Whoa, watch out Blue Pill! What I may say next will shock you.

My MOM taught me these quotes, and I've always held them dear.

(My Moms a Woman btw, and she's a terrific one at that, sorry this goes against your narrative)

Let's get started.

'An elephant doesn't need a bell.'

Analysis: Obviously it means shut yer trap. If you're the fucking King don't preach it. Don't go around convincing everyone how smart, strong, rich, etc. you are.

If you are, you ARE. It will be reflected in your character. No one likes a show off. Not a Boss? Well damn, there's a great list of self help links that way ---> Lifting, looking good, and standing tall seem to help somehow.

Next!

In order for a stone to become a statue, you gotta hit it a couple times!'

ALSO OBVIOUS. but a remarkable way to frame all of your shit experiences into something positive. None of you would be as great as you could be if you lived your life on easy mode. None of you.

You think Chad has it great because he's such a natural? Well guess what. Chad's never had a reason to better himself. You do. In theory you are actually on the fast track to be BETTER than a natural Chad. You just think you've lost the race before it's even over. Pathetic!

Conclusion: Frame. You build it. Make a good one. Hold it strong.