Hamstering

/u/Wildwildwes17 made an excellent post the other day about the male hamster .

To summarize he said:

What the male hamster does is try to rationalize present choices to be congruent with past choices SIMPLY because "you" made that choice already

And then follows up with:

The male hamster works like a feedback loop, it influences your current choice to match previous choices.

A lot of readers of the TRP understand this, and can see how in their pre-TRP days they rationalized away their beta tendencies.

However, there is a growing group of regular TRP readers who have kicked the hamster into overdrive and are not aware of it.

These are the people who came to TRP, read the sidebar, and then finally understood how the the world really worked and why they have struggled so much in past relationships - and go on to hamster away why they are still not getting laid.

MGTOW

I am referring to the MGTOW pussies.

Remember, from the side bar:

The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men.

Did you read that? It says SEXUAL STRATEGY. The reason for discussing sexual strategy and improving your social market value is SO THAT YOU CAN SLAY PUSSY.

Yes, having a positive identity can impact all aspects of your life. However, you are not complete as a man if you are not slaying pussy.

If you are also using the Red Pill to improve other aspects of your life, as you should be, there is one system of measurement to see how well you are improving: How much pussy you are slaying.

This measurement doesn't lie. If you are not slaying pussy, you are not actually improving these other aspects of your life in a meaningful way, because if you were women would be attracted to you and you would have the confidence to approach them and seal the deal.

Society

Society didn't just up and decide one day the AF/BB framework.

It is a product of the entirety of evolution.

If you are not fucking you are not Alpha. If women don't want to fuck you, you are not Alpha.

10% of the men will slay 80% of the women.

If you are not one of those men, you are not Alpha.

If you have decided to be in a monogamous relationship and have a family: if you are not dicking down your wife 5 times a week you are not Alpha. and if her friends, sisters, cousins, and your coworkers are not wanting to fuck you, you are not Alpha.

How do you get to be one of the 10%? That is what this sub is about. However, it is HARD WORK. While a lucky few were born this way, the rest of us have to work at it and the work never stops. It means going to the gym, giving your best to everything that you do (work, taking care of yourself, nutrition, etc). More importantly it means overcoming the mental programming that made you a beta in the first place. If you can't get over that, you won't be able to dedicate yourself to the gym, overcoming the fears of approaching women, etc.

MGTOW is simply a hamster for all of you who NEVER FUCKED WOMEN and STILL DON'T FUCK WOMEN, and ARE NEVER GOING TO FUCK WOMEN.

When you were betas and you were frustrated that the girls in high school and college were fucking the "bad boys" even though they said they wanted a "nice guy" you were not getting any pussy.

You are still not getting pussy, and the women are still fucking the bad boys until they hit the wall, and after that some poor sap with money once a month (to be fair, you do have a chance at being that guy).

All that has happened between your time as the "nice guy" and now is that you are too fucking lazy to do the work it takes to be Alpha, and you have decided that the reason you aren't getting laid is not because you are a beta pussy, but because you have decided you don't actually want to. It's bullshit and you know it. When you see the women leave the bar with the bad boy you are just as jealous as you were in college when she did the same thing. Now, however, your brain kicks into overdrive and you lie to yourself "that's ok, I don't want to be the guy that gets to fuck the hot chicks anyway".

It's all crap.

STD's

"Ok, Ok" some of you say. "I want to slay pussy but....." (Then you repeat something you learned in MGTOW.)

One of the most common things you repeat is "I don't want to fuck women because I don't want to get an STD".

Let me tell you something. I have lived all over the world, including in the third world. While I do well in the pussy department now, I was once a beta "nice guy" and only fucked my gold-digging then wife once a month at best. But, I have always had Alpha friends. I can tell you one thing: In my entire life I have never heard an Alpha guy worry about STD's to the point that it keeps them from fucking. Not once. That doesn't mean one shouldn't practice safe sex, but every Alpha guy I know slips up and confesses having bare-backed a chick somewhat regularly.

The STD thing is another scare that our feminized society has put into your brain to keep you from being men and slaying pussy.

Alpha men have ravaged the pussy landscape since the beginning of human history. STD's have always been around. Back in the day, there wasn't even medicine to treat them, yet Alpha men still ravaged pussy.

How is this possible? I'll tell you how. The STD scare is just that: A scare.

This article details the statistics: https://markmanson.net/std-guide

The simple fact is that your chance of getting anything that will negatively impact your life (or make it worse than having your current life as a beta pussy) is infinitesimal.

Conclusion

If you are not fucking women you are not Alpha. Don't let the MGTOW hamster and it's number one piece of bullshit, STD's, keep you from improving yourself and fucking women.

Read the side bar. Do the work. Fuck women, and the report back to us.

Until then you are just a beta who happened to stumble upon this forum.