in the past when her husband died? In the olden days they hung out at churches and whined about how their life sucked. In slightly more modern times the husband might be still alive but these older women would hang out with other older women in something called a bingo hall. Women like games like bingo since they are games which require zero skill and they have a social element.

So we can see that used up elderly feminazis are already complaining about the risk of elderly women being alone. This means lots of government money which will probably include things like cat food subsides and bingo hall subsidies. They then can bitch in the bingo hall about how the cat food subsidy is so low.

The point behind this post is that unless you are writting post apocalyptic revenge fantasy type novels, pondering about these revenge type fantasies is a waste of time. You are living in an illusion.