All over america you have these rehab centers opening up. These are not for people fighting a drug habit, they are for married men who were told by their wives "either go to rehab or we get divorced".

These centers claim to help men with sex addiction, anger or other issues that the wife claims is hurting their marriage.

I call these rehab centers "Cuck Farms".

The following is based on a true story that almost went to trial in 2017.

Michael and Tina have been married for 14 years, they had 2 children. Michael was dedicated to his marriage, worked hard, ensured the family is well taken care of.

Tina was a stay at home mom. They were by no means wealthy, however, she insisted a woman's place is at home, something she was against prior to getting married, and Michael, for the sake of not breaking things up agreed.

Within a year of them having their first child things changed. Tina went from being happy and grateful to unhappy about everything her husband did.

For 14 years Michael tried everything, yet he was not able to get her to be happy, she complained about everything.

12 years into the marriage Tina decided that Michael needs to seek help. She claimed at first he has anger issues. Michael went to anger management classes once a week for 10 weeks.

As soon as those classes were over Tina suggested that they starting seeing a Marriage therapist. Michael agreed and after spending over 70 hours with therapists Tina was still not happy even though Michael changed whatever it was she said he needs to change.

Tina started going out more with her girlfriends, "girls night out". In a way Michael was a upset, however he felt if that's what keeps his marriage happy and the children not exposed to drama, so be it, let her be out.

The more she went out the more she complained as to how bad her marriage is. Her friends, (single, divorced, and married) all kept egging her on as to how bad she has it.

Never once did she claim Michael verbally or physically abused her, never once did she complain Michael was not providing for her or the kids, she simply was not happy, she stated clearly "she can not pinpoint why she was not happy".

Michael was really focused making sure the kids are not exposed to the outbursts Tina kept having. He knew they were at an age that what they experience will have a lifelong effect on them.

Slowly Tina started telling the kids that "Daddy is not well".

Tina told him to go get checked by a mental health expert, he did. The results all came back great.

Little did Michael know that Tina was talking to a divorce lawyer, and everything she was doing was by the guidance of a divorce lawyer.

Even worse, Tina started dating a convicted criminal that did three years in prison for extortion.

Why was Tina sticking around? Well, Michael's mother, a widow, was very wealthy, Michael being the only child would mean that he stands to inherit in excess of 8 million dollars plus some property.

In the summer of 2015 Tina comes home and tells Michael that she cannot take it anymore and she wants a divorce. Michael begs and says "let's at least wait until the kids are off to college".

Tina demands he goes to a Cuck Farm AKA Rehab Facility for six weeks. He begs her and tells her that he will lose his job if he takes off for 6 weeks.

At this point he has no clue why he is even being asked to check himself into a Cuck Farm.

He ends up agreeing to take off from work for two weeks and travels to another coast to check himself in, what for? Sexual addiction therapy!

Michael has no history of infidelity, he never once cheated, he is the loyal type of guy. However, a few weeks prior as he and his wife were in bed he tried to get her to have sex with him. As soon as she pulled away he stopped trying.

Her complaint (outtake from deposition) "I felt then as I feel now that after so many years of marriage he should know when I am in the mood and when I am not in the mood. Making moves on me when I am not in the mood makes me feel subhuman and I believe he did it to degrade me".

Within a few days of his return from the Cuck Farm Tina has a new idea. She says she found a unique couple therapy solution and she demands he visit the therapist.

She sets up the appointment and they both go to see the "couple therapist".

They arrive to the location, a residential doorman building.

In sworn testimony Michael described the woman who opened the door to be about 6'7 wearing big boots, he estimated she weighted 300lbs. Michael is about 5'6 and weighs 165lbs.

She ushered Michael and Tina into a room that had all types of dungeon equipment.

Michael demanded to leave right away, Tina told him he can leave but she will be filing for a divorce immediately.

Reluctantly he stayed. The dominatrix ordered him over her knees and started spanking him! She kept on using degrading language and even pulled his pants down.

Little did he know that Tina was secretly recording some of it.

An hour later he was ordered to pay $600 for this "therapy" and they both left. Tina ordered Michael to drop her off at a "girlfriends" house and promised that starting tomorrow things will be different.

Michael cried all the way home. How low has he fallen? Here he is, a hardworking man that respects his family, that does nothing to hurt anyone, and he finds himself trapped, humiliated and in his words "being controlled by demons".

He was crying so hard that he needed to pull over to the side of the freeway as his tears did not allow him to see where he was going.

The thought that she might be cheating was something he refused to entertain. At the same time he felt who cares if she is or isn't cheating, he yelled out "I HAD ENOUGH!!!"

The next morning instead of going to work he arranged for an appointment with a divorce lawyer.

He did a little research and the one that had good reviews and a history on her site of successful wins for her clients was a well known female divorce attorney that had a pretty high price tag but he did not care at this point.

He met the lawyer and spilled his heart to her. She told him "I need to know only the truth and only things we can back up with evidence, the courts are used to overly dramatic statements from the parties going through a divorce, and as a man you must have overwhelming evidence for everything you say".

Within 3 weeks the lawyer working together with a PI discovered what was really going on. Out of respect to their client they slowly fed him the information, he was very broken already.

The attorney ordered him to move out of the home and not to have any communication with his soon to be ex-wife unless she or her secretary are on the call.

Leading up to serving the divorce papers, the PI made sure to have on record conversations between Michael and Tina where Tina admitted Michael was never abusive to her or the children.

The divorce papers were served and the process server claimed "Tina thought it's a practical joke".

Michael wanted things to be smooth and he agreed to whatever Tina wanted for the sake of the kids. She got half the house and a decent amount of support / child support.

The divorce lawyer was a bit upset because she felt she can take it to trial and get Michael whatever he wants, however, Trial would almost certainly mean the public would get to know a bit too much, that public would include his children.

Few months went by and unfortunately Michael's mom passed away. She left everything to her only son.

Less than 2 days after her passing Michael gets a few screenshot images on his phone. It's from some anonymous number demanding two million dollars or they will release the video. The video was that of him with the dominatrix that was shot by Tina. The sender includes the email address of one of his kids and says they will be the first to see who their dad really is.

Michael contacts his divorce lawyer right away. She wants to go to the police and file a report, she contacts the PI that worked on this case and he runs over to the office.

The PI suspects that the person who sent it is the criminal that Tina has been seeing. That criminal did three years in prison for extortion and is still on probation!

The phone used is whats known as a "burner phone" it does not have any real identity attached to it.

The PI contacts the probation officer and tells them what is going on. The officer says that given his crime and his relationship with the person who filmed the video, they will search the home to see if the phone is in possession of the convicted felon!

Sure enough that very day the probation officer shows up and as soon as they enter the felons home they call the number, a phone rings! The felon is arrested on the spot!

The PI notifies Michael that based on the testimony of the convict, the DA wants to indict her for being part of the extortion conspiracy.

Michael said he does not care anymore what happens to her. However, because the system is very forgiving to women plus she claimed the convict took the video without her knowledge (something that could have been shown to be false during trial), the DA / Judge decided to let her plea to a lesser charge and she was given 3 years probation.

The divorce settlement was revisited and Michael got full custody of the children.

The dominatrix during her deposition claimed that herself as well as others she knows in the business do see couples. It will almost always be the guy getting "dominated". She admitted that they do place ads in places that married women read and some of the ads might have words like "Is your man being naughty? Mistress so and so can fix even the most naughtiest of men". She claimed the intention is role-play and assumed it was all role-play. She claimed she really only charges $300 for the hour but Tina insisted she charge $600 and as they walked out the dominatrix gave Tina $300 secretly!

Today Tina joins the millions of other women who were not happy in their marriage even though they had it all. Twice during her deposition did she admit she had it all and threw it away for nothing. She blamed it on "social media" and the pressure "her friends" put on her. Her friends swore to her she can be so much happier if she dumps her husband. In one deposition she said "I should have known that no woman fights for another woman to be happier".

Michael on the other hand has joined the millions of men who live the MGTOW lifestyle. He is dedicated to making sure his children have every opportunity to make it in this difficult world. He is also dedicated to making sure that he lives a happy life, something he says "will be impossible if he brings any woman into his life".

A special thank you to Michael (Name changed) for sharing the deposition transcripts with me and providing me with data that helped me write this post.

In his own words:

"Love is like Heroin. When you are newly in love you will only do so much to stay with that person. The deeper and longer you stay with that person the crazier you will become with your actions in order to maintain that love.

Heroin addicts will not kill anyone after they only took one hit. The more they take the more they need, and before you know it they can justify murdering someone for their next hit.

Do not full in love because it does not exist. What does exist is a situation whereas a woman needs something from you and for that period of time they will make you feel loved, that something could be your looks, money or how being with you makes HER feel. It has NOTHING to do with you.

The moment you can no longer give her what makes her feel good (in most cases something beyond your control) you become worthless, hated and despised! If you do not learn from my experience, don't worry, you will learn from your own.

Right about the time that I got married other men I knew got married too, almost all went through divorce hell by now, some more than once and some going on their third time, we all thought our situation is unique and the girl we are marrying is different. Remember this post, once day it will come to your mind as your are standing in divorce court and you are being humiliated and destroyed for all to see."