Older woman who has settled for a beta asks every guy, "hey I married a beta, why are you all having such a problem with attraction? Y'all know how easy it was?"
This is a prime example of female solipsism, she realizes not why her experience in selecting a mate is different from men's being selected, she realizes not that her age puts her outside the normal range of potential mates, effectively limiting her choice to betas-- she instead rationalizes that this was her more refined, mature choice.
She even admits alpha widow:
After him I dated a guy purely based on spite for my ex and raw physical attraction. He was a blue eyed ginger. (my favorite) He was 6’ 2”, was 240 lb of raw sinew and muscle, zero fat. He had like 20” + biceps and could bench press more than I thought possible. He was also dumb as a box of rocks, vain and had a personality that resembles a dial tone. His appeal wore off quickly, very quickly.
Translation: He wouldn't settle so I will make it seem like I wasn't interested anyway.