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Flaky plate behavior. Do I retort here or stay silent?

by scissor_me_timbers00 | April 19, 2020 | askTRP


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So me and this plate have fucked a few times and have really good sexual chemistry. Pace of couple times a month. She always says I’m a lot of fun in bed and her behavior has always corresponded to that. Lets me fuck her for over two hours and likes to try new things w me. Likes dick pics and vids too.

Anyway she’s been talking horny in text for the past week and a half. We were swapping nudes while she masturbated several days ago. We were supposed to meet this weekend but she flakes both Friday and Saturday. After she tried to set something up all week. Said she fell asleep early Friday after asking if I was free to hookup earlier in the day. Then Saturday she says she would be bad company cuz she’s in a sour mood. Says rain check. I’ve never gotten this angle from her before. Says we’ll plan a sex date for another time but leaves it completely open ended.

I would just assume this means the plate broke but her tinder location both nights showed her at her house (or that distance). Her roommate has a kid, so she doesn’t have people over there for dates. She’s always come over to my place. So it doesn’t look like she’s dodging me for some other thing. And its possible during the virus that her moods are off or something stressful happened to family or job that she doesn’t want to talk about.

On the one hand I think should just stay silent because her reasons could be genuine and she’s never played games before, it’s not a pattern. The plate might not be broke. On the other hand I can’t get the whiff of game playing out of my nose and part of me just wants to give a strong suggestion I’m walking away. Like “that was a quick turnaround from your horny mood all week. it’s a big turnoff when a girl bails twice in a row. I’m not into games”. Because it seems like this is the point when she tests whether you’re willing to accept the little bitch position.

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Title Flaky plate behavior. Do I retort here or stay silent?
Author scissor_me_timbers00
Upvotes 1
Comments 15
Date 19 April 2020 02:09 PM UTC (2 months ago)
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Link https://theredarchive.com/post/654248
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[–]frognads2 points3 points  (10 children) | Copy

You're not the only one fucking her. Withdraw attention when she acts up. Don't reward bad behaviour.

[–]scissor_me_timbers00-3 points-2 points  (9 children) | Copy

Pretty sure i was the only one fucking her for a while for reasons I don’t want to have to explain but my suspicion recently was that yes she found another dick. But again her tinder location showed her to just be home, not out w someone else. Although in her flake she also called me “babe” which smelled like beta bait to keep me on her line. She’s never beta baited me before tho. I’m real tempted to just break this plate and tell her I’m turned off by her bailing (even tho no plans were entirely set in stone).

[–]frognads1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

Stop checking her fucking location. You care too much. Don't tell her shit. Withdraw attention and game other women, instead of posting this mental vomit.

[–]scissor_me_timbers00-2 points-1 points  (2 children) | Copy

I just looked at it last night. Given that this is first behavior from her, I’d like to have an idea whether she’s ditching or actually genuine. Makes it a lot easier to know whether to break the plate or not. It is quarantine you know.

[–]frognads1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Dude are you fucking retarded? Stop caring so much about it. I'm fucking done here XD

[–]scissor_me_timbers001 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

No I’m not retarded, I’m trying to calibrate my read on women. This is the downside if you ever post on aktrp is some guys are just gonna use the opportunity to digitally AMOG you.

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[–]scissor_me_timbers000 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Do what, break the plate (or at least use the takeaway card)?

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[–]scissor_me_timbers00-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy

I’m not gonna just automatically do what total strangers tell me man. I’m more just trying to see what others’ read on it is. Game is a learning process where we share notes.

[–]PepeApuSmidgeMarvNog0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Stop giving her so much free text attention. You need to soft next a few days.

Don’t send her your butt hurt comment unless you want to just burn the bridge out of your anger, which is a full beta move. Get a grip dude.

You also have oneitis to be creeping her location. Sidebar dude.

[–]scissor_me_timbers00-1 points0 points  (2 children) | Copy

No one suggested butthurt. But a curt text expressing disapproval can show her you’re not interested in that behavior. No ones losing a grip man

[–]PepeApuSmidgeMarvNog0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

You have oneitis.

[–]scissor_me_timbers000 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Oh? Is that why I’m asking whether to soft next or hard next?

[–]MGTOW_BEASTMODE0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Said she fell asleep early Friday after asking if I was free to hookup earlier in the day. Then Saturday she says she would be bad company cuz she’s in a sour mood. Says rain check.

Sounds like she went out, did drugs, got fucked and was hung over.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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