This is a long story.

Family background There was a kid who grew up in a middle class family. He was born when the dad was 40 years old, mom was 34. He had an older brother who was 10 years older than him.

He had everything a child could ask for. Never lacking any basic necessities or resources. Dad was an academic, worked his ass off doing PhD in his field and making a reputable career for himself. Worked long hours, publications, research, grants etc. Mom was working in a bank. Started as a teller and rising in her career to back offices steadily.

Family environment The home environment was generally peaceful, academia oriented but not necessarily publicly affectionate.

Education was given a high priority. The dad was PhD, mom was the youngest of 6 and perhaps the most educated, the older brother was sincerely focused in school, going to great colleges and making a career for himself, following his dad's path. The kid learned to play the guitar, was in reasonably good shape and smart kid. He had a lifetime of opportunity and success staring at him right in his face.

As mentioned before, the father used to be a bit of a workaholic, enforced strict boundaries and wanted the kids to be well-educated, sometimes harshly by scaring the kids. The mother on the other hand was the more kind, gentle and affectionate one. She was more understanding of pressures, homework, school life etc. She didn't really keep tabs on the kids much but she was always available to help.

In fact, the mother was very well-regarded in society. She was social, nice, caring and gentle. She took care of her aging parents, shared information, cooked food despite working her career and 2 kids. She spoke with her sisters every day and kept everyone in the loop.

She lacked a romantic life that women dream of. Roses, date-nights, affection, emotional intimacy. This was primarily because the dad was working hard and mom was taking care of family things. People felt natural pity for her. Everyone thought she lucked out in having a good husband, but unfortunately, financial and family circumstances take a toll on her.

Relationship with mother The kid grew up adoring the mother. He could see her working hard. She complained from time to time but usually did her job well. She was the symbol of a great mother. A real WOMAN. The kid loved the mother. There were times he argued with her in his childish growth phase but he trusted her, he trusted that she has everything in control. Every child thinks their parents are in control and can be relied on.

The kid grew up adoring the mother.

The real story When the kid was 12, the older brother went a few thousand miles away for more education. The house suddenly became emptier now that the older brother wasn't home. Dad started working more since his career was rising high. Mom used to nag him to study a lot. Annoying, but hey, education was important.

One time, he happened to stumble upon his mom's phone and wanted to play some game on it. What does he find there? Text messages saying, "I love u". Hmm, the kid was curious. He never heard his parents say this out to each other. He opens the text and finds the message was to mom's boss at work.

A pang of fear sears through the kid's heart. What is going on? Mom saying I love you to boss? Is this normal? he's curious, scared and unsure. He wants to share this info with his brother, his best friend but not sure how to articulate it. He's 12, he doesn't know what's going on.

A few days later, the boss guy comes home with mom. They are talking and talking while this kid is playing video games. They go into the bedroom, mom locks the door. The kid knows something is up but not sure what. Unable to take it, he runs to the door, knocks on it. Mom comes out all flustered, the boss staring at the window. The kid asks, "What are you doing mom?". Mom replies, "Mom's showing your boss some book" (note the third person of the liar).

The truth The 12 yr old kid wasn't such a fool after all. He realized that this was an affair. This was the first time he knew about how sex happens. This incident shattered the image of his mom. To add to his trouble, everyone in society still thinks she's a great mother, a great person. She lies and lies about every thing. She is a spoiled bratty kid who just wants what she wants. She stands on a pedestal cuz she lucked out in her career (by sucking dick) and has a morally responsible husband. The kid starts going crazy. Can nobody see that this is all a lie? It's all a front to hide her truth.

Impact on the kid's life He went into depression, was constantly searching and learning about sex and neglected everything else in life. He had no one to share this with. He started crying often all by himself. He neglected his school, his social life.

A few years went by and he learned that mom the great was periodically banging different bosses. He came to know of 3 affairs in the span of 5 years. In order to not hurt his family's social image and to not confront the mom, he became a pathological liar. Lying about every single thing he did. Lying became a way of life.

5 years later, he went into college, having insane trust issues with women and he feels scared to be in a relationship with a girl anymore. He has a good girlfriend but he can't enjoy the relationship at all. He also researched a lot about relationships, infidelity and love. But self help is not good sometimes. He keeps getting mixed messages online. The emotional turmoil for so many years ruined his growth from a boy to a man. He just couldn't learn the stoic, goal oriented path his older brother was following, blissfully unaware of what was happening back home.

Sharing the story with his brother Finally in college, the kid shared this with his brother. They both shared stories, listened to each other. Turns out, the brother was quite red-pilled. He taught his brother to notice how there are two types of men, the ones who are resolute, strong and can handle shit, the others who are pushovers. He taught his brother how to accept female nature and be forgiving but to hold them responsible for their actions. They cannot be allowed to have an image of princesses if they are being manipulative. When the kid broke down while sharing this story with his brother, the brother hid his own sadness and said, "Hey little one, don't worry. I'm there for you".

The older brother shared how with his red-pilled knowledge, he understands his mother to be a narcissistic, manipulative woman who portrays a picture of an "amazing woman" while scheming against her husband and other family members. Sure she didn't get a lot of affection and cheated cuz she craved it. It was the dad's fault to some degree. But did the kids deserve to suffer the consequences of it. What fault is it of the kids? The mother has never made a call by herself to the older brother in the last 6 years. NEVER. What is this love?

The kid also learned that his father probably had an affair after learning about her mom's indiscretions but tried very hard to hide it from kids. He was the one making retirement plans, saving for college, making sure no harm happens to the kids. Unlike the mother, he wouldn't discuss family issues in front of kids. The mother would constantly bitch about other people, sitting on the phone whole day and gossiping crap, shopping on weekends and basically being shit with finances (she works in a bank lol ;))

The kid listens to his older brother. He understands his mother better from a man he trusts. The two brothers are on the same frequency with similar understanding. He is learning how to not let emotions affect him and how to build a life for himself. He is distancing himself from his parents so that he can focus on his own mission and own life.

It's going to be hard to recover from so many years of emotional abuse but he can see hope, he can see a way. He stopped his crying and wants to be more resolute. He can see how actions have repercussions and wants to make sure that if he has kids, they are sheltered from this crap until they are mature and able to handle this.

This kid had a life planned out by his dad who made sacrifices and the selfish whore of the mother just wanted her own desires satisfied.

This kid was my younger brother. My brother doesn't even realize how he has inherited a shitty future for himself due to the actions of a selfish mother. I wish he had said all this to me 6 years ago and not now. I wish we'd had this red-pilled conversation sooner. I hate my bitch mother for bringing her emotional imbalances to my 12-yr old brother. It has scarred him for life.

TL;DR

  • Kid grew up adoring his socially popular mother
  • At the young age of 12, learns that she is cuckolding his father and the social image is basically a lie
  • Kid becomes a pathological liar, neglects his own life, develops issues
  • Shares this with his brother 6 years later, who was blissfully unaware until now
  • Red-pilled brother can see how this bitch of a mother has ruined his brother's entire life
  • Beware of the selfish mother(or wife/sister/grandmother).