CMV: in general women are given sympathy when they've been abused but men are ridiculed for it.

exmuslima2020 · 2020-04-17T04:07:41+00:00

It is not just abuse. Men and women are treated totally differently in life, in general.

Troy016 · 2020-04-16T22:56:11+00:00

I knew this for years, both genders gotta accept this bullshit and change it.

banned_by_cucks · 2020-04-16T22:25:46+00:00

That’s just the way of the world. Nobody ever gave a shit about men. You have to survive, keep firing from the foxhole, and find your own path. If you made it, then society will temporarily reward you for it, but other than that nobody cares if a man can’t handle the issues he faced in life.

Life is ugly business — no one asks to be born.

yuckyuck13 · 2020-04-17T01:51:27+00:00

Can confirm, society didn't care when I was a kid. Gotten used to it.

LeJacquelope · 2020-04-17T02:43:41+00:00

Crowds of women cheered when an innocent man is castrated. Fucking crowds. Never, ever forget, guys.

bann2787 · 2020-04-17T02:56:45+00:00

Men are disposable, more news at 11.

coolerdrop57156 · 2020-04-17T00:43:34+00:00

Yeah 40% of domestic violence is committed by the woman and thats only the stats that are heard of. I wouldnt admit to being a victim of domestic violence. And 98% of shelters are for women.

2020-04-17T01:41:58+00:00

It's about the cultural assumption of agency.

The default belief is men do things, women have things done to them.

2020-04-17T01:49:18+00:00

Yeah we already have a term for this, it's called gynocentrism.

Jathrowaway97 · 2020-04-16T23:06:50+00:00

Men could fix this for themselves. Men and women care about victimized women. Even if men stopped caring about women, and in instances where thats the case women still have each other. Men don’t have that dynamic. Men don’t have that same type of Inter-gender dynamic and it contributes to this.

LosVangelis · 2020-04-17T04:55:46+00:00

If a woman has issues with men because she's been sexually harassed for a long time, she's given a pass. If a man has issues with gays because he's been harassed by gay men, he's either closeted or he's a homophobe.

robot3000_01 · 2020-04-17T15:50:26+00:00

It's fine. Just don't give a shit about women when they suffer.

I don't even help women struggling to carry prams up stairs in public transport . It's not my child so I won't be a cuck and help her.

Mattcwu · 2020-04-16T23:57:42+00:00

That's not equality! In order to achieve social equality, men and women should be treated the same when they report being the victims of domestic violence. We need the perpetrators of domestic violence (mostly women) to stop with the violence. You hear that women, stop engaging in domestic violence!

Silverpixelmate · 2020-04-17T04:49:10+00:00

Because men and women are different. Have always been different. Will always be different.

I’m not making some ridiculous claim that it’s fine for men to be ridiculed. But I’m pointing out the obvious point that there are plenty of things in reverse. Like men are alphas when they pump and dump and women are sluts. It’s not an issue of who’s got it worse. You just need to accept that for every male complaint there is a similar female complaint and vice versa. And since the two sexes will forever be different, you will always have these differences. For your straw man arguments-no I’m not advocating, suggesting, opining or anything. Just facts.

Opiumbrella33 · 2020-04-17T07:43:38+00:00

As a survivor of abuse (female) who now works with other survivors, I would say that true in some ways untrue in others. Men and women have different societal reactions when suffering abuse. Neither is optimal. Aside from the minority of "believe all women" people, actual society at large treats women as if it is their fault, and treats men like men can't really be abused.

LillthOfBabylon · 2020-04-16T22:14:17+00:00

Men are also more likely to murder their significant other. So that could be a big reason we have more women’s shelters than Men’s shelters. Just remember, two of the USA’s mass shooters abused their wife.

From my experience men laughed at men being victims the most.

Like you said before, the guy is clearly bigger than the female and are more likely to cause more damage.

Bntt89 · 2020-04-17T02:59:49+00:00

Yup it's pretty sick, but I hope people understand especially MRA's that this isnt womens fault or feminism really. Be6most guys dont give a fuck. You see in the videos that no guy helped another guy out? While women all try to help other women. It's just a societal wide idea that for some reason women cant abuse men. Men in general should be more focused on being serious about it, because I know women wont. And have a good movement to bring awareness not MRA'S these guys suck they do nothing but blame feminist and use abuse to say.men have bad lives too instead of looking at the issue.

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agloelita · 2020-04-17T06:04:17+00:00

Depending on culture perhaps? The few men i've known to admit tl having been abused weren't necessarily ridiculed so much as they just weren't believed.

moses6666 · 2020-04-17T09:22:50+00:00

You should check out Warren Farrell, he covers some of this.

ari_thot_le · 2020-04-17T10:56:11+00:00

I personally think tribalistic thinking is silly, why not advocate on the principles alone? A woman is more likely to listen to other women anyways! Also, if it’s a matter of strength Shouldn’t us men focus on corralling the abusive men among us rather than protecting abused men?

coyk0i · 2020-04-17T13:35:41+00:00

It's a mixed bag in whether womenbgrt sympathy or not. Plenty of times the victims is blamed and asked why they didn't leave because people don't understand how mental abuse works.

SSCookieLover · 2020-04-17T18:00:44+00:00

Damn i come to this post just to see a lit fire between men and women. On the side note, base on MY observation, I agree with OP’s opinion.

trannygrape · 2020-04-17T21:06:32+00:00

Women and men, i feel like, are given more sympathy given the situation? Like when it comes to most rape cases women tend to get sympathy, but when the person who perpetrated it, especially when they're male, are popular or famous or have "potential" (think like a college athlete) get more sympathy.

astrobrah · 2020-04-17T22:40:38+00:00

Men are not ridiculed, but women get much more sympathy regarding any hardship.

acron5n5 · 2020-04-18T08:32:59+00:00

if some crazy bitch starts hitting you, either you sit there and take it like a bitch or you get severe consequences for hitting her back.

Bro if some bitch hits you just leave her if you cannot take it. Unlike women you wern't told you have to obediently take everything that your s/o does last two thousand years.

Visserman75 · 2020-04-19T15:27:40+00:00

https://youtu.be/gOyrYThlOag?t=89

First video, that black guy that grabs the guy from behind at 1:29 .

Those are the most disgusting men, absolute beta simps. Thinking they can get some pussy or validation points for 'protecting my lady'. Hope he meets the wrong man and gets his face beaten up.

2020-04-17T06:58:34+00:00

Men are ridiculed by other men so who’s fault is that?

lol

codedinblood · 2020-04-17T02:20:56+00:00

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DaphneDK42 · 2020-04-17T02:47:30+00:00

What the heck do you want sympathy for anyway? What can you use it for? Its useless. Whining men trying to go for sympathy (for relationship abuse) need to be told to man the fuck up. To take action.

Title	CMV: in general women are given sympathy when they've been abused but men are ridiculed for it.
Author	prodopro
Upvotes	153
Comments	237
Date	April 16, 2020 9:56 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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