H.L. Mencken once said that loving a woman is impossible for those who have had any experience with them. I have always found this to be the case and I fully support his attitude. It was only when I was less experienced that I bought the narrative of relationships, love, marriage and white picket fences and what's more I actually wanted them. I'm young - 24, but since finding MGTOW I feel unplugged from the matrix and I advise my friends to do the same, which brings me to my point:

There's a 21 year old guy who hangs out at the same place I do that's a virgin, and I swear this guy just breaks my heart. He is so hung up on losing his virginity, and desperately yearns for a relationship - basically desiring validation. I've talked to this guy and I know I'm not telling him what he wants to hear: I don't push PUA/seduction/redpill shit. I think that's basically what men expect to discuss when the topic is courting women.

I'm firm on my standpoint that it's a complete waste of time. It's learning the moves to a ritual, a dance. Sex is so overrated. I had sex earlier this week with a woman and it didn't happen because I'm a juiced-up Casanova who read 10 e-books on gaming women, it was just me existing in the right place at the right time and she was bored. And it was just sex. Sex is just sex. It's riding a merry-go-round. I have the impression that the 21-year-old guy thinks that when he loses his virginity all his problems will somehow magically be solved and once he has sex it'll somehow transcend anything else he's ever felt. Like I said, breaks my heart.