My context:

Since implementing the pill last summer, I lost my virginity and have 7 notches, which is great, but I have yet to have any deep relationships with women like I do men. I'm wondering if I should.

Thus far, I've texted absolutely only for logistics. Never did I send a single message that didn't have a necessary purpose in arranging a meeting. When I choose to interact with women, I only do so in and for the moment. I flirt with them, I try to lead, I follow the textbook as closely as I can on running a well crafted game to make a fun and enjoyable experience for both parties.

Beyond this momentary experience, however, I have no interaction. I don't share any deeper emotions with them; I don't invest in them; I don't care for them. Considering a long term relationship, or even a long term plate, it seems to me (and maybe I'm seeing wrong) that something deeper than the relationships I've held thus far are necessary if I ever want that sort of arrangement. I would think I do want an LTR or long term plate, but I honestly don't know since I'm totally ignorant of what that level of interaction with a woman is like.

Question:

My question, then, is should I pursue some deeper relationship with a girl, instead of acting in the interest that I only value sexuality and momentary femininity, or is a long term relationship simply that surface relation just in a "repeat business" arrangement?

If I should pursue a deeper relationship, should I tolerate a girl who won't have sex with me (or won't do so enthusiastically) if I'm hoping she'll provide that deeper relationship? Or should a girl first be attracted to you enough to fuck you before she can provide any "extended" value?

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Thank you.