My buddy and I went out for drinks with his fiance and a couple of our other friends. Buddy got a call from work, our friends decided to go talk to girls leaving me to entertain the fiance.
She's acceptably bangable, 7/10 ginger, nice tits and ass. My buddy is a 5'6 4/10 programmer so it's a nice pull for him, though I definitely discouraged him from proposing. We're in our late 30s. It turns out that this girl is very unusual.
The girl and I did shots to celebrate the engagement, and as she got tipsy the secrets came out. She showed me an old pic of her on her phone- she was a WHALE. She weighed over 250 pounds in high school and college. She said she lost 125 pounds over the past two years. She really does look great considering that.
But then it got better. She leaned in and told me a secret. After she lost the weight she went and had plastic surgery, liposuction and a natural butt augmentation to make sure that she'd stay that way. Once you have lipo, the fat never goes back to that area. It was her reward to herself for losing the weight.
I congratulated her again, and she reassured me that my buddy knows about this. In fact, he's thrilled, because (and she said this) he knows she's committed to being skinny and hot for the entirety of their marriage.
I had so many questions that weren't appropriate to ask. How does this girl know that that's our primary concern- that they'll stay fuckable forever? Does her knowing mean she came from a broken home? Is that what happened to her mother? I didn't sense any hard edge or jadedness on her, she was all wide-eyed and thrilled that any guy would want her. She lost her virginity to my buddy (he boasted about that). Does the fact that she now outranks his SMV make their marriage a ticking time bomb? Does the fact that she seems to understand a bit make her a better prospect or a worse one? Since he took her V-card and stayed with her, there's no doubt she's pair bonded to him. That's what Redpill considers the ideal situation right? She's a 7/10 with the mentality of a 3/10 since she went through her entire adolescence as an invisible fat chick.
Obviously I'm never getting married. But I was wondering what this sub thinks of their slightly unusual situation.
Edit: He's 38 and never married, she's 29 and the latest bloomer I've ever seen.
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