Link to op: http://archive.is/IULna

When archiving the post it told me someone already archived it 2 weeks ago so if this have already been posted feel free to remove it or let me know.

Summary: OP pretended to be a virgin but actually fessed up before the wedding, fiance decided maybe they werent right for eachother.

Body: To be honest the action of OP are to be considered somewhat honorable (at least confessing about her "life-lie" before theyre married) but that is not what the post is about, it's about the word for word phrasing quoted in the title, here is the rest of the quote:

The thing is, he may have been lead to believe I'm a virgin based on my religiosity and we'd never really talked about past sexual partners before. For this reason he may have thought I'm a virgin.

Even though she felt the "need" to tell him her secret, she somehow trying to hamster away her responsibility, as if it's his fault he assumed she was a virgin. Imagine if he assumed she wasnt, but she just wasnt putting out for him, like that would make him somehow feel better?

Lessons learnt:

  • Hamsters going to hamster
  • Just because she doesnt want to have sex with you doesnt mean shes a virgin
  • Unless otherwise stated we shall all assume all women are virgins