Summary: Even woman well on the other side of the wall believe they will still find that hot and well off provider, and questions why all the guys she wants that are her age are off banging twenty year old girls.
Body:
I’m very young-looking and very active: I hike, kayak, etc. I keep my mind and body healthy and just want to go out and enjoy life. But, most men in my age group (54) can — and do — date women 10 and 20 years younger.
So basically she's saying "I'm post wall and can't find the attractive billionaire provider I think I'm entitled to."
This sucks! So I’m supposed to date a 70-year-old? How did we end up here? — Girls just wanna have fun
So she's bitching and moaning about men not dating women they don't find attractive, only to then also bitch about not wanting to date men she doesn't find attractive. AWALT.
The response:
What you should have written was “most men in my age group (54) who’ve got it going on can — and do — date women” who are younger.
HAHA, damn, that's straight up redpill truth right there.
You know, I’m quite sure I’ve gotten letters from men a little thick through the middle and light of hair on top complaining about contemporaries not noticing them. And you’re probably both right. Genetic imperatives die hard. And our genes, like it or not, are driving us toward breedability even if we’re not interested in breeding.
Translation: "You want top tier men, the rest are invisible to you."
But yes, to answer your first question: Find yourself a 70-year-old man (something you say like it is less than desirable) who’s got it going on. They exist. And a good handful of them best their not-so-careful 54-year-old contemporaries. If he’s taking care of himself enough to compete with the men you desire, he’ll be around longer. Or a 60-year-old man. Or a 62-year-old man. Or a 58-year-old.
Even older alpha fucks. I'm pretty sure this also means 'older guy with tons of money.'
Look, though the stats seem to indicate that women live longer — meaning your choices will start to thin out — there’s no reason to suffer, especially as, according to every anecdotal measure in the places that write about such things, older women are increasingly hooking up with younger men. So what are you waiting for?!?
There are a ton of beta's out there that this chick wouldn't have given a second thought in her 20's that she might hook up with now so she can maintain a claw like grip on the delusion that she's still as desirable as she was in her 20's. Otherwise she needs to adjust her standards to her new reality.
http://www.ozy.com/wildcard/coital-chill-out-older-women-and-sex-tricks/65549?utm_source=aah1&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=pp&utm_content=inf_10_92_2&tse_id=INF_a81fead093b011e6bd3ee3ca348530db
Conclusions:
Women really don't notice low SMV guys. There are probably a number of guys that aren't peak this woman could date, but they aren't Chad, so she bitches and moans about not being able to find a guy.
The fact that she has to be told, in a circumspect way, to lower her standards. That never even occurred to her.
There is really an inverse as to the slope that SMV takes here, as younger girls at peak SMV tend to date older guys, and older guys date younger girls. Basically people are dating at points where their SMV equals out, and it is at different stages of growth.
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