Am I attracting women with mental health issues or is every woman carry heavy mental health issues?

sniper1905 · 2020-04-27T15:36:18+00:00

25% of women have some diagnosis of mental health issue. That’s dangerous, because that means that 75% are walking around undiagnosed.

king_of_red_alphas · 2020-04-27T16:22:45+00:00

Some people actually have true mental health issues. But 90% of women are ruining their lives/mental health by financially overextending themselves with student debt for fake degrees and vanity trips for instagram content. They spend too much time obsessing over social media, self image and take pills for everything.

Unpopular opinion: most people have episodes of "depression" because life is hard. That's just a universal fact. This doesn't require medication. I requires you to make better choices that over time make your life better and minimizes depressive aspects of human existence.

madfrombrad · 2020-04-27T18:02:21+00:00

99.99% of red pill guys find themselves fucking mental health issue girls at FIRST. This is because these hoes invented the god damn shit test.

Once I learned to Vet, I realized I could do the SAME thing with “mentally healthy women” (in quotes for a reason) that I could dodge 99.9% of false rape charges and the classic “hoe takes your nut from the connie and knocks herself up” types of bullshit.

All I gotta say man.. if she’s a confessed alcoholic or other addict stay the fuck away. Only plate to ever make up shit from anything got me drunk and tried to get me to keep drinking even though I wouldn’t fuck her. I changed my mind and dropped her off when I got sober. She then told everyone from our old highschool I raped her.

Whatever, dumb bitch gonna be homeless in a year anyways. Fuck her.

BPasFuck · 2020-04-27T18:45:46+00:00

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_the_shape_ · 2020-04-27T15:25:10+00:00

Right off the bat ask them about their family. If the dad isn't in the picture just leave it at one date. You may feel sorry for these women or that you can 'nurse them back to health' but don't waste your time. No matter how good you are to them, when it ends, you'll be called an abusive asshole.

But yea most western women today have a myriad of mental health issues stemming from our contemporary experience. The amount of women going for a PhD I come in contact with who really are just doing it for the clout will astound you. Most women want a career because they've been told to want one. Most women actually want to have children. The longer you live with a woman the more you'll notice how much like a child they are.

CuntMonteCristo · 2020-04-27T20:12:04+00:00

I have dated a shit ton of women the last few years (don't mean to brag, just data) and I can confirm that 7-8 out of 10 these days have mental health issues, some even severe as you mentioned. There are studies about that too, some were mentioned lately by a guy on the Joe "You got to try DMT" Rogan Podcast but I can't remember the dude's name atm. Anyway you are not alone bro...that is the state of women in 2020 (Especially girls in big cities)

alphaonthecomeup · 2020-04-27T15:38:44+00:00

My ex had anxiety and depression and took pills for it. Her father worked away from the family in a different country , so wasn’t in the picture too much. I thought I could deal with this shit, maybe even help her get off the pills one day. All I wanted was to make her happy and hoped that she would try her hardest to return the favor. L L L L L L L

Shit is very wack dealing with girls who have mental health issues. You try to love them and care for them and then it does get blown back up in your face. Focus on yourself and your mental health.

My boy told me that at the beginning of the relationship I was fine and now post break up I’m fucked mentally and have to work my way back up. That shit is contagious.

319Skew · 2020-04-27T17:14:13+00:00

I have a theory that I can't share with anyone that's not red pill aware.

I think that due to the whole rise of feminism and rampant improvement of communication technology. We're living in an age where women see the ideal woman as being "a powerful, independent, and sexually free" individual.

Women are being shown that they can be sluts and people will love them for it. They get the attention from all the thirsty betas and they see 'role models' on IG and other social media showcase a lifestyle of just hedonism.

So these women go out and get pumped and dumped. The problem is that they don't develop a personality and they become nothing more than objects for gratification. Most guys here have seen a woman that's got a thousand cock stare and she's quite figuratively dead inside.

Add in some new age psychology and everything is an illness that shouldn't be overcome by will and determination but placated by acceptance and medication and you've got what we're dealing with right now.

We've got a surge of women that are stupid and slutty and self harm or medicate because they lack a strong masculine figure since feminism has castrated anything overtly masculine as a threat.

Toss in lack of good father figures and you've got a downward spiral.

Now, I'm not tossing the puck on women entirely here. There are no shortage of men that have swallowed the current narrative that it's wrong to be a dominant man. These men turn into cucks that enable the cycle. We've also got Alphas that are just pumping and dumping women and creating a surge of damaged goods.

I'm not saying that to judge women or men. I'm no white knight and I don't care about the choices that women and guys I don't know make. I'm just saying this is my theory as to why there's so many fucked up women.

But I agree with OP. There's an increasing number of younger women that I'm running into that lack any form of character or self awareness and trying to 'guide' them is an utter waste of time.

TheTastelessBatman · 2020-04-27T16:09:21+00:00

Most of them just play the card "oh I got raped tehe."

Nope outta there every single time..

TheProfitMotive · 2020-04-27T15:23:11+00:00

Yes, every girl under the age of 35 these days has some form of mental health problem. I have fucked about 30 girls in the last 2 years and every single one of them had some sort of mental health issue that made them difficult to be with / sabotage the relationship

Which is why you don't give women any commitment. Bc they will just spit it back in your face anyhow

Iluvalmonds83 · 2020-04-27T19:57:34+00:00

I think the socialization differences between genders play somewhat of a part. Women connect by talking, sharing secrets/intimate information, social bonding . Men usually connect by doing things with others, not by sharing their fee-fee’s. Mental illness and any precursors around it is a well known stigma for men, not so much with women. Hence women are more likely to discuss it freely without as much social consequence. Unfortunately Both genders suffer more/less from certain types of disorders but even in our current society it’s not Ok for guys to talk about, acknowledge or seek help.

But for real, if you realize most of the women you go for have actual serious mental illnesses it’s time for some reflection to find out why you may gravitate towards dysfunctional people. Some people subconsciously chase to “save/fix” others or are attracted to bonding by trauma, especially if their parental figure was dysfunctional as well.

One of my friends for most of his 20-30’s was notoriously known to chase after young, pretty crazy ass girls with serious problems. There’d be a few attractive sane, stable, seemingly higher value girls in the mix, but he’d get bored and soon enough chase after the next batch of crazy. It wasn’t until he did some self discovery after a pretty bad breakup that he found someone who wasn’t batshit crazy.

johncillo · 2020-04-27T23:02:05+00:00

I had this same problem, you have to look at yourself and see if you are imbalanced, that means asking:

Do I feel attracted to the type of girls that are damaged so I can save them?
Do I feel good when a girl says she can trust me with her issues?
Have I sabotaged previous relationships by being beta just to victimize myself and get attention?
Do I feel like I can save them from something or someone?
Am I getting attracted to girls that crave attention?

Now, once you have defined that, take a look at what you’re doing now. I have been with people with mental disorders, but now my relationships even with plates are more mature, honest and balanced. Not gonna lie, I still like girls that crave attention because they are hot as fuck, but they have turned dull and a liability to my peace of mind so they turn into pump and dump sometimes.

rpmc83 · 2020-04-28T06:36:02+00:00

My LTR of over 1 year asked me tonight if I'd ever slept with a girl I know who lives a few hours away. I told her yes, but it was 7-8 years ago. That was it, she flew off the rails, started charging around my house packing her things, hit me a couple times, gestured to throw stuff at me (but didn't throw). She said I'd been lying for a year about it and said I had an agenda. After a few childish insults, she left and said she'd see me on Tinder in a couple hours.

I found the whole experience odd. I never had a motive to lie about my past, nor did I have an agenda. We've been monogamous since we met. Anyway her tendency to violence and her acting like I did something heinously wrong troubles me. I'm in the same boat as OP. This isn't my first run-in with crazy either.

She is having her period soon, and she takes some sort of anti-depressant every morning if that helps in understanding the situation.

madfrombrad · 2020-04-27T15:32:27+00:00

It truly is an epidemic, I will never date anyone that I know has used SSRIs. Eventually you’ll be able to identify these broads solely by the look in their eyes.

ViolentInteger · 2020-04-27T17:23:30+00:00

If you're attracting women with depression, that isn't your fault. Depression has increased quite a bit in the last 15 years due to social media. They can still make fine FWBs.

If you're attracting women with narcissistic personality disorder, borderline personality disorder, and/or severe daddy issues, then this IS your fault. Your filter should have caught and eliminated them well before you got yourself involved.

volvostupidshit · 2020-04-27T19:53:02+00:00

What else do you expect from women when men aren't taking responsibility? Dad, uncle, boyfriend, co-workers, etc.. You know their mind functions like a child and need to be led by men. Men are leading them to have these mental health issues.

It's simple to pump and dump her for fun and assume no responsibility after leading her on. I have seen too many posts on here about generating insecurity and manipulating women to keep them as a plate by spinning their hamster. These are acts by weak men to get a taste of what it is like to be a strong alpha without putting in the effort to seek the best version of oneself and being attractive for her. These are all acts that add up psychologically overtime for women and leads to poorer and poorer quality of women. Then there is reverse argument that feedback into circle jerk about 'Well she's a whore, so what if I pump and dump her?' I'm not saying you should be her therapist, but be honest with the ones you have vetted thoroughly about your intentions.

Take responsibility and guide her.

Noodlesoupe2 · 2020-04-28T05:23:11+00:00

Do some introspection here. Beta and mentally ill guys tend to go after mental chicks for many reasons including the love-bombing and constant attention, the need to be captain save-a-hoe, relating to their feelings of pain, and especially the fact that these girls tend to give up crazy good sex on the first date. Plus guys tend to like drama just as much as girls do and a crazy chick will send you on a rollercoaster that will make you addicted to her.

devenstackz2Q · 2020-04-27T22:18:38+00:00

Part of it i think that all humans are disappointing and we are programed to see women with high regards and see them as a civilizing force but they aren't they are just regular humans if not worse

Noodlesoupe2 · 2020-04-27T22:58:12+00:00

Confirmation bias. Those girls tend to be easy so you get exposed to them more often in the casual dating scene

Str8_Pillin · 2020-04-27T18:05:06+00:00

You already know a ton of people that have mental health issues.
But they keep that shit to themselves because its none of anyone's fucking business.

But when it comes to your girlfriend, suddenly its the worst form of anxiety that's ever been invented, and you need to pick up her slack while she lays on the couch and watches Vampire Diaries.

It will be sold to you as a temporary thing, but its a chronic disorder. And once you cave once she'll get you every time. Death by a thousand paper cuts.

Once you hear the words "I have anxiety (or whatever else)", she's telling you, "here's my ticket out of every adult responsibility that we(you) are going to come across". 80% of which she is going to cause.

Attracting them isn't the problem, keeping them is.

Snowboard18 · 2020-04-28T01:40:02+00:00

A fuck ton have mental health issues, my guess would be like a good 75-85%.

As far as the cause of this in women, firstly, they generally don't have the mental fortitude of men to deal with these problems, so its a feedback loop.

I wrote a paper on this one, social media. That shit is terrible for you mentally. It amplifies FOMO. It causes girls to compare themselves to super hot models all the time. They basically build their entire self worth on how many likes they get or how popular they are on social media. Same goes for guys, delete that shit now.

deville05 · 2020-04-28T06:39:08+00:00

Women are emotionally sensitive because of their hormone fluctuation and how they are wired. This world we live in is not easy. This century with all its city living and world problems is not something we have evolved to cope with. Almost everyone, man or woman, has some sort of a mental issue. Most people don't know how to get help. Depression is very common and Men don't admit to it.

mrrooftops · 2020-04-28T10:45:59+00:00

You might find that the only 'hot' girls who are attracted to you are mental ones because you are thirsty for hotness and are willing to overlook red flags. If you take an HB8/9 girl and give her serious mental issues then she be becomes, in her mind, an 5/6 because of the experience she has with top guys rejecting her. So they are receptive to lower value men if those men are thirsty and more forgiving because grateful. So you are probably 2 to 3 points below these girls. Maybe we need a ranking of HB AND SM (sane mind)

psychotropy · 2020-04-27T21:36:16+00:00

You attract what you tolerate...

mr4kino · 2020-04-27T17:29:09+00:00

Nope, it's normal mate. This is what society wanted: a generation of degenerate. Don't think men are that better, it's just that the damage has far more reach in case of women at a personal and society level.

RIchardjCranium · 2020-04-27T17:30:42+00:00

One revelation I came across a few years ago is that "It's not her, it's them..."

My mom, my ex, my sister, my landlady, significant others of friends, it's all of them. They're all in some way messed up and nuts. Some more than others. It's all in how you're able to manage it.

millenialprincess · 2020-04-28T00:12:58+00:00

What if dating assholes drove them insane? This could definitely be cyclical.

baron_vladimir · 2020-04-28T01:15:02+00:00

I'm the same. Read this. Everything made sense for me after reading it: gettinbetter.com/dance.html

hfyxythrowayway232 · 2020-04-28T01:21:18+00:00

Big tell of whether or not she will have major mental sissies is how she gets along with her parents (father specifically)

mr_chgr · 2020-04-28T01:32:43+00:00

Bit of both

Vloneturtle · 2020-04-28T05:30:52+00:00

This thread is interesting and this topic is such an underrated topic as well. Gotta be honest, almost every woman I've met had these issues in a way.
And there has been days when I've thought "how come all of these women have this issues, am I going insane who let these people in to my life". Well I guess the rabbit hole goes pretty deep here since I am not alone.

Besthater · 2020-04-28T10:28:34+00:00

Bitches be crazy

davidcoryhartin · 2020-04-28T13:29:16+00:00

I just got through with someone who thrives on conflict, first time for that. So exhausting. Sorry, had to vent.

LostInVayne · 2020-04-28T15:38:36+00:00

This just made me realize that all the relationships that I had were with women who live in a divorced home, or their father died at an early age.

Correct-Star · 2020-05-04T08:39:33+00:00

I would say that being a horrible Fucking person probably only attracts people that are as disgraceful as you are. Like for like.

the_sea_witch · 2020-05-09T10:19:20+00:00

Don't men have far higher levels of suicide and homelessness? Which is often a result of untreated mental health and addiction problems.

HorvathRed · 2020-05-24T07:44:01+00:00

Pretty much all girls have a really high amount of random anxieties and neurosis. No matter how hot, how successful.

Unlikely_Composer · 2020-04-27T17:25:28+00:00

Women are like a squirrel having sex with an acorn.

They’re all fucking nuts.

tudor07 · 2020-04-27T17:16:07+00:00

Where do you meet these women from? Tinder?

DerekMorganBAU · 2020-04-27T17:17:35+00:00

Some bitches do it to themselves, some are unfortunate because mental health issues set in around age 25 and it's extremely sudden. Like literally waking up one night to hearing voices. It can be just that quick without any prior warnings.

Either way you gotta deal with it. In my nightmares niggas keep pulling techs on me. Shit happens

BPasFuck · 2020-04-27T18:44:16+00:00

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WolfofAllStreetz · 2020-04-27T19:47:29+00:00

Women are bisexual or bipolar, it’s your job to figure out which.

JackStraw1972 · 2020-04-27T19:51:27+00:00

Quality men attract quality women. That being said if your in the US we’re all fucked in the head(it’s more fun) so that could be it

Thizzlebot · 2020-04-27T20:13:24+00:00

I just expect it at this point.

PositiveMaleGuidance · 2020-04-27T23:17:06+00:00

Here's the real red pill on mental illness. TL;DW - Godless hoes

axiscontra · 2020-04-28T00:14:35+00:00

Honestly, every woman deals with something. I don't think it's just you. Never settle though.

123456789012345a · 2020-04-28T00:41:39+00:00

The reason you only attract women with mental issues is because you have mental issues, the girl feels an emotional connection with you, because you are both fucked up.

Sorry breh.

spedoid · 2020-04-28T07:23:38+00:00

On a scale of one to ten in terms of crazy, a woman is always at least a 4. Even the most rational women are still fucking retarded

dutchgguy · 2020-04-27T20:43:41+00:00

not all, try older girls

KnightBlue2 · 2020-04-27T20:30:28+00:00

Seriously almost all women in today's age have mental health issues. It's extremely difficult to find one that doesn't have damage, doesn't freak out over non-issues, and isn't extremely selfish. It honestly just seems like a lost cause these days. You're definitely better off with your own hobbies and bettering yourself.

chazthundergut · 2020-04-27T17:09:33+00:00

Whitefarmer · 2020-04-27T18:28:55+00:00

I asked my plate turned LTR if this shit she’s taking for anxiety works? She said not really. I said throw it out and take these ( vitamin D3 zinc and magnesium) she did and now has a redpill perspective on health care and hopes every woman finds a man like me to clear the air about this shit

ProFriendZoner · 2020-04-27T19:19:33+00:00

From a clinical standpoint, a LOT of women have had some type of sexual trauma in their childhood. That fucks you up. And yes, men do too, and again, they're fucked up as well.

Women have always been sexualized.

Think about it.

Take a look around you, we ALL came from a woman's womb.

That's their purpose.

How do they get pregnant?

Sex!

Also, most victims of childhood sexual "assault" become hypersexual. Don't think that that shit doesn't fuck around with your wiring when someone is giving you the "Who's Yo' Daddy?" at 6 years old.

That being said, as humans we are creatures of not only habits, but patterns as well. This may be your pattern. Maybe deep in your brain your thinking they are easier to have sex with.

But ... to answer your question ... yes, all woman are fucking nuts!!!

zboo1h · 2020-04-27T15:40:43+00:00

I forget the link but I read a wonderful little article once called something along the lines of "Every girl under 25 is a cenobite these days".
Very accurate, very disgusting.

Title	Am I attracting women with mental health issues or is every woman carry heavy mental health issues?
Author	BareMinimumReddit
Upvotes	202
Comments	178
Date	27 April 2020 03:18 PM UTC (10 months ago)
Subreddit	askTRP
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