This is a story of how I was blackmailed, hunted, stalked, and harassed by a Borderline Personality Disordered woman and how it ruined my life and caused me to get fired from the police academy (a dream of mine since my youth). I’ll do the best I can to be as thorough as I can. This will be the most difficult thing I’ve ever had to write in my life. It’s hard to relive this nightmare which continues to this very day.

I met her on a online dating site (out of embarrassment, I won’t say which one) in the winter of 2015. I was feeling very lonely, horny, and alone. The picture she had posted was deceitful. It was well over 10 years old. The picture was of a plain looking white middle aged woman with dark brown hair and eyes. I’ve noticed that most Borderline women have this look (See Jacqueline Ades case).

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She had seemed ok chatting online. Nothing out of the ordinary. We exchanged phone numbers (a huge mistake, in retrospect. I should have used a burner phone). We had agreed to meet at a mid level hotel. She was from out of state. She was in my state because she was the defendant (Red Flag! I should have ghosted her IMMEDIATELY upon learning this.) in a stalking and harassment case. She explained to me that it was a misunderstanding. Naive fool that I was and horny to get laid desperately (which clouded my judgement), I reluctantly believed her.

So, I haven’t met her in person yet. We had been chatting, texting (always keep your texts from women because you will need them for your defense in court. Learn from my mistake!), and talking over the phone. We had agreed to meet on this fateful day in January of 2016. A day that will ruin my life for years to come . A meeting which will not only cost me $100+ dollars for the room but thousands of dollars in legal fees and visits to the doctor for intense, severe, anxiety, and panic attacks (which has never happened to me before ever at no point in my life).

So I get the room. I call to let her know the room number. As I wait in great nervousness for this strange woman to arrive (which seemed like hours but was only about 20 minutes), a knock sounds on the hotel room door. What a surprise! She is not the 40 year old woman in the picture who weighs about 135 pounds. Instead, I am greeted by a 55 year old, 5’3, 200 pound, pock marked woman with heavy makeup on and the stench of cheap cigarettes 🚬. I give her a hug. She’s bearing a doll and several gifts 🎁 for me (another red flag 🚩. More on this later). She immediately tells me she loves me. Whenever a woman comes on strong like this so fast (she just met me!), this is a strong indication of Borderline Personality Disorder. Run and get away as fast as you can if a woman exhibits this type of behavior. They’ll almost always have a history of violence, harassment, and stalking (which I later discovered she had all 3).

So we make out, we take our clothes off, and we have 5 minutes of uneventful unprotected (mistake! This is used against me later by her.) sex. I feel disgusted with myself for having sex with an unattractive, old, lying, pig 🐖 of a woman. As much as I try to hide the self-hatred and loathing, I can not. I tell her thank you, “I’m really sorry but I have to get to work because I’m late” and leave without taking her stupid gifts with me. I quickly dress, ran out the room, and check out of the hotel as fast as I can resolved never to see this woman again.

Unbeknownst to me, she has gone down to the front desk and obtained a copy of the hotel invoice which has my real name (mistake!), home address (mistake!), car information (mistake!), and real license plate (mistake!) number. This will be used to stalk and harass me later on. Also unbeknownst to me, she has disgustingly collected my semen mixed with her blood 🩸 and has collected it in a vial 🧪 in order to blackmail me with rape unless I agree to see her again. She has wiped her disgusting vagina with a washcloth and places this into a ziplock bag to be used as evidence and blackmail against me. I had given her little details about my work (mistake!) and she hunts down where I work and blackmails me there at my office number (because I had blocked her on my phone).

Using my information, she paid an online service approximately $60 to get my date of birth (using my license plate, she gets my driver’s license information from the MVA/DMV) and obtains my social security number in order to open up many fraudulent credit cards in my name (she has the worst credit rating number possible and several bankruptcies on her record. My credit is excellent) and takes out several loans. Again, this woman is a complete stranger which at this point, had only met one time. I had to file a police report to report identity theft. I had no proof of this so the police did not press charges (if I had been a woman making the same claim, I’m sure the perpetrator would have been arrested that very day). Using the police report I had to file a claim with the Federal Trade Commission for identity theft which puts a block on anyone (including me) opening credit cards and loan for up to 7 years. This has been a great annoyance, as you can imagine, having to prove that I am me every time I’ve applied for a mortgage, car loan, and credit card account.

She (it) calls me at work the next day. She is angry for having been ghosted and for leaving her stupid gifts behind. She calls me from one of her many burner cell phones and texts me pictures of the semen vial which she had collected, and the bloody rag in the ziplock bag which she had used to clean herself off with. While I was in the bathroom, she placed a GPS device in one of my jacket pockets to track down where I live and work. I threw it away (HUGE mistake. I should have kept this for evidence to be used in my defense later). She had also setup a device which took pictures of me naked and us having sex. These pictures are also texted to me. She angrily threatens me that if I do not agree to meet her for sex the next day, she will mail all of these embarrassing pictures to every neighbor on my street and that she will email these to my boss and everyone in my office (she emails my boss later anyways and I embarrassingly have to explain the situation to him).

She also threatens to have me arrested for rape and that she has my DNA to prove it in the vial and used washcloth unless I agree to see her again. Terrified of being arrested, charged with rape, and embarrassed from work colleagues and neighbors, I agree to see her again. I should have went to the police and my lawyer at this point but I was too afraid. I had never been in this situation before. I was terrified like never before in my life. I had no one to turn to for advice nor anyone in which to confide.

So I had sex with her again. I feel violated, ashamed, dirty, and even lower than I did the first time. I left. I felt trapped. Like she’s got me by the balls.

Around this time (bad timing), I get accepted into the police academy. This has been a lifelong dream of mine. Not out of some juvenile power trip, but out of desire to help people and use my intelligence for the greater good. Thanks to this monster, this never happens. On the day I was supposed to be issued my uniform she had been stalking me in the town where I lived. Again this woman lives out of state and had been staying in a hotel well over an hour away in order to deal with her criminal behavior against another man she had been stalking and harassing.

As I’m leaving a restaurant in my hometown, she ambushes me outside the restaurant. The look in her eyes is one of great anger. Her dark brown eyes are as black as the devil. She threatens me that if I don’t profess my love for her that she will burn my house down, kill me and kill herself. At this moment, I immediately called 911 (mistake as you will soon find out). She gets in her car and drives off, yelling at me that she is en route to my house to burn it down. I follow her keeping 911 on the line at all times. I advise them that I am a police cadet in the County police academy. As I’m chasing after her trying to get to my house before she can, a neighboring law enforcement agency finds her and pulls her over. I pull over as well. She immediately turns on the water 💦 works and proceeds to cry to the police that I’M the one who’s been stalking her, threatening her and that I was chasing her for no reason. I tell them my side of the story and the sergeant takes her side over mine. He wants to arrest me and put me in handcuffs and have my car towed. My supervisor in the academy is notified over the radio and he saves me from this. I am fired a few days later.

She then went to the district courthouse and filed a false accusation of assault against me (in my state, any woman can do this. I tried on my own and was laughed out of there). She also filed a restraining order against me.

When the Almighty Woman says something you are automatically guilty in a “court of law” unless you got the money and resources to prove your innocence. The charge was dismissed by the district attorney when my male lawyer (never give money to women) was able to show what a psycho this woman (history of felony assault, stalking, and harassment) is.

Unfortunately I lost at the restraining order hearing. Judge was female, liberal, black, and democrat. I could tell within 5 seconds by her expression that I had automatically lost. My guns were taken from me by the police for over a year. Because of this restraining order, when I went on vacation to Mexico, I was detained by customs and interrogated for over an hour upon my return to the United States because it flagged something in their computer.

After serving my one year sentence, psycho woman decided to file for a 2 year extension lying to the court that I was a member of a drug cartel and that I had repeatedly violated the restraining order over the course of a year (all lies. No empirical evidence whatsoever). She created a fake Facebook profile with my name and messaged herself death threats from this fake account in order to back up her claim in court. Judge believed her.

I filed an appeal to the circuit court ($$$$) where I got a male judge this time and dismissed her 2 year restraining order extension against me. I was so angry. As I walked out the court and saw the look of defeat in her eyes, I glared at her angrily and said “you lost you stupid, fucking, fat bitch!” Getting my guns back from the police was a nightmare. They test fired all my guns in order to put into a database. I had to spend hours filling out forms and making multiple visits to these assholes to get my firearms back (about 3 visits). The officer in charge was never available, never returned my messages, and made it very difficult to get them back. I had to spend hours cleaning my firearms from the abuse they were put through.

At the time, I was greatly saddened of having to have my dream of being a cop destroyed by this psychotic, slanderous woman. I now view it as a blessing. I do not want to have any part of a system that oppresses men.

Having beaten her in court 2 years ago, I hadn’t heard from her until January. She writes me on Facebook a threatening letter that unless I agree to resume a “relationship” (in other words, that I fuck her) with her, she will file a lawsuit against me. I deleted my Facebook account and all social media accounts because she was stalking and harassing me on there. I’d block her on one account and she would message me immediately after from one of her 20 Facebook accounts. I am off social media forever because of this.

She filed a civil lawsuit against me (in April of this year) for $6000 at 6% interest because I “lied” in filing a restraining order against her which was denied. In my state, men are very rarely granted one. Women are easily granted one. This sounds ridiculous and it is, but I live in a liberal state where women’s rights trump those of men.

When you file a tort lawsuit against someone in my state, you have 30 days to have that person served by sheriff’s office or a professional process server. Knowing her case is total bullshit, she never took the action of having me served and instead kept renewing the charges at the end of every month in order to harass me. After a few months of this, I had had enough. I saved up a few grand and contacted my lawyer to accept charges and to fight her in court. We had a court date for October 31st. A couple of days before the hearing, she gets herself admitted into the hospital making up lies and uses the discharge paper in order to file an emergency petition to postpone the case until January. Judge of course believes her. I now have a court date to defend myself against this fake bullshit lawsuit in January.

To be continued...