TL;DR: You won't get laid by being agreeable and trying to get her to like your ideas. All that matters is attraction.


This Sunday I was horny and talked to a girl I matched with on Happn (similar to Tinder). Real hottie, but a feminist (specifies this on her profile).

We meet up at 9pm, talk a little. I can tell she's a die hard feminist. She brings it up, I shut down the conversation, escalate, touch, etc. Anyway, after an hour of talking and some playful touching/kissing, she asks me what I think about Trump.

Keep in mind, at this point she's already shown very strong attraction towards me, both since I'm good looking and because I lead the conversation like a real man (various times she commented on how refreshing it was to be with a masculine guy). So the topic of Trump comes up. I tell her that yes I'd vote for him and that I think he's a lot of fun.

I let the topic continue, and let her branch out into other questions (I told her that no, I don't think rape victims should be legally believed in the lack of evidence, that no, I could care less what Trump is caught saying, since it's just words, and that yes, saying you grab women by the pussy is something I myself have said and every male friend I have has said something of the same degree at some point of his life).

White knights would think "wow... this guy is not getting laid. He basically told her that he's everything she hates". And I did. But that doesn't matter. We went to a motel and fucked later that night after a few more drinks. (And no, she did not scream rape, even though she was drunk, and happily texted me the next day). Women cry rape if she regrets the sex or thinks you took advantage of her horribly. If she loved the night, and nobody knows she was a slut, she won't have a reason to try and make your life hell.


And what are some of the high quotes I got from her?

  1. "I'm such a bad feminist, this goes against everything feminism teaches" (when I was pulling off her clothes).

  2. "If you weren't so good looking I'd never be doing this".

  3. "I'm just using you for sex. We'd never work out, we're too different" (Probably hamstering away the first two points, and also hamstering the fact that she knows I won't want to see her again probably).


All in all, this is a short FR, and while I don't really do field reports, I thought I'd write this one down, since it is different, and shows some unique angles that aren't seen quite so often, whether because members on the subreddit stay away from feminists, or whatever other reason.

So Lesson: It's not what you say. It's how you say it, and how well you hold frame when challenged. She hated that I disagreed with all her shit, but she LOVED that I was convicted in my views and didn't topple all over when challenged. That's a masculine trait. White knights will NOT GET LAID, because while the women appreciate the support they give, they know it's out of desperation. And desperation turns pussies dry. Instead of trying to do everything to be agreeable, stick to your damn principles and virtues, and you'll come out more attractive because of it.