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Today we will cover break-ups, specifically we will cover the two types – the ones you know have happened and the ones you don’t know have already happened. On top of this we will talk about the emotional state of a woman through the break-up and afterwards because a lot of men are still surprised by this. The key post to read prior to starting this video in terms of background reading is, Understanding woman Part 1: Solipsism.

Break-up types

I started off by saying that there are two types of breakups that women initiate. There are the breakups that women tell you about and the breakups that women feel, but won’t tell you about. However, both of those break-ups would be dealt with by women in a very similar manner in terms of their emotional investment towards you. It’s just that in the case of the break-up you don’t know about, you will simply be wondering especially if you are not reading the signs correctly, as to what in the fuck is going on.

First off, let’s understand that for women there is only one reality and that reality is their personal and highly emotional perception of the world that we live in. A sunny, beautifully warm day will still be the worst day for a depressed individual even if it was preceded by a month of rain. Therefore, you must appreciate that objective reality or your reality for example, do not matter to that woman when she has reached break-up point. A woman usually starts her relationship very emotionally invested, but as a man loses frame, as she starts to meet men that interest her more than you, her interest drifts away from you and onto someone else; or it simply strays away from you, because she can do better.

Women normally have a plan B guy, but sometimes you become plan b while you are dating her. You will understand when you become the plan B guy, when she starts treating you as such; when she is withholding sex, giving it whenever she feels like it, and treating you like shit, as if you no longer matter. That achieves getting you hooked, getting you anxious about your relationship, allowing her to act as she pleases, whilst she looks for someone else. At this point when you have reached the neediness part, or once she thinks she can do better and you by your actions verify it, then she has emotionally broken up with you. It might take her a month, 2 months, a year, or two to tell you. But, if you are meeting women who despite the fact that they are in a relationship with you for years, their approach is cold – they have already broken up with you. A woman that breaks up with you in her head, might still have sex with you, but that would be an infrequent occurrence – unless you dated an absolute slut and she uses you as a dildo, but it will feel off. The woman is trying to get what she needs and she might get it, but she is not satisfied, I can’t really explain it, but it is something like that. You know there’s something wrong. Even though she is fucking you, she is hating your guts.

The other type of break-up is obviously the one where you know about. The woman has broken up with you, she has verbalised the break-up. There might be tears involved, but that woman has already decided – you are not good enough anymore and she will move on. At this point I want to note the following. If a woman has not emotionally broken up with you and she has done so because you have cheated on her, or done something that she deems unforgivable and she simply has to move on, she will be emotionally tied with you forever. The emotional break-up must be made for women in order for them to move on. It is either that, or she needs to find another man who for her feels more alpha than you have. If an emotional break-up has not happened, that woman will feel that she belongs to you.

The emotional aspect

In this post we will talk about the emotional aspect of a woman when she goes through an emotional break-up. We will talk about what goes on in that woman’s mind and how she sees you and that could perhaps help some of you guys comprehend what was happening when similar experiences occurred to you. When that point comes when a woman no longer sees you as the man you once were, it is almost an ‘aha’ moment. In a moment everything changes for her. At that point in time, she looks at you, the man who was in her life and sees someone she no longer recognises. She sees in you everyone else, every other man who is unimportant to her and she sees you as someone who is overreaching in terms of trying to get her affection.

I see no-other way to describe it other than say that the woman gets emotional amnesia. Following the point of the break-up she might try to reach inside her to feel the emotions that she once had for you, but there is nothing there. Her hypergamy is no longer satisfied, that means all the emotions that get the vagina wet, are no longer there. As such, she is no longer in love and all the actions that resulted from her feeling that, go along with it. What’s worse the emotional amnesia that I am describing her, combines with her solipsism. Very few women have the intellectual capacity of understanding that something has fundamentally changed inside of them. You might find women that cry over the fact that they no longer feel anything for you. You might find women that cry over the fact that they wasted so much time with you. But most women that you will meet will think that if they no longer fall emotions for you, they never felt anything. Everything and anything that existed with you was a lie. Their inner solipsism, would rationalise the experience and the emotions. Maybe she was confused you see, maybe she was young and she didn’t know better, maybe you manipulated her. But surely, if she as a woman now feels nothing, then she never did and only now she is finding out. All women go through this process, but some might fight it.

I had one girl that told me that she loved me once, therefore I am a good person. But now, she felt nothing. She had moved on you see and right now I was someone she used to know and in me the emotions woken up inside of her were nothing like before.

This is an example of a woman that had way more intellectual capacity than most women. But you see even in her, if I was going to try and get back with her, then I would have to hit a wall. Even if a woman was to let me try, or even if I was to try and put my best game on, because for some strange reason I wanted to try it again with her, then the wall would always be there and it would incredibly difficult to get past it. I think it’s impossible to get past it, because that woman has already ruled you out.

Let me explain this by giving you an example of a psychiatric disorder. In Capgras syndrome patients suffering with it, will look at a familiar face and yet not recognise it because it no longer creates an emotional connection to them. Once a woman has an emotional break-up with you, all the emotions associated with you, the sexual ones, are gone. Your advancements would cause her disgust, she would feel that you are abusing her, harassing her and forcing her to do things. Women who are married might try to have sex with their spouses and wake up feeling abused, because they have no longer any emotional connection, they felt like they didn’t want to do it; therefore, their man must have forced himself onto them.

Summary

Understand that once an emotional break-up happens, a woman detests you, emotionally she no longer recognises you and her solipsism re-writes her history as though the emotions were never there. For men cohabitating with their spouses, this is a very dangerous dynamic. I think many of us have gone through break-ups, emotional ones – even if we were the ones that pulled the trigger first, as I have done in the past. I personally think it’s helpful to understand why it is that women say the things they say after a break-up, why they find it so easy to move on. It gave me clarity and I guess it helped me comprehend the emotional aspect of a break-up for them. I don’t know what this information might do to you. All I am hoping is that it helps you understand.

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