TL/DR: This post is two fold. Firstly, I want to talk about why you are afraid. Secondly, I want to tell you something that will make you want to go out and cold approach today.
Actually, this post is three fold. For those of you that caught on, I have unnecessarily lead you down a rabbit hole. This is sort of a click bait post. Even my TL/DR was the start of good advertising. Did you feel yourself get excited? Well, that's because I am using a well known weakness to draw you in. I know that men are scared to approach random hot women. And, this is actually to prove the extra point I added on.
I know you're afraid because society has made it this way. It's part of your blue pill conditioning. You fear entering into an unknown social setting. Society has created a stigma. And my ability to hop on that bandwagon and exploit your weakness is in ecssense exactly what makes it worse. I have seen so many webpages, forums, and more do just that.
But, there shouldn't be a stigma associated with it, this is point 1/3. And you shouldn't be reading anything else on the subject. You ready for your answer? Okay... here it is: tomorrow morning, you will find what you consider a 7/10 or better, you will not hamster it up, you will not question whether she is a 7, you will know. You will slowly walk up right when you see her, introduce yourself with your first name, and smile. You will then proceed to pay her a specific compliment. Do not say she is pretty, pay her a compliment on something in particular. Her hair, her boots, it doesn't fucking matter... what matters is that it is particular. You will not make a big fucking deal about it, because it is not a big fucking deal. You will then lose yourself in the conversation, all your worries will become non existent and you will talk to her like you've known her forever. You will tell her that you have somewhere to be but it was nice chatting and you will close her and get her fucking number by also saying, "you seem fun, let's get a drink." Or a cup of coffee or whatever the fuck you want to drink.
THAT'S HOW FUCKING EASY IT IS.
You will do this tomorrow and you won't make a big deal out of it before hand. Because it's good for you to challenge yourself in this way. And if you fail, and you stumble your way through the convo, then you do... and you'll get that shit out of your system. Because you will spend way too long not doing this if you don't do this tomorrow.
There are no exceptions to this. There isn't, "I just need to lift a little more." No! No! No! You go out and do this now because while you build your muscle you're also going to build your social skills. You have only one response to memorize: if she says she has a boyfriend, you respond, "are you allowed to talk to guys without his permission?" She will go on the defense. Don't move a muscle just let her react and qualify herself.
If your mind spits out excuses a minute before hand, let it. Just remember you've got to get this over with. And you're going to do it without talking about your job, or the weather, or how Donald Trump is president. You're going to talk to her like you have nothing to lose, because you don't, this is point 2/3.
And finally, point 3/3, something to make you want to go approach a woman. I appreciate science, I really do. A recent study I read by a woman named Meridith Chivers, included participants shoving a camera in their vagina that measured blood flow.
During the study, women became arroused by the thought of sex with a partner or with a friend... but nothing made their holes engorge with blood more than sex with a complete stranger. Moral of the story, nothing gets a girl wetter than pure excitement and the unknown. Be that excitement and go close a girl tomorrow morning, she's out there dying to have her vagina tell her what her mind cannot process.
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