I saw this one coming a mile away.

A few months back a 20 year old bombshell HB9 started working at my place of employment. After a few days she was showing clear IOI towards myself. I was still a bit loopy coming out of an incredibly fucked up situation with an ex, and I had been swiftly reading my way through TRP.

At the same time, a young 22 or 23 year old male fellow employee couldn't stop talking about the hot new girl, and how he was going to ask her out. He saw her interest in me and I had fun making him sweat over it.

It was so easy in fact this girl actually nervously asked me out. That particular night though, I was already lined up with a date, we didn't end up rescheduling. The next day I show up and 22 or 23 year old loudly exclaims in all of his blue glory to me that he's "claimed her". She had gone to drinks with him instead after I wasn't able to, and now he had "claimed her".

I thought ok, I don't really care and I backed off. I still joke with him about when his turn will be up. He doesn't get it. Within a few weeks they're dating. Now it's been a few months.

Cue last night. I work with the girl for the first time in a while, she's back to those juicy IOI's. To the point I had to confirm they were still dating. You could hear the other girls joking with her "you have a boyfriend remember?", followed by an eye-roll.

To be clear: I was not going to try or do anything with this girl while she had a boyfriend who worked with me.

Also, I actually like this guy. He's a cool, confident and in good shape. He's got several distinct alpha traits (you're not dating an HB9 otherwise), but it's irrelevant. Once you commit, her interest dwindles.

She asks if I'm going to go for a drink after work. I say sure, we go to the bar and bf is there waiting. Was awkward for a minute or two but I just chatted normally to them both and put everyone at ease. More friends showed up, mostly guys. She's absolutely lighting up chatting, hugging, joking with everyone. Choosing to sit with myself or others. Lots of touching with the other guys, not suggestive but hands on shoulders/arms etc.

As for the bf, didn't even see her reach for him once. Not a single kiss the whole night. To be honest he played it pretty cool for the most part, but an occasional "Why are you being weird?" Is all it fucking takes, especially with the 9's.

Point is, she wasn't interested in him. She was tolerating him, it was written all over her face and body language. Because of what I had learned through TRP I saw this playing out exactly as it is playing out from the second he showed interest in the girl.

This is no joke fellas, committing to one girl is a mistake. You want to LTR a 9 you better have one hell of an impenetrable frame. I will openly admit I don't have that kind of frame, I'd be setting myself up for failure. Much of my power lies in my total freedom and ability to seek other options. Not giving that up for used pussy.

Lessons Learned

  • Don't commit
  • There are no surprises. Look for examples of what you've learned on here in your every day life, it's everywhere.
  • DON'T COMMIT