Intro

I'm a bit of a natural at reading body language especially when it comes to girls. I don't say that to humble brag, it's just something I'm pretty good at and I am actively working on improving it. It's a pretty big interest of mine and I encourage all of you to learn more on the subject. Learning to read it can reveal a lot and aid with vetting a chick.

Body

When you meet a girl, there is no way to instantly know what kind of girl she is unless she makes it insanely obvious, and even then it could be a front. There is legitimately an entire science and art dedicated to this, but I'll hit some of the key points that should prove very useful when trying to extract accurate information from a chick, for whatever purposes you want or need.

This also works on PWP (People with Penises).

First thing is first. Be cool. Repeat it to yourself "Be cool". Think of that scene in Pulp Fiction. Say it in Sam L Jackson's voice "Bitch be cool".

Appearing comfortable makes the opposite party comfortable as well and will allow them to relax more. This is important because you need that to be the baseline. You can't let it ever feel like your interrogating them.

Ask basic questions and let them talk. People in general will not shut up when given the opportunity to talk about their favorite subject on the planet, themselves. Let her talk about herself. Even if it gets boring, look interested, nod your head to encourage more of her endless banter, extract information, and steer the conversation to where you want it to go, depending on where you want it to go.

Since this is TRP I'm assuming that most will want to vet on past sexual history so I'll focus on that and throw in a few random tidbits at the end, you guys will want to know.

So the conversation is on general genital jibber jabber. Now again, be cool. Seem non judgmental. Personally I could care less what most girls have done in their past since I have no interest in dating anyone at the moment, but you probably do since you're vetting her so really force yourself to at least look non judgmental.

If you even cringe or show the slightest readable amount of disgust on your face when she brings up the time she got drunk and slept with some dude you know, or the time she had a train run on her during prom weekend, then you're done for. She'll clamp up like a steel trap, and she'll make up some bullshit story to cover for her past slutty behavior that you made her feel bad about.

On the other hand, if you pretend to be really non judgmental and even cool with her behavior and encourage it by sharing some stories of your past scumminess, then she'll keep spilling the beans. To further gain trust, you can share a "personal" story you never share with anyone since most people aren't cool and nonjudgmental like she is. She'll most likely feel more comfortable and will reciprocate with more about herself that she may have even felt embarrassed of before hand. At this point, you should have enough info, if you kept your ego in check and maintained composure.

Protip: Don't say anything so outrageous that she'll think your a freak and leave. Use common sense.

There are a lot of nuances with body language that can give away your disgust, or that can show you are uncomfortable, and the hardest part is hiding them, and pretending like you're cool with it all. Remember, girls are better than most guys at noticing this stuff. Having a good knowledge of body language isn't so much for reading her as much as it is about controlling yourself and being aware of your own body language.

Bonus material: If you want to find out if she KNOWINGLY has herpes or something like that than continue to be cool like you were before, but jokingly bring it up when it's appropriate to make a joke about it. Look her in eyes and look for any signs of "freezing" behavior. It's a momentary thing, but if she does have herpes or whatever, then when confronted by uncomfortable information, she'll have a quick fight or flight reaction that will show in her body. She may squint. Her pupils may dilate. She may perform some sort of pacifying behavior such as rubbing her hands together or on her thighs or licking her lips. If she does a bunch of these things, then theres a good chance she has the herps. I did this once and it saved me from a future case of dick itch so it works, if you do it well.

Signs to not show

Body Language that demonstrates disgust: Grimacing, that face kids make when something tastes like ass, frowning, squinting, lowering your eyebrows, pulling your hands, arms, feet, or pretty much any of your body away from her

General shit not to say when you hear her say nasty shit: You slut! Get the fuck away from me. You repulse me. That's disgusting. And whatever the first thought that pops to your head is.

Conclusion

If you people liked this stuff on body language, I know plenty more and now I know the official vocab to describe some of these things. I'll keep the scumbag science coming if you want it. This part of the series was about controlling your own Body Language. The next would be about noticing it in others.