TL:DR Stay congruent during sex. Don't play Alpha to get her in bed, only to be Beta in bed

Topic: This thread will be dealing with congruence between picking up the girl and fucking her and why it's important to maintain appearances.

 

TRP and why it exists:

This is quite simple. TRP is here to teach you how to get laid. By reading the sideline, lifting, working on yourself, even the most retarded, socially inept and ugly male specimen has an honest chance of getting his dick wet.

 

The Misconception

I've noticed one misconception that people have, especially new visitors. This misconception has to do with thinking that once you've gotten her to bed, it's over. You can then fuck her brains out, she'll love it, and she'll always come back for more. And from this misconception, beta tenancies will show and attraction will slowly be lost.

One must maintain their frame and dominate during sex just as they do during the pickup phase.

The issue arises from the fact that beta men will perform like betas in bed. There is no way around it. If you've come to realize that you'v been acting like a beta all your life and have swallowed the pill, fantastic. But what makes you think that none of TRP principles apply to sex. They all do.

 

The Problem

One big difference between an Alpha and a Beta is that the Alpha has abundance mentality with women, so he acts towards them as if he's worth more than they are. This brings attraction. Betas try and please the women, act nice, respectful, and this screams scarcity, which leaves women's pussies dry.

Most blue pillers go in thinking "If only she would just let me fuck her... I'd show her, I'd make her cum over and over again. I'd be such a good lover. She's have orgasms all night. I wouldn't stop making her cum until she was out of breath. An Alpha thinks "I'm gonna fuck her". Can you see how the blue pill way of thinking is very similar to their courting strategy of being nice, being a gentleman, etc. It's all about her. It's all about being so nice to her that she has to like you. Don't fall into the same mistake during sex.

 

Specific Examples

Oral sex: Oral sex is all about pleasing her. You're putting yourself into a submissive position, doing something completely selfless, all for her pleasure. This can be compared to buying a girl gifts. There's nothing inherently wrong with it, but it shows scarcity mentality. Do you think any great king with a herald of 200 women bothered to perform oral sex? No. There are ways to approach oral sex from a dominant and Alpha frame, but the bread and butter "let's make her happy" for of slouching down between her legs to please her is a submissive act by definition.

 

Her on top: When she's on top, riding you, you're being submissive. She's in control. You're being passive. She's doing the fucking. This is inherently a feminine position to be in (on the bottom, passive, submissive). It shows lack of control and initiative. Common comparison would be allowing the girl to make all the decisions and do all the work planning. You want to lead, and women want to be obedient and allow you to lead. This applies in bed also.

 

Her being more dominant in general: If she's the one doing more biting, more hair pulling, scratching your back, and you're just along for the ride, pumping away, you're not doing your part. You want to be the one that's making her feel like she's getting fucked, not the other way around. Make sure to match and surpass her aggressiveness during sex. This shows virility and is a major turn on.

 

None of these things are in stone. There's nothing inherently wrong with letting her ride you, going down on her, etc. if done sparingly. BUT, if the majority of the sex is done this way, you will be showing that you are not as Alpha as you presented yourself to be.

There's a reason most women have a subconscious fantasy of being raped. And rape does not involve her riding a passive rapist. It's about him taking control. About him being dominant. About her being ravished and used as a sex toy. WOMEN WANT TO BE SUBMISSIVE. Sure, some women say they prefer to be dominant, but that's only what they say. Remember the RedPill saying? Don't pay attention to what she says, pay attention to what she does.

So next time you've convinced a girl that you're the real deal, a real Chad, make sure to play the part. Once you've finally gotten her into bed and are ready to fuck her lights out, DO NOT fall back into beta tendencies. Learn to be Alpha in the bed also. If there is just one word of advice I could give, it would be DOMINANCE. Be dominant. Every time you're being passive or submissive, you're hinting at the possibility of a Beta inside of you. Don't fall for this trap, because if you over do it, depending on her SMV, she might start looking for a good pounding elsewhere.

 

Closing Thoughts

WANTING THE GIRL TO BE IN CONTROL DURING SEX IS A NATURAL IMPULSE DERIVED FROM AN INGRAINED FEAR OF MESSING UP AND UPSETTING HER. Betas fear losing the girl, because it means losing the chance to procreate. Alphas have no fear due to abundance mentality. It's why true natural Alphas are dominant in bed, because they just do what they wish and have ZERO subconscious contraint telling him "be careful, she may not like that". Being submissive is a female characteristic. She wants to please the Alpha, and the best way to please is to be sure you don't do something he dislikes. You're thinking like a woman during sex (thinking in the sense subconsciously, the feelings and fetishes you desire in terms of passiveness and submissiveness are feminine).

Girls don't fuck Alphas to get orgasms. The REAL REASON they fuck alphas, from an evolutionary point of view is not because they're better in bed, but because their reptilian brains WANTS THEIR SPERM. And this essentially is what brings her back for more and more fucking. Not the orgasms, but the sperm. And luckily for all of us, when you act alpha in bed, it gets them wet and they cum anyway. Evolution really is great.