Hello fellow brothers at TRP. I, like most of us, am on my way to recovery from the BP mindset. If you're just started taking TRP it might seem like a lot, it might be hard to accept that AWALT, but they really are. Women may have different temperaments around the world (Konnichiwa from Japan), but really AWALT. This post is intended for new members in the TRP community who are looking for some direction in their recovery.

First: A couple of books/articles/concepts you should have read yesterday: The entire side bar, The best of Rational Male- Year one (Blog), The way of the superior man, The Charisma Myth, 48 Laws of power, The Art of Seduction, Video compilation nuke (thread on TRP), and The Game (Not because it teaches you game, but it has the valuable lesson that women can't complete you or fulfill your life). Make sure you check out the threads on power talk, especially if you're someone who can't read between the lines. Of course there are many great books(more then what I mentioned), but I can only recommend these at the moment. They will give you a deeper understanding then just reading forum posts on reddit (Where many of us are recovering BPers, not experts).

Second: Although as men we have sexual needs, this is only one area of our life. Just the way obese people try to eat away their sadness and feed themselves to ease the hole in their soul, TRP is about the truth and Self improvement first, Women afterwards. If you make women your mission not only will you become a total tool, but you're only living a shallow shell of a life, although women are great (to fuck) there are so many things you could be doing for yourself before and after you get your dick wet.

Third: Be honest with yourself and what you want, Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. Too many people give up important roles in their life, Approval of ones actions, self, etc... If what you want doesn't keep anyone from living their life to the fullest, why shouldn't you do it? Don't let anyone, even me, tell you what you have to do. Remember the crabs in a bucket mentality always applies when people watch you improve yourself, some don't want to watch you succeed because it either makes them feel bad about themselves, or they don't want to be left behind.

Onto the show..

I opened up a cute Japanese girl in Tokyo (I live here), by asking her where a store was. These are some of my best openers (asking for assistance) because I fit the role (I'm not Japanese in the slightest), Most of the time I actually want help (I can't read Japanese, only speak) when I open up girls this way. I've heard this called the "Big Brother(Sister?) opener". You ask a question and put them in a position above you. I used my favorite way to get her number, "We should talk again sometime" - wait for response, "How can I get a hold of you?" If they want to talk with you again, they'll find away. If not, take the hint and try again with someone else.

A lot of guys get caught up on openers, because they over think it. For me, simple is better. Just go talk to her right away so you don't start to second guess yourself. Show her your frame, be funny, etc.. Make a good first impression, make it short IMO.

Planning the date: There's some great threads on how to arrange a date. I have tried, "When are you free?" Which never works for me. Instead I just casually invite them to something I am already going to do. "Hey I'm going out next weekend, come along if you're free." Sure some people are actually busy and can't accommodate you on that day, but the people that really want to see you will make an effort, and usually let you know when they're free afterwards. If someone is reluctant to meet you, give up on them and find someone who isn't. If no one is interested in meeting you, rethink your whole life. Go radio silent until the day of the date, only to confirm meeting place etc...

I spent a couple nights out making mistakes so you don't have to, take my advice or don't. Either way do what works for you, if you can't sing don't try to serenade her etc...

The venue: Bad first dates are: Movies, Dinner, anything with more talking then doing. Think: Lazer Tag, Fucking in the woods, The Beach/Pool (You've been lifting right?) Anything Exciting. You're living a fun life and you're just taking her along for the ride. As the Man you are the lead Do not as her what she wants to eat, don't ask her what she wants to do, you don't even have to tell her shit until you're already doing it (My personal favorite). She wants you to choose and take the lead, you're the man.

For this instance I took her to get share some Ice cream. (For me not her, I fucking love Ice-cream.) Then I tested the waters by suggesting we cook dinner together (at my place). This is great because it's indirect. You can use anything to get her in your domain, mention your guitar and she has to listen to you play, mention your XYZ and she has to see it, tell her how good your tap water is. Just give her some excuse to come to your place, if she wants to she will. (Funny enough I asked one girl to show me how to use my washing machine (Again can't read Japanese) because it was getting delivered that day and I actually had to be there for the delivery. We fucked before the washing machine even got there, and she didn't notice or care when it got there. Once you get a girl to your place the battle is 95% over. Since TRP I have always closed after getting a girl to my place. Ps: Make sure it's clean. Don't give them any reason to say no.

Escalation: There's a couple ways you can do this, verbally, and physically. I personally prefer to shut up and let my hands talk for me, especially if I'm in public because you can be pretty subtle about it.

Teasing: Great thread on how to tease (Just use the search box, "how to tease") Teases should be obviously fake, funny, NON ADVERSARIAL / NON COMBATIVE. Take it whatever direction you want. Make it sexual. Be confident and don't apologize even if you take it too far. "Looks like you're enjoying that ice cream just a little bit too much"

Kino: Start this shit as soon as possible - there are lots of good threads on kino. Arms/Shoulders/Hands > Legs > Face/Hair is the direction I usually take. Think of it like petting your dog. Your dog wants you to pet it. If you don't pet your dog it's going to wonder why the fuck you're ignoring it. Women are the same way (Children basically) They want to be touched, they just want to be conformable while you do it. I can't emphasize enough how important kino is. Try it for yourself. She said I was like an escort, (since I took the lead like a man, also had to explain to her what that actually means) So I put my arm out and let her play the part. Since you've been lifting, getting a girl to touch your rock hard shoulders, arms, or chest will be like candy for them since they're so many fat betas who put no effort at all into themselves.

Women have different hot spots, once they're comfortable with you touching them touch their ears, inside the thighs, The Neck, obviously the lips, Boobs and Ass. Some have different preferences, if she's not moaning like a cougar in heat, you're doing it wrong. Pro tip: Instead of putting your hands inside her pants/panties right away, rub the inside of her thigh, right where it meets her pelvis for a little bit. The anticipation kills most women and make panties drop faster then SJW's at a Milo Yiannopoulos conference. When you do reach in her pants/underwear take your time before you finger her, play with her pubs, or rub her pubic bone if she's shaved (If you're coming to Japan women don't shave their pussies as a rule of thumb) This will build up the anticipation even more.

Conversation: My personal recommendation is to spend less time talking and more time doing, for the love of god talking dries them up fast. There's a couple dynamics to a good conversation, I bring them up because these are mistakes I have made in the past, and I hope my fellow brothers can learn from my failures.

TWA: Thoughts, Words, Actions. All of these need to be in synch. If they're not you'll come off as fake, and yes, people can tell.

Cocky + Funny - Neediness: Be confident, be cocky, be funny, but don't qualify yourself. If you want to show yourself off, do it subtly. Don't tell them how great you are, show them. One of my favorite replys to a compliment is, "Thanks, everyone says so". Don't put yourself above her (in a obvious way) and make her feel bad because you're better then her. Think Enders Game.

Push + Pull: Lord knows I was fucking this up for too long. Don't take the phrase, "Girls love assholes" too literally. Girls still want to be special. I was fucking this up with too much push, and not enough pull. Don't put them down to stand on top of them. Let them think they're in charge (on the surface). Don't agree with them too much either. Even if you want to do something for them, tell them no a couple of times, make them work for it. It's more fun for everyone. More on this later

The way I worked push pull is kissed her, and pulled away Before she wants me to stop. Women love/Hate this and they want you all the more for it because you're in control. She starts talking about it's her first time, and wants me to jump through hoops to get to the goal. Nope. Freeze out. Push that bitch off of you, pick up your phone, and start texting your homies. During a freeze out, whoever talks first looses (like in business sometimes right?) Then she asks me who I like/love (it's vague in Japanese). Sure bitch, I can love you for tonight.

Fuck her so good she can never forget you: I'm usually a little skeptical when women tell me they're a virgin (Another story for another time) but she was telling the truth. (You'll know, trust me). When TRP tells you a women wants to fuck you or she doesn't, that couldn't be any more true. (Desire is non negotiable) A women will go to the end of the earth to clamp down an alpha male and hamster it all along the way. I had never seen someone try so hard to fit my dick inside them. (It was a struggle trust me, but worth it) You might feel bad that it's hurting them, or that they're making weird animal noises and shit, but don't. If they don't want it, they'll tell you. Besides if you don't give it to them, someone else will. Ps: I accidentally poked her right in the eye and she didn't seem to mind, She just hamstered it away ("It's dark so it's not your fault"). Seems like the hamster works in mysterious ways, both for and against you. Can't tell you much more then that most (ALWALT) women like rough sex. Pulling her hair (at the roots), Choking (don't kill her), biting, spanking. Girls pretend to be these fragile creatures until you're fucking them and the depths of which they are willing to go would drown most men.

Note: I also notice a lot of women that have trouble sleeping are total nyphos, anyone else see this?

Brothers I know this was a lengthy post, I hope some can find it useful, and other amusing.

-TheBitterTruth