19 y/o. I'm a relatively new lurker. I want to focus all my time and attention to improving myself and my life, and not get distracted by women.

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May 4, 2016

But every time it just feels 'bad' to say 'No, I have no girlfriend' or to see friends having loads of fun having their girlfriends and fucking them like crazy.

I'm not jealous, I'm conflicted. I feel as if I choose MGTOW because 'I can't get a woman anyway, so let's act as if it's a goal, instead of the blame being on me'.

Any tips and/or thoughts? Thank you.

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Title 19 y/o. I'm a relatively new lurker. I want to focus all my time and attention to improving myself and my life, and not get distracted by women.
Author WolfofAnarchy
Upvotes 16
Comments 9
Date 04 May 2016 08:13 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit MGTOW
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/635294
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/4hwdzv/19_yo_im_a_relatively_new_lurker_i_want_to_focus/
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[–]foomberry5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

MGTOW is about not confronting to the norms we are expected to follow and choosing your own path. You need to ask yourself if you can take the risk of being a tool, because many relationships are just that; you are a tool and once you are of no use you will be tossed to the side.

Who needs a love interest when you can fill that with your hobbies, friends, and some other stuff the internet will gladly provide you? No relationship means more "you" time. It is rather easy to replace that craving for a relationship with other stuff.

But you are still young, so give yourself some time to review your options. Read the stories other men have published about their misery with a relationship and understand what to look out for.

[–]TFCNU4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Look. You're 19. Go online, go on a few dates. Fuck a few women. Especially at your age, no one is going to be surprised if it doesn't go anywhere. If the aura of the golden uterus makes everything you hear from MGTOW seem crazy, so be it. No one's the wiser if you go back to the plantation. However, if after getting your dick wet a few times, you still think long term relationships and marriage are piss poor decisions, you'll know it wasn't because you couldn't do it.

[–]Botanical-Concepts3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Some people here think you can't be MGTOW unless you have been scarred by personal experience with women. I personally don't think so. But I do think a lack of experience with women will affect how well you stick with MGTOW. A 40 year old man who had plenty of women when he was younger and went through love, marriage and divorce is far less likely to "go back to the plantation". For alot of younger more inexperienced guys, women hold more of an alure.

[–]mgtow4ever4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Why does it feel bad.. It shouldn't its pointless. Don't let the shit get to you.

[–]Yakatonker2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

You're young and your testosterone levels are maxed so you'll feel the nuisance of the thirst full force for some time. If you want, money, women, power or a better social footing you're still going to have to play by the invisible rules, as in you should seriously ingest what's in TRP. I read the content there constantly as a reminder of what I'm dealing with in the real world. Plus it helps to know what, how and why the enemy of man thinks the way they think.

As for a more direct response you are experiencing these specific emotions of jealousy because you perceive your friends as having a high degree of social value as in it granting them the social liquidity for sexual release. You may be angry at them, yourself for perceiving your lessened access in the human market. You need to understand where these valuations of self come from, you need to also understand that if you want something to materialize its on you to make it happen, that is the unfortunate nature of being a man.

[–]DrunkWiseman1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

There are likely men who can't get women who decide to go MGTOW. Makes it easier to live like that. Some days I feel this way. The reality however is you really have to explore and see what lifestyle is right for you. You may find you like being with women despite all the risks that come later in life if you choose to enter a long term relationship, or marriage. There are certainly blue-pill men in relationships these days who are more-or-less okay. They've either found a decent woman or they've figured out how to keep their women in their place, both extremely difficult tasks in today's gender climate, hence why you see so many men checking out.

[–]oldredder1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

You can fuck women but if you let them control you because of sex you lose. You can fuck women without relationships.

Those men aren't telling you later what bullshit they put up with. I've seen it, I've lived it and I would not go back.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

19yo?? well.. I bet you want to be mgtow because hot, sexy young girls dont give a shit about you - it is not good way to be mgtow. it is easy way out and you can regret it later - take trp first.

[–]ss_camaro1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

If you feel the urge, 'rub it out' or get to know prostitutes; most honest women alive: horribly so.

Welcome to life as it is: no entanglements, no cohabitation, no ooops-preggers, no prison, no plantation.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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