EDIT: /u/Archwinger summed it up better than I did: "So I can see how the MGTOW weirdos might get confused and think that The Red Pill is primarily some kind of man-improvement ideology that's separate from getting laid. But really, it's about getting laid. If you're not here to learn more effective ways to get laid, you don't belong at The Red Pill."
SUMMARY: The Red Pill sub-reddit has grown by more than 60,000 members in the last year. Unfortunately, some of you still don’t get it, and seem to think we're some kind of edgy Men's Health 2.0. Bring on the downvotes.
Why does the Red Pill exist? TRP exists to create a forum for “discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men.” That’s it. That is the basis of this sub-reddit, the basis of our ideology, the source of our philosophies. Sexual. Strategy.
The pursuit of that overall sexual strategy offer many tactical options, all geared around the singular purpose of increasing SMV (sexual market value) in order to gain access to the higher quality sexual partners typically reserved for the top 10 percent of men, the natural “alphas.” Bodybuilding, nutrition, reading books, Monk Mode as a whole, these are all tools, tactics for to facilitate the process of increasing SMV.
TRP isn’t all about girls.
Pussy isn’t the objective.
The main goal should be improvement and acceptance of yourself.
Why are you so focused on sex?
All three of the paraphrased statements, part of a message I’m seeing more and more frequently on this sub, represent a fundamental misunderstand of the objective of the Red Pill.
Monk Mode is not the end-game. We are not MGTOW (Men Going Their Own Way). We do not seek to remove ourselves from the Matrix and live in a dark, harsh desert of the real; we seek to to take manipulate it, take advantage of it, and in the process, do epic shit others cannot and live satisfying lives. We don’t seek to end the hunt, to retreat like some kind of ascetic hermit to ponder existential enlightenment as voluntary incels. Rather, we want to dominate the hunt and thrive in its process.
TRP is the Art of War for men in the sexual marketplace. It encourages to know our “enemy” and to better understand her as well as ourselves so that when we meet, we will emerge from the confrontation victorious and successful on our own terms. But just as Sun Tzu was not a pacifist seeking to end all wars, we are not seeking to “change” women or alter the rules of the game. We leave that fool’s errand to MRAs and others of the like. Ultimately, we just want to capitalize on all that slutty pussy they’re leaving on the table.
What about outcome independence and IDGAF? Aren’t you not supposed to put the pussy on the pedestal? Absolutely, and this is where MGTOW loses the fucking plot. There is a strong distinction between becoming obsessed with a single woman (“one-itis”), not realizing that she’s exactly like the billions of others on the planet, and deciding to forsake the pursuit of women all together.
Outcome independence is internalizing your value, and knowing when to simply say, “Next,” and move on to another woman, not giving a fuck about the opportunity loss inherent to that decision (destroying the Myth of the Unicorn). But inherent in that process is going on to the next woman, always gaming, pursuing, closing. IDGAF is about being willing to walk away, because the person willing to leave holds the power, and power, as TRP teaches us, is an effective aphrodisiac.
By all means, minimize low-value activities like Netflix and addictive video games. Continue your real education by reading quality books, expanding your base of knowledge and intellect. Develop interesting hobbies and strive for professional achievements. Lift heavy shit and achieve a healthy body fat percentage. Live minimally because it allows you to focus on what’s important. Find solace in the process because it is hard, but do not miss the forest for the trees: Becoming the best version of yourself is valuable struggle that builds strong character and social proof, and by-product of social proof is sex.
“How is that any different from PUA or seduction then?” you might ask. The difference is PUAs rely on playbooks, gimmicks, and general bullshit to try and convince women to sleep with them. We want to you build yourself into the man that women naturally want to fuck, to transcend that PUA shit by dominating your social environment.
But make no mistake: The objective of TRP is to give men the tools for successful sexual conquest. Statements like, ”I truly believe that The Red Pill isn't only about the girls,” just indicate you don’t understand why we’re here. You may choose to voluntarily forego the dating game, to pursue some kind of solitary enlightenment. But that choice is yours, and yours alone. That does not make it TRP, and it does not change the fact that TRP is built around the principle of fucking beautiful women.
CONCLUSION:
You are free to establish your own priorities in life, but that doesn’t make them TRP’s.
Stop trying to reinterpret TRP and conform it to your belief system; take that shit elsewhere.
Crush your enemies, see them driven before you, and to hear the lamentation of their women.
Edited for typos.
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