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Wife cut the tow rope

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April 14, 2020
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I'm taking my one free victim puke.

My wife has been threatening me with divorce consistently for the last 6 months. She has never been submissive for our entire relationship. She has always been a sarcastic, disrespectful, lazy, unappreciative and irrational bitch. I do not suspect there is another guy involved.

We went through 3 marriage counselors in 4 years. I did everything they told us to do. I asked for forgiveness, I did my homework, I took her on dates, I took on more chores, I gave up my hobbies, I lead devotions with her and with the kids. But no matter what I did it was never good enough. She always found something else to complain about.

MRP was my last resort. After swallowing the pill my eyes were opened and I became one angry motherfucker. I was angry at the world, the lies, the feminist agenda, and myself for acting like a total faggot for the majority of my life. Of course I was angry at her too. I lashed out a few times, but always apologized and took responsibility for my actions.

I began to read, STFU and lift. I had some minor successes. My wife complimented my appearance twice, but continued to treat me like a piece of shit. I began to shift my attention back to my hobbies and made some new friends with common interests. This only seemed to make matters worse. She presented me with several comfort tests which I routinely failed because I could not get over my anger or fake my affections for her. In truth I had groan to despise her.

The more I focused on myself the less I needed her, until I stopped caring altogether. She began calling me "cold" and "distant" and did everything she could to illicit an emotional response from me. Everything, that is, expect treat me with respect. She accused me of cheating, having mental problems and routinely called me an idiot and a selfish asshole. I ignored most of this since AA and AMA seem to piss her off even more.

About a month ago my state went on lock-down because of COVID-19 and I could no longer lift or get out of the house except for short trips to the store. At the same time my wife had a free consultation with a divorce attorney and moved out of the bedroom and into the den. When I mentioned this to the counselors they blamed me for everything so I fired them.

The divorce attorney told my wife that we should consider mediation since there were no major issues between us except for hating each other. She gave me an ultimatum and said she wanted a one-year legal separation agreement (in which I wasn't allowed to fuck anyone) or an uncontested divorce by mediation. I chose the latter. We interviewed 3 mediators and agreed on one that we liked.

The mediator gave us an intake form and we had to decide who was going to be the "petitioner" and who would be the "respondent". She said she had no problem being the "petitioner". So there it is. I assume we will file the initial paperwork tomorrow which will start a 60 day waiting period.

We've already discussed the majority of our agreement, it's just a matter of putting everything to paper. She wants the house and has agreed to buy me out. Everything will be split 50/50. Once everything is finalized I will get my own place nearby and start my new life.

The only thing I regret is that my kids will have fuzzy memories of growing up with both parents under one roof, although, there are plenty of pictures and videos for them to refer back to.

I never thought it would end like this, but I can say with certainty that I did everything I could to make it work. I'm sure I could have done it better, but it is what it is.

It's a strange feeling...I am both sad and excited at the same time.

Edit: I can't respond to comments because I have been permanently banned from the sub. I think you guys are assholes, especially you Horns. You yourself hit rock bottom at the 6 month mark. Did anyone ban you and kick you while you were down? Fuck you. Fuck all of you. You're all a bunch of validation seeking fucks. Have fun jerking eachother off. I'll be in the real work getting my shit together.


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Title Wife cut the tow rope
Author OptimusRP
Upvotes 8
Comments 20
Date 14 April 2020 10:13 PM UTC (7 months ago)
Subreddit askMRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/653564
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/g1f412/wife_cut_the_tow_rope/
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[–]SBIIIRed Fucking Commando11 points12 points  (6 children) | Copy

You started here five months ago at 220lbs. You're now 230lbs and lift like a little girl.

You're a fat, lazy fucktard who has spent the last five months doing nothing. Except fill your fat face full of food.

What the fuck do you want from the sub? You want someone to strap you to their body, take you to the gym and lift the weights for you?

And this isn't your first victim puke - it's your fifth.

You reap what you sow and you are where you are now because of the choice you made. You chose inaction. So fuck you if you think you deserve advice. You got it in all your last five pukes and did nothing with it.

[–]RStonePT[M] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

5 months and he's still posting victim pukes?

Ah hell no.

[–]FoxShitNasty831 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

You want someone to strap you to their body, take you to the gym and lift the weights for you?

230lbs I'm out... For now!

[–]part_wolf0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Goodness, this woman hung in there for 18 years waiting for him to get his shit together. Can you imagine holding out hope for that long?

[–]SBIIIRed Fucking Commando2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Edit: I can't respond to comments because I have been permanently banned from the sub. I think you guys are assholes, especially you Horns. You yourself hit rock bottom at the 6 month mark. Did anyone ban you and kick you while you were down? Fuck you. Fuck all of you. You're all a bunch of validation seeking fucks. Have fun jerking eachother off. I'll be in the real work getting my shit together.

I've just seen this edit. Fuck me. She'll divorce him now and he'll blame MRP.

[–]part_wolf1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Have fun jerking each other off.

So he DOES understand how the OYS thread works.

Edit: I hope one of the MRP guys tracks down his soon to be ex and throws some solid dick into her.

[–]AlohaMaui8088 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

OP's wife appears to have taken to MRP quite well, passing OP's shit tests, leading OP even when he doesn't want to be led, and not giving a fuck about a member of the opposite sex with no value and no effort made to develop any.

We should invite OP's wife to start posting in OYS, it sounds like she's been progressing nicely despite a challenging harpy spouse and maybe even has started to be her own point of origin with some Frame, too.

[–]weakandsensitive3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy

(in which I wasn't allowed to fuck anyone)

hahaha.

also: ctrl-f "she".

Edit: I can't respond to comments because I have been permanently banned from the sub. I think you guys are assholes, especially you Horns. You yourself hit rock bottom at the 6 month mark. Did anyone ban you and kick you while you were down? Fuck you. Fuck all of you. You're all a bunch of validation seeking fucks. Have fun jerking eachother off.

hahahaha

i'll be in the real work getting my shit together.

hahahahaha

but seriously, you probably won't.

[–]Tyred_Biggums0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

We've already discussed the majority of our agreement, it's just a matter of putting everything to paper.

She’s going to end up fully divorce raping him if he thinks it’s all is agreed to and just needs to be out on paper.

Pretty smart strategy she is pulling off. Boiling the frog and OP is the frog.

[–]RStonePT0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I can't respond to comments because I have been permanently banned from the sub.

He apparently doesn't listen too good in modmail either. Do i have to nuke his vagina-post to get the point across?

[–]HornsOfApathyMod / Red Beret3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Rambo, still reporting in for duty, sir.

Congratulations?

You've listened to no one and did nothing your entire time here. Also managed to get fatter. Play faggot games, win faggot prizes.

[–]Balls_Wellington_Main Event + Coronavirus4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

Fix that 26% body fat you chunky bitch

[–]SBIIIRed Fucking Commando5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

42 inch waist.. there's no fucking way on earth he's 26% body fat. The fucker looks like he's8 months pregnant with twins.

[–]Balls_Wellington_Main Event + Coronavirus0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I can't imagine why his wife had no respect for him.

[–]Tyred_Biggums2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yay you’re getting divorced. Congratulations.

You fucked up by being an emotionless robot. I did too... the difference is you haven’t learned to be authentic and focus on you.

This whole write up is written from her frame. You were going to marriage counselors - why the fuck were you doing that if you didn’t want to?

She wanted counseling She initiated the divorce She chose the path the divorce would go She gets what she wants

There is so much she in here, I’m feeling like a tranny just reading it.

So it’s her fault. And Covid’s fault. You take a modicum or responsibility but still feel the victim. You still don’t get it which is a problem after six months. It’s one thing to still be fucking things up but know you’re fucking things up. You’re still clueless and lost in the woods without a compass.

You still have no clue who YOU are and can’t be authentic. You’re scared of who that person is and that’s the issue. Until you solve that problem - your life will not improve and you’re just going to be a detached or angry little boy until you do.

[–]screechhaterRed Beret1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Oink.

[–]johneyapocalypseThe one that says "Bad Motherfucker"0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Jesus I haven't seen you in ages.

I like your comment. Apropos. :-)

[–]Praexology1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I ignored most of this since AA and AMA seem to piss her off even more.

If you were worried about pissing her off, you definitely weren't using it right.

[–]dll1420 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Wow... you exist, and by the sounds of it, have always existed in her frame. Even in the divorce proceedings too! She gave you a choice between not fucking anyone for a year separation or an easy mediated divorce?? Wtf? This woman is going to dominate and control you forever, even after the divorce, especially if your kids are young. Good luck with that.

Also, marriage counseling? Wtf? That shit is an industry that its business model is predicated on catering to women because it keeps you and them coming back to milk more money out of you. Their Oprah / mamby pamby / neo-feministic advice is all lies and horse shit! Of course it doesn't work! It's a giant scam set up to make money... that's it!



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