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Am I attracting women with mental health issues or is every woman carry heavy mental health issues?

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April 27, 2020
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Every single woman I get close to has some mental health issue. Not one single woman I've slept with or dated has had a healthy mental health background. Some outright mention their issues on the first few dates whereas some mention it few months down the line. Almost every girl seems to have had an episode of clinical depression. Some are on pills. Some have had self-harm or suicidal tendencies. Half of them have needed counselling. The rest half feel they don't 'need' a counselor. Literally. Every. Single. Woman. I know intimately is riddled with mental health issues. While I sympathize with them, this shit makes me not want to ever get in a relationship or a ltr with any girl ever. What about you guys? How many of the girls you've known well have had mental health issues? Am I just attracting this type or are majority women fucked up in the head?


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Title Am I attracting women with mental health issues or is every woman carry heavy mental health issues?
Author BareMinimumReddit
Upvotes 202
Comments 178
Date 27 April 2020 03:18 PM UTC (10 months ago)
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[–]sniper1905663 points664 points  (6 children) | Copy

25% of women have some diagnosis of mental health issue. That’s dangerous, because that means that 75% are walking around undiagnosed.

[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev127 points128 points  (0 children) | Copy

^ Came to post this. Have an upvote, sir!

[–]Yourlocal_priest8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

That part.

[–]KylieJennersbutthole1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Factual

[–]serialkvetcher0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

All hail our glorious leader!

[–][deleted] 211 points212 points  (43 children) | Copy

Some people actually have true mental health issues. But 90% of women are ruining their lives/mental health by financially overextending themselves with student debt for fake degrees and vanity trips for instagram content. They spend too much time obsessing over social media, self image and take pills for everything.

Unpopular opinion: most people have episodes of "depression" because life is hard. That's just a universal fact. This doesn't require medication. I requires you to make better choices that over time make your life better and minimizes depressive aspects of human existence.

[–]king_of_red_alphas31 points32 points  (26 children) | Copy

How exactly does one know the difference between “life is hard” depression and “nothing in this world makes me feel life is worth living” clinical depression?

[–][deleted] 44 points45 points  (5 children) | Copy

I'm definitely not the guy to define the difference. That's a question for psychology, psychiatry and philosophy. Just to be extra clear: I still think a lot of people have mental illnesses that warrant treatment, whether by counselling or pharmaceuticals. But you can be sure a lot of people are getting happy pills for relatively minor bouts of depression that are caused by the normal trials and tribulations of life.

[–]SalporinRP20 points21 points  (3 children) | Copy

But you can be sure a lot of people are getting happy pills for relatively minor bouts of depression that are caused by the normal trials and tribulations of life.

I agree completely. The biggest hurdle for people suffering from bouts of depression is just taking that first step and going outside, working out, etc.

People spend 8 hours a day in front of screens, eat terribly, don't exercise, drink/do drugs, and then are surprised they feel like shit mentally.

[–]king_of_red_alphas10 points11 points  (2 children) | Copy

People spend 8 hours a day in front of screens, eat terribly, don't exercise, drink/do drugs, and then are surprised they feel like shit mentally.

Underrated comment. However, some people live like this and are all happy-go-lucky which honestly confuses the hell out of me.

[–]falecf45 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

I know some like that. Low IQ

[–]king_of_red_alphas0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Insert Hans Landa quote here.

[–]king_of_red_alphas2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Totally ageee. No doubt about that. Although even some life events (whole family killed in a car crash or something) could warrant medication for a totally neurotypical person for a period.

But yes, I do believe the deification of victimhood among women can and does lead to over prescriptions. Like, if you are sad because you got called “fat”, it could be because you legit have mental health issues or it could be because, you know, you are ashamed of being fucking fat.

[–]1pointtwentyone14 points15 points  (1 child) | Copy

Jordan Peterson says if you have 3 of these 4 things your life sucks and it may not be clinical depression:

  1. No job
  2. No relationships
  3. Addiction problems
  4. Health Problems

[–]king_of_red_alphas1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Definitely agree there. But he also doesn’t account for how not being able to get your shit together enough to get 1 and 2 is sometimes not totally in your control if you suffer from an addiction or mental illness.

Case in point: Peterson himself.

[–]hoopingblob2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

Hi! Depression doesn't just cause "sadness", there are other effects too like: Exhaustion, no motivation and low self esteem

While you can fix the depressive mood and the low self-esteem to some degree the exhaustion part is still there. There are tricks to fix it but it takes a lot of self control.

Depression is something that is passed on genetically. Some neurotic in your brain is wired to give you less dopamine which causes these thoughts in the first place. That is the difference between depression and depressive state. Someone who is in a depressive state will just feel a little sad but they still feel euphoria and their dopamine level is still normal

I have been diagnosed with depression for 2 years now and even tho I'm not feeling so depressed anymore, I still have issues to do some things longer and sometimes my self esteem lowers again because of something someone said to me a while ago. After I attempted to kill myself for the second time I realized that I am foolish to waste my life and make everyone around me sad. I started appreciating life afterwards even though I have bad moments I still love to live.

[–]king_of_red_alphas0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Good luck man. You’re not alone in this obviously as I can relate to pretty much every word of this.

The important thing I try to remind myself is to not take on the “hopeless victim” identity (it doesn’t sound like you have) and to some extent reach a place of peace with having a brain that is my adversary more often than not.

At a certain point, make peace that an existence with constant struggle and moments of happiness is still better than non-existence.

[–]hoopingblob0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Exactly. Well said!

[–]__Archaeus__4 points5 points  (8 children) | Copy

There are three facets in your life that contribute to depression:

1) Mating - basically your romantic life. If this isn’t satisfactory to you. Figure out how to make it better. TRP is the resource.

2) Tribe - Your friends and family. If you don’t have enough solid relationships in your life (every persons number/amount can be different), you won’t have that feeling of unity you need.

3) Trade - Your job/career/mission. If this isn’t in order, or at least on a path that makes you comfortable with, then you will feel depressed about it.

These three things are at a genetic level. Find out what’s wrong with each, and fix them.

[–]throwawaycunt199710 points11 points  (3 children) | Copy

I have to disagree.

• Mating - I got out of an LTR at the beginning of the year. While it was absolute shit for me to go through, I picked up a plate and got over it before just dropping the plate and going solo monk mode.

• Tribe - Having moved back in with the folks, my family are, relatively speaking, a bunch of slobs. My mom is a cause for a lot of household drama. My old friend circle has disappeared too.

• Trade - Went from working in a pet shop - I am absolutely passionate about animals - to working at a fast food joint, which, you know, crummy food service.

Ironically I am the least depressed I have ever been. My attitude has been relatively positive, and my ambition to strive for better, dream big, and find realistic ways to achieve my desires hasn’t been stronger. Lastly, I lost most my fucks to give as my anxiety died down too, and I kind of just do between what I want and what I believe needs to be done. It’s been pretty great.

That all said, I’ll spill what I know from my anecdotal experience, and I believe it comes from a strong Sense of Self. Having a positive sense of self by getting shit done, pushing the limits of what one can do, and striving to mold oneself closer to an idealized version in one’s mind. This also gives a greater feeling of control over one’s life, and the two go hand in hand in a positive feedback loop. Exercise and fitness is a very good way to start with this, and so are hobbies. Second is the living environment. If you live like shit, you’re going to feel like shit - if you’re a slob who just piles your clothes in the corner, never make/clean your bed, has holes in the wall, cat shit in the floor, and even something as basic as just not decorating and claiming ownership over your territory, chances are you’re going to hate your living situation and it will eat away at your psyche like the bacteria in a corpse. Lastly is expression. Expressing yourself however you want with a DGAF attitude is your way to mark your presence/territory in the world. Whether it’s having a presence by saying what you want in a conversation, or territory marking by hanging a flag in your room, it empowers a person by having an impact, no matter how minuscule, in the world.

Getting laid and partying is not going to heal depression, and frankly neither is working at your dream job. Most lay people spend a sizeable amount of time in their life doing shit they don’t want to do, and this breaks some people while others know better and overcome this with an alpha attitude. Meanwhile, many others report getting laid plenty or working in their dream career path and are still depressed. (I have lived the former.) It really all just boils down to the capability to take care of yourself, and whether you fail or succeed at it. No amount of poon is going to do that for you.

The easiest way to start the path of getting out of the depression hole is... think of the dumb, gay things you may want to do for/with a girl you have had oneitis for - maybe not buying flowers, but buying good clothes or hiking with etc - and strive to do this for yourself. In other words, it’s the age-old cliché of loving yourself. From there, the momentum should build and you figure out the rest on your own.

[–]king_of_red_alphas2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

It’s the age-old cliché of loving yourself. From there, the momentum should build and you figure out the rest on your own.

On a similar note, negative self talk is hugely prevalent in people with depression, anxiety and obsessive thoughts in general.

A way to put it in check (for me) is to try to ask “is the shit I’m telling myself about myself shit i would tell one of my good friends that was suffering in a similar situation. If not, why do i not deserve at least the same treatment I would give a friend?”

[–]Vicco_0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Thanks for this !

[–]babybopp0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I agree. It is finding what makes u happy vs expectations. Take celebrity suicides like bourdain or robin williams. You would think that they were at their happiest. But they were not.

[–]king_of_red_alphas5 points6 points  (3 children) | Copy

Sorry this is dead wrong. You just listed things that are more often than not symptoms of clinical depression rather than causes.

No doubt having those things in order leads to a more healthy and balanced life, but by no means does having them make you immune to depression and anxiety.

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[–]king_of_red_alphas0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Sorry I realized I phrased that weird.

I meant to say that the lack of those things are often symptoms of depression.

For example, if getting out of bed to face life is a monumental struggle, you are likely not to have your career in order.

Cause, clinical depression, symptom your work suffers. Cause clinical depression, symptom - no social life because nobody wants to be around you. Etc.

[–]i-am-the-prize1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I know he's not loved here but Jordon Peterson has some content on this, from his class lectures that were online even before his fame, an in some interviews since. Basically people 'need':

  • a purpose/mission
  • to find themselves at their deserved position in their dominance hierarchy
  • positive family connections
  • physical health/sleep habits
  • an emotional connection system (trusted friends, spouse, etc)
  • (there may be a 6th I can't recall)

so if you find you had 5 and drop to 2, you will get down in the dumps. That is 'normal'. The key then is to restore the bullets you 'lost' to get back to an integrated/whole type person. He's big on sleep, micro-improvement, habits, diet/health as a base for mental health.

Depression when you have not lost any of those bullets and you are truly 'equipped' with the things that make 'normal' (most?) people happy; yet you're not. This is when you may benefit from more than just counseling.

aka; if you're fat/unemployed/brilliant-yet-a-janitor/with-no-friends you will be 'depressed' and it's not due to brain chemistry.

That's my take on his recalling his clinical work.

[–]javisms0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Exactly? by going to a doctor

[–]oooKenshiooo0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

One is a perfectly normal reaction to external circumstances - sometimes even permanent, if the external circumstances are sufficiently shitty.

The other is a chemical imbalance in the brain which the body is unable to compensate.

[–]RaidenDark0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Oftentimes you don't, even when it's happening to you. It's also not that simple.

I just started seeing a counsellor for major depressive disorder. Didn't even think I had it. Wouldn't have ever crossed my mind if my parents didn't have an intervention of sorts. I rationalized that I didn't feel sad most of the time, so why would it be depression that's causing my body to slowly shut down? There's no way your mood is even that influential over your health, that can't be possible. Bunch of new age psuedoscience that is. Must be diet related, I'll just keep looking for the right one like I've been doing for the past six years.

Yeah, turns out I'm an idiot and my body is shutting down to protect itself due to severe psychological trauma that I thought I could just ignore and move on from because only pathetic weaklings are subject to their emotions. I'm a master over mine, I just ignore them until they go away.

Depression is weird and complicated. I wasn't even fully sold on the idea until a few sessions with my therapist after which he shared with me some scientific literature on the subject.

[–]king_of_red_alphas0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Shit’s hard man because we can’t really know what another persons mind feels and how their specific brain processes things like fear, trauma, anxiety, sadness, etc. this makes it’s impossible to not only totally relate to another persons depression but also leads to people doubting it even exists because they have no frame of reference.

It’s not like say, breaking your arm. If 2 different people went through the process, the pain, the healing, the rehab they would have very similar stories in comparison trying to heal / navigate a fucked up brain.

[–]Yourlocal_priest-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Just take alot of psychedelics , they are clinically proven to help depression of any kind

WARNING MAY CAUSE EGO DARTH.

[–]walt_sobchak698 points9 points  (7 children) | Copy

Nailed it. Life is, by design, difficult. From Homo Sapiens, to Bears to insects, to plants and minerals. It's a process that kills off the weak & dull, while encouraging the strong & clever to reproduce.

Until very recently in most all Human Civilzations, women were protected from these harsh realities...by men. Now, in the Western World, they have thrown off their shackles and are free ! And what is the 1st thing they do with their freedoms, after riding the CC & getting a soul-crushing make-work job to finance it ?

Find the strongest pharmaceutical chains they can. I believe roughly 70% of adult American women are on some type of SSRI, etc. They are thoroughly overwhelmed by a lifestyle & social Darwinian work atmosphere that their genes were never designed for.

[–]Zero-Milk2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Absolutely. On top of the already-difficult and unprecedented circumstances humans are now faced with regarding an always-connected world that moves at breakneck pace, women also have to contend with the fact that they, as a result of their own collective choices, now have to live provider-type lifestyles that they were never meant to lead in the first place. All told, this great social experiment we call women's lib is just another of many loose sprockets in the fragile machine that is modern society.

[–]haha66690 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy

Until very recently in most all Human Civilzations, women were protected from these harsh realities...by men.

You must be kidding lmao.

Class has always been way more important than gender in such issues, don't be a fucking fool.

[–]walt_sobchak690 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

You're the fucking fool. Gave your opinion with zero logic or facts to back it up. Classic Simp move.

Both factor in but look at how women are treated in the 3rd & 2nd world. Middle East, Sub-Saharan Africa, India. That's irregardless of class. The poorest laborer in Saudia Arabi has way more rights in such issues, than the 3rd wife of the local billionare oil Sultan.

[–]haha6669-1 points0 points  (3 children) | Copy

The point was "lifes hardships"

You say that men somehow protected women from that, as if they were all treated like fucking princesses.

All the female slaves in history prove you wrong, and that's only taking the most brute example.

Both factor in but look at how women are treated in the 3rd & 2nd world. Middle East, Sub-Saharan Africa, India. That's irregardless of class. The poorest laborer in Saudia Arabi has way more rights in such issues, than the 3rd wife of the local billionare oil Sultan.

Don't even know what you're talking about. You're somehow conflating "life's hardships" with personal liberty or whatever. Doesn't make any sense.

Edit: By the way, that the poorest laborer of wherever has more "rights" than some billionaires bitch is probably completely wrong in practice anyway.

[–]walt_sobchak690 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

You're such a classic Simp, lol. Such basic Simp replies. Insult ad hominem, state opinion, give no evidence, more insults, illogical conclusion; Just a beta brain, peasant Intellect. Your life must suck.

The poorest laborer gets to drive a car, leave the house without a companion, and not have to cover himself with a garbage bag. That's more than a billionare female can do, by Saudi law.

Just perused through your post history, go back to posting retarded comments about UFC that no one even reads or upvotes. TRP is for inquiring, open minds. Not simple minded Simps like yourself.

[–]haha6669-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

No, this is what happened.

People were talking about how hard life is, depression etc.

And you saw the opportunity (which you're surely always looking for) to jump and start missfiring with this weird fetish of yours (men do stuff, women are passive, or whatever makes you hard to think about).

Well it was completely inappropriate, as I just demonstrated.

Sorry to tell you: it doesn't matter how much you try and think you're superior, or smart for that matter. I know that you try very hard. But reality is that you will never stop being a pleb.

[–]haha6669-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

The poorest laborer gets to drive a car, leave the house without a companion, and not have to cover himself with a garbage bag. That's more than a billionare female can do, by Saudi law.

Okay i thought about this.

First of all, i don't know anything about SA but if the poorest one owns a car it must be a pretty rich place.

But that made me think... Isn't there like... homeless people? In that case why did you ignore them in favor of the poorest laborer?

But moving forward.

So let's imagine, you can go out of your house alone, but outside there is another house engulfing yours. You can't see the sky.

The other person can only go out with a companion, but can do so all the way to the exterior.

Would that have anything to do with freedom?

[–]zeekt120 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Factsss

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Facts

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Why does it also hit when life is going well? To me someone with true depression will have it hit independently from life events. It's not just "my dog died" or "my girlfriend dumped me". It has hit the day after I found out I got A's on all my final grades.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

If that's the case you might be in the clinically depressed group, not the normal-life-isn't-constant-euphoria depressed group. But I'm tempted to say you're falling for the koolaid about what society tells you should make you happy. Getting straight As was supposed to make you happy, society told you that. But then you got the A's and you realized they are literally just letters and nothing changed in that moment. Post-secondary education is mostly a racket where unaccountable hyper-specialized beta intellectuals create unfettered credentialism (which they benefit from) and put young people into debt so they can be exploited by banks/government/employers. Make no mistake, the post secondary system of today is nothing like what our parents or grandparents had. It has become a monster.

[–]Paroxismm0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yessir

[–]Endorsed ContributorUEMcGill0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

But 90% of women are ruining their lives/mental health by financially overextending themselves with student debt for fake degrees and vanity trips for instagram content.

My personal experience is that the depression that a lot of women face comes from trying to be one of the boys. Then along comes yet another beta-boy who wants to be 'equal partners'. From that comes a lack of leadership, and insecurity.

[–]madfrombrad42 points43 points  (9 children) | Copy

99.99% of red pill guys find themselves fucking mental health issue girls at FIRST. This is because these hoes invented the god damn shit test.

Once I learned to Vet, I realized I could do the SAME thing with “mentally healthy women” (in quotes for a reason) that I could dodge 99.9% of false rape charges and the classic “hoe takes your nut from the connie and knocks herself up” types of bullshit.

All I gotta say man.. if she’s a confessed alcoholic or other addict stay the fuck away. Only plate to ever make up shit from anything got me drunk and tried to get me to keep drinking even though I wouldn’t fuck her. I changed my mind and dropped her off when I got sober. She then told everyone from our old highschool I raped her.

Whatever, dumb bitch gonna be homeless in a year anyways. Fuck her.

[–]PinacoladaSauce8 points9 points  (7 children) | Copy

Bro gotta use a safe word. Best anti MeToo invention there is. If they verbally agree to a safe word, verbally say yes, then not even the hamster can spin the rape charge

[–]CaptainVolk3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

You got a good idea there, but I honestly don’t see that holding up in court if she really wants to fuck you over. Not unless you record her agreeing to a safe word right before y’all fuck lol.

[–]PinacoladaSauce0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I mean if it comes to court I’m an upstanding citizen with no priors, volunteers and donates to charity, with a very reasonable believable and confirmable alibi, and all my plates and ex’s are on good terms. Edit: there are a few exceptions but they aren’t really reputable persons

If she really wants to fuck me over she’s welcome to pick that battle. But if we’re gonna go to war she knows damn well what i’m bringing to the table

It’s all hypothetical, i’ve never had any false allegations happen. But I feel sometimes this sub over exaggerates the frequency in which criminal punishment is actually applied for a false allegation and I’ve never once seen anyone suggest any sort of precautionary measure. A safe word is easy, repeatable, believable, and confirmable with past partners, and it means she has to openly lie, rather than let the hamster spin

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

How do you prove any of that?

[–]PinacoladaSauce2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy

She’s openly lying at that point. When you say, no I asked for consent and verbally she gave it, there’s no room for confusion there.

Obviously it’s not 100% going to work no matter what but it’s the best possible defense imo. She’s verbally saying yes

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (2 children) | Copy

I agree in theory but in practice if you can't prove it then it's just your word against the word of the cute young innocent girl you victimized like a monster.

[–]PinacoladaSauce0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

It’s all theory. I’ve never been accused of a rape, never plan on it. Obviously we don’t decide but i’m just saying i take precautions against it

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I'm saying it's no precaution if it's hearsay.

[–]Dantheman30050 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Nowadays you gotta have your own evidence by filming your own sex tape with her in case you ever get that bs

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[–]BPasFuck13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy

Statements like this one have been very common for as long as I've been on TRP.

Every user assumes that the majority of others here think like they do, and come from a similar background. Everyone's white, professional, and upwardly mobile.

Except when they're black. Or brown. And so forth.

Fact is, when you start digging in-- just about the only thing you find people have in common here, is women.

Don't believe me? State something you believe to be a middle of the road sample of your own personal political philosophy, and watch people come out of the woodwork to tell you what a heathen you are, right here on asktrp.

[–][deleted] 85 points86 points  (22 children) | Copy

Right off the bat ask them about their family. If the dad isn't in the picture just leave it at one date. You may feel sorry for these women or that you can 'nurse them back to health' but don't waste your time. No matter how good you are to them, when it ends, you'll be called an abusive asshole.

But yea most western women today have a myriad of mental health issues stemming from our contemporary experience. The amount of women going for a PhD I come in contact with who really are just doing it for the clout will astound you. Most women want a career because they've been told to want one. Most women actually want to have children. The longer you live with a woman the more you'll notice how much like a child they are.

[–]_the_shape_30 points31 points  (8 children) | Copy

he amount of women going for a PhD I come in contact with who really are just doing it for the clout will astound you.

lol

I dated a girl once who fully confessed that she was getting her doctorate in psychology because she believed that, with such a move, people would "finally begin to treat her seriously".

Nearing the completion of her degree but drowning in debt, addicted to psych meds, even admitting to possibly being BPD (in my short experience with her, I'd lean toward yes, chick was the textbook frightening, gas-lighting nutjob paired together with good looks and great sex), and putting all her hope behind a title to save her.

Up to this day, I'm (still) not sure if that's more tragedy or comedy.

[–]notWhatIsTheEnd23 points24 points  (5 children) | Copy

In my experience a good percentage of psyche students (BS) are in it to find out what's wrong with them without getting a diagnoses.

[–]ImNotSue6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

I got my degrees to learn about people, but also ended up learning about myself. It may not be THE specific motivation but it likely ends up happening anyway. TRP appeals nicely due to its base in evolutionary psychology, and it's very sensible to view humanity through a less emotional lens that way.

At the very least, people might learning to be more self aware through psychology. It's not guaranteed of course but I'm sure it helps.

[–]absolutelynp5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

funny thing is that doesnt work, well finding out whats wrong works, but treating yourself doesnt

[–]_the_shape_3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

She admitted that too and that at least half of her class was profoundly interested for the same reason, to "figure themselves out"

[–]disgruntledearthling7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

That's the way I saw it when I started psychology 35ish years ago. Switched to Comp Sci pretty fast

[–]seefromabove4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's a well documented fact in psychology, actually. A psychologist told me that. Many go into the field to heal themselves first.

[–]Joe_Doblow2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

I’ve been with a girl just like this but without the degree and debt. Wasn’t worth the sex and eye candy. If she was an 8 1/2 I’d rather have a sane 6 as an ltr. Just being so pretty messes with your ego so much many become brats and manipulative but it’s ok if it’s a plate and it’s just fun times

[–]Anonymous2k180 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

🧢

[–]TheProfitMotive21 points22 points  (6 children) | Copy

Even when the dad is in the picture, she can still be a terrible prospect for an LTR.

For example one of my FBs is 20 yrs old, and her body count is already 25. She loves her dad and has a great relationship with him, but her dad more or less let her do whatever she wants (she even tells him about guys shes fucking).

She is a good fwb, but she is an abysmal gf. I've known her for 2 years and she has not been able to keep a relationship going for more than 2 months in that time.

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Oh yea by no means was I etching commandments into stone, just a baseline.

The modern mind of a woman is a maze and its your job as a man to navigate it quickly.

I was in my home town recently, father fell and broke his hip, and the amount of women from high school literally willing to just open their legs for me was disgusting. Sex is the new handshake. Find a germaphobe.

[–]xxx69harambe69xxx9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

Sex is the new handshake. Find a germaphobe.

mr trump is that you?

[–]Senior Endorseddr_warlock4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

If you talk to your daughter about guys she's fucking, you're a bitch nigga.

[–]TheProfitMotive4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Bro I don't get what the fuck is up with most fathers. Most have no fucking clue how to raise a daughter.

A daughters sole purpose is that you raise her to be the kind of woman that can attract a rich, successful man that can help the family down the line if needed.

These Gen X dads though, they just let their daughters do whatever the fuck they want. One of my plates is 19. She told me about one time when she has 17 and she was gangbanged by 5 guys. She lives with her dad + has a good relationship with him, but I don't know what the fuck he is doing bc he def is not raising his daughter right.

[–]Mr_Mandingo931 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

truer words have never been spoken.

#facts

[–]HollowLegMonk2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

My last LTR hid it from me. Didn’t find out that her brain was all kinds of fucked up until months down the road. I knew something was off pretty early on but she wouldn’t tell me until I got her to open up one night. Turns out she tried to commit suicide at age 11 and her parents threw her in the looney bin for a while. She had a horrible relationship with her father her parents were divorced a year after her suicide attempt that she blamed herself for and she currently had severe depression and anxiety. I found all that out in one night. She wasn’t in therapy or taking medication she said she didn’t believe in pills and couldn’t afford a therapist. The icing on the cake though, was that she had a degree in psychology.

Can’t make this kind of shit up.

[–]baron_vladimir1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

No matter how good you are to them, when it ends, you'll be called an abusive asshole.

Usually, but not always. I have a tendency to suffer the "savior" complex, where I try to "save" people from mental health issues -- specially girls. Sometimes, I believe, I have trully succeded.

I had a girlfriend who would hurt herself badly, attempt suicide and stuff like that right up until we got together. She actually did a 180 and became a wonderful person. Obviously after this I had no more interest (lol) and we parted ways in good terms.

A few years later I got an email from her thanking me for helping her, telling me how good her life was and that she was raising two healthy girls and had a strong marriage, supposedly all thanks to me.

Maybe she lied, but I have had this happen a few times so I don't think everyone is beyond "salvation".

I'm too busy with my own life now to go around trying to save people though.

[–]BareMinimumReddit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Right off the bat ask them about their family. If the dad isn't in the picture just leave it at one date

Good point. I can attest to most of them having some parental issue. Either one of the parent not being in picture. Or the dad being an alcoholic, domestic violence etc

[–]koopa2430 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This. I’ve been running into this a lot lately with the women pursing a bunch of degrees with no plans to use them. I was dating a chick who was about to complete her masters with plans to go back for her PhD. I asked her what she planned on doing with her degrees, and she had no clue. I honestly believe they do that to compensate for their insecurities. They attach to self worth to a bunch of post grad degrees and all they have to show for it is massive student loan debt.

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[–]itsyaboiiiiiiiii13 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

sexy children

Oh no

[–]CuntMonteCristo13 points14 points  (2 children) | Copy

I have dated a shit ton of women the last few years (don't mean to brag, just data) and I can confirm that 7-8 out of 10 these days have mental health issues, some even severe as you mentioned. There are studies about that too, some were mentioned lately by a guy on the Joe "You got to try DMT" Rogan Podcast but I can't remember the dude's name atm. Anyway you are not alone bro...that is the state of women in 2020 (Especially girls in big cities)

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I'd really like to know who the guest was on that episode. Anyone know?

[–]CuntMonteCristo0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Here is a short clip, he talks about other different points during the podcast, but it is a start for you. I would say watch the whole thing.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ggGSXO0Juw8

[–]alphaonthecomeup26 points27 points  (0 children) | Copy

My ex had anxiety and depression and took pills for it. Her father worked away from the family in a different country , so wasn’t in the picture too much. I thought I could deal with this shit, maybe even help her get off the pills one day. All I wanted was to make her happy and hoped that she would try her hardest to return the favor. L L L L L L L

Shit is very wack dealing with girls who have mental health issues. You try to love them and care for them and then it does get blown back up in your face. Focus on yourself and your mental health.

My boy told me that at the beginning of the relationship I was fine and now post break up I’m fucked mentally and have to work my way back up. That shit is contagious.

[–]2319Skew30 points31 points  (8 children) | Copy

I have a theory that I can't share with anyone that's not red pill aware.

I think that due to the whole rise of feminism and rampant improvement of communication technology. We're living in an age where women see the ideal woman as being "a powerful, independent, and sexually free" individual.

Women are being shown that they can be sluts and people will love them for it. They get the attention from all the thirsty betas and they see 'role models' on IG and other social media showcase a lifestyle of just hedonism.

So these women go out and get pumped and dumped. The problem is that they don't develop a personality and they become nothing more than objects for gratification. Most guys here have seen a woman that's got a thousand cock stare and she's quite figuratively dead inside.

Add in some new age psychology and everything is an illness that shouldn't be overcome by will and determination but placated by acceptance and medication and you've got what we're dealing with right now.

We've got a surge of women that are stupid and slutty and self harm or medicate because they lack a strong masculine figure since feminism has castrated anything overtly masculine as a threat.

Toss in lack of good father figures and you've got a downward spiral.

Now, I'm not tossing the puck on women entirely here. There are no shortage of men that have swallowed the current narrative that it's wrong to be a dominant man. These men turn into cucks that enable the cycle. We've also got Alphas that are just pumping and dumping women and creating a surge of damaged goods.

I'm not saying that to judge women or men. I'm no white knight and I don't care about the choices that women and guys I don't know make. I'm just saying this is my theory as to why there's so many fucked up women.

But I agree with OP. There's an increasing number of younger women that I'm running into that lack any form of character or self awareness and trying to 'guide' them is an utter waste of time.

[–]xxx69harambe69xxx7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

its really the media doing this. You can guide them, but they just revert as soon as they get a whiff of their past fantasies they dreamed about in rom coms. Its really sad.

You have to target highly intelligent women who arent as easily coerced by media. This is actually a great filter tho, simply ask them the stuff they watch and do online. If its friends and instagram, next

[–]Endorsed ContributorNightwingTRP5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Solid theory. I always used to think the thousand cock stare was just a joke taken too seriously by some lads. It's borderline heartbreaking to see a girl you knew as happy and positive gain that stare... see the literal change in the way she looks in her face... and see how her personality has just been destroyed.

You then realise this has happened to a lot of women. Huge numbers. It's almost like our grandparents had been doing something right. But that world is gone. Welcome to thousand cock stare land.

[–]madfrombrad14 points15 points  (3 children) | Copy

Breaking news: Women turn themselves in to objects /s

Every female species has done this rather than work since the dawn of time.

[–]2319Skew21 points22 points  (0 children) | Copy

Huge fucking difference between being a mother of 4 stay at home mom, helping out in a farm, cooking and cleaning VS sitting in bed swiping down on your IG feed while you're watching 90 day fiancee in the background.

[–]catsdontsmile15 points16 points  (1 child) | Copy

Holy shit, this. You know when they bitch about society sexualizing them, and its like bitch you do that on your own. And then its like they want to be sexualized only by the hot guys and not the creep rapists roaming the streets as if they could be SELECTIVE about who gets turned on by dressing like a slut? And then if they get raped for walking at 4 am down the train tracks they aren't at fault but its like holy shit, if I do that with a rolex and get mugged people are going to think I'm a god damned moron. They aren't going to say "oh he should be able to wear a rolex anywhere he pleases! Its not the fault of the man wearing the rolex!". I don't know about "fault" but its just unrealistic to act surprised when they snatch your fucking watch

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Lmfao. Hilarious and I agree.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Dude your theory is spot on.

Also:

There are no shortage of men that have swallowed the current narrative that it's wrong to be a dominant man. These men turn into cucks that enable the cycle. We've also got Alphas that are just pumping and dumping women and creating a surge of damaged goods.

95% of women are in an impossible position now because of feminism stratifying males and fucking up incentives so badly. Alphas get so much pussy and ruin women by pump-n-dumping and they have no reason to commit to any woman because 1) feminism has handed them pussy for free and 2) divorce law is absolutely fucked. The rest of the male population becomes so pathetically desperate that they come to mentally and physically embody simphood.

[–]RPOpenUp4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

^ True

If the one power that a women has, having a vagina, is being given away for little/almost free.

What value does she hold when she loses this?

Exactly.

[–]TheTastelessBatman15 points16 points  (4 children) | Copy

Most of them just play the card "oh I got raped tehe."

Nope outta there every single time..

[–]madfrombrad9 points10 points  (3 children) | Copy

At least 50% of girls I know got “raped” lmao

Ik the boys who “””raped””””, they just scored hahahagaga

[–][deleted] 13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy

Dictionaries are going to have to start changing the definition of the word "raped" to "had a regrettable sexual encounter". No one takes the word seriously anymore. We need a new word for actual rape.

[–]TheTastelessBatman7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy

And she later changed her mind.

[–]nickisaboss-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Do you just spend all day fabricating scenarios to be mad at imaginary people?

Grow up, this is pathetic.

[–]TheProfitMotive23 points24 points  (7 children) | Copy

Yes, every girl under the age of 35 these days has some form of mental health problem. I have fucked about 30 girls in the last 2 years and every single one of them had some sort of mental health issue that made them difficult to be with / sabotage the relationship

Which is why you don't give women any commitment. Bc they will just spit it back in your face anyhow

[–]1bad5110 points11 points  (1 child) | Copy

Pro-tip: these issues don't get better with age.

[–]TheProfitMotive0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yh one of my exes sabotaged our relationship bc she had this huge crazy fear of abandonment/trust issues, the root cause basically being her dad wasnt in the picture as a kid.

Anyway admitted to her the whole time we were together i was fucking other girls. Can only imagine it's only going to get worse as she gets pumped and dumped and more guys realize she's not committment material

[–]LaponaCrypto5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Where did you met them? Honest question I'm having trouble find more than 3-4 per year

[–]Noodlesoupe21 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

That’s because mentally stable women tend to not have as much casual sex

[–]IbahBar0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I had a similar experience.

[–]disgruntledearthling-2 points-1 points  (1 child) | Copy

Which is why you don't give women any commitment. Bc they will just spit it back in your face anyhow

Agreed!

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

First you want it, then you don't want it! Make up your mind ladies! lol

[–]Iluvalmonds833 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

I think the socialization differences between genders play somewhat of a part. Women connect by talking, sharing secrets/intimate information, social bonding . Men usually connect by doing things with others, not by sharing their fee-fee’s. Mental illness and any precursors around it is a well known stigma for men, not so much with women. Hence women are more likely to discuss it freely without as much social consequence. Unfortunately Both genders suffer more/less from certain types of disorders but even in our current society it’s not Ok for guys to talk about, acknowledge or seek help.

But for real, if you realize most of the women you go for have actual serious mental illnesses it’s time for some reflection to find out why you may gravitate towards dysfunctional people. Some people subconsciously chase to “save/fix” others or are attracted to bonding by trauma, especially if their parental figure was dysfunctional as well.

One of my friends for most of his 20-30’s was notoriously known to chase after young, pretty crazy ass girls with serious problems. There’d be a few attractive sane, stable, seemingly higher value girls in the mix, but he’d get bored and soon enough chase after the next batch of crazy. It wasn’t until he did some self discovery after a pretty bad breakup that he found someone who wasn’t batshit crazy.

[–]johncillo3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

I had this same problem, you have to look at yourself and see if you are imbalanced, that means asking:

  • Do I feel attracted to the type of girls that are damaged so I can save them?

  • Do I feel good when a girl says she can trust me with her issues?

  • Have I sabotaged previous relationships by being beta just to victimize myself and get attention?

  • Do I feel like I can save them from something or someone?

  • Am I getting attracted to girls that crave attention?

Now, once you have defined that, take a look at what you’re doing now. I have been with people with mental disorders, but now my relationships even with plates are more mature, honest and balanced. Not gonna lie, I still like girls that crave attention because they are hot as fuck, but they have turned dull and a liability to my peace of mind so they turn into pump and dump sometimes.

[–]rpmc833 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

My LTR of over 1 year asked me tonight if I'd ever slept with a girl I know who lives a few hours away. I told her yes, but it was 7-8 years ago. That was it, she flew off the rails, started charging around my house packing her things, hit me a couple times, gestured to throw stuff at me (but didn't throw). She said I'd been lying for a year about it and said I had an agenda. After a few childish insults, she left and said she'd see me on Tinder in a couple hours.

I found the whole experience odd. I never had a motive to lie about my past, nor did I have an agenda. We've been monogamous since we met. Anyway her tendency to violence and her acting like I did something heinously wrong troubles me. I'm in the same boat as OP. This isn't my first run-in with crazy either.

She is having her period soon, and she takes some sort of anti-depressant every morning if that helps in understanding the situation.

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It truly is an epidemic, I will never date anyone that I know has used SSRIs. Eventually you’ll be able to identify these broads solely by the look in their eyes.

[–]madfrombrad7 points8 points  (2 children) | Copy

I would agree but docs give SSRI’s out like candy these days. It’s usually her psych’s or mom’s fault

[–]ZeppKfw3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

When I moved to a Western country one of the first things I noticed is that almost everyone takes some sort of drugs. Headache? Drugs. Wrist hurting? Drugs. Feel a little sad? Drugs.

[–]alphaonthecomeup1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Deadass bro. Like fucking candy. My ex girls mom let her daughter hop on meds when she was a teen and I tried to tell that maybe you are in a different space now and don’t need the meds. Long story short she is in a new country, due to some life leveling up (thanks to me) and She didn’t even try to taper off or attempt. She literally found a walk in doctor and got a new prescription, I was just like wtf man. I guess it’s good if she actually needs them but yo go see a doctor and get rechecked. How do you just continue taking this shit? Always popping pills for every little thing instead of letting shit heal naturally. Smfh. L

[–]unn4med2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

Could you elaborate?

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

They looking fucking crazy bruh.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

It’s like the thousand cock stare except with dead eyes. You either see it or you don’t.

[–]ViolentInteger8 points9 points  (9 children) | Copy

If you're attracting women with depression, that isn't your fault. Depression has increased quite a bit in the last 15 years due to social media. They can still make fine FWBs.

If you're attracting women with narcissistic personality disorder, borderline personality disorder, and/or severe daddy issues, then this IS your fault. Your filter should have caught and eliminated them well before you got yourself involved.

[–]madfrombrad4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

Narcissistic bitches know how to spit game unfortunately. It’s the evolutionary reason the disorder exists today, most girls can’t

[–]ViolentInteger-2 points-1 points  (1 child) | Copy

I don't have a problem picking out people with NPD. A lot of other people can't, and THAT'S the evolutionary reason the disorder exists today.

[–]xxx69harambe69xxx0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy

what filters do you got for example for narcissism in women?

[–]ViolentInteger3 points4 points  (4 children) | Copy

The markers of NPD include: does she excessively use social media? Do conversations usually revolve around her? Does she constantly talk negatively about other people and tear them down? Is she overly sensitive to slights against her?

I find any of those behaviors to be huge turn-offs. Some guys were surrounded by narcissists growing up, so they have trouble filtering them out.

[–]OttoVonBismark712 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

I'm going to add some others: unusually complimentary about you if she likes you, your interaction with her (including if she has a crush on you) always is about her own feelings, genuinely gets satisfaction at the misfortune of others, treats people she sees as below her in a cruel way, constant prize mentality (she believes she is something special), treats others as disposable, thinks she is doing you a favor by spending time with you,

I think for normal people, NPD is just simply hard to truly understand. Also, NPD often goes hand-in-hand with insecurity so it can be confusing. I've had situations with women who were deeply insecure, where I treated them well in order to help build up their confidence...only to be completely disposed of later when I was no longer convenient or our relationship affected her ego. Some of the most horrendous women I have met have had the combination of NPD and insecurity.

I will also add that, in my experience, there is usually a 'tell.' Looking back, most of the women with NPD had something that just struck me as repulsive that I shrugged off at the time. there's something about their appearance that isn't quite right. and I always regret not listening to my instinct.

[–]HellSpeed1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

You guys should consider writing a post on this. This is a type of new material that would help a lot of us out.

[–]OttoVonBismark710 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

sure, let me think about it and write something up

[–]xxx69harambe69xxx-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

damn thanks! what about bpd?

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (3 children) | Copy

What else do you expect from women when men aren't taking responsibility? Dad, uncle, boyfriend, co-workers, etc.. You know their mind functions like a child and need to be led by men. Men are leading them to have these mental health issues.

It's simple to pump and dump her for fun and assume no responsibility after leading her on. I have seen too many posts on here about generating insecurity and manipulating women to keep them as a plate by spinning their hamster. These are acts by weak men to get a taste of what it is like to be a strong alpha without putting in the effort to seek the best version of oneself and being attractive for her. These are all acts that add up psychologically overtime for women and leads to poorer and poorer quality of women. Then there is reverse argument that feedback into circle jerk about 'Well she's a whore, so what if I pump and dump her?' I'm not saying you should be her therapist, but be honest with the ones you have vetted thoroughly about your intentions.

Take responsibility and guide her.

[–]volvostupidshit2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

I only take responsibility for myself.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Good for you, but you're not a leader.

[–]Lateralanouncer0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

No. Woman are the gate keepers of sex and are responsible for that. Men are responsible to make themselves a desirable top 20% man. 80% of Prime 18-25 year woman are opening there legs to top 20% men (anyone with game and a six pack etc). If your an alpha (top 20% male) unless your living under a rock you know this. Why work your ass off to be in the top 20% to give commitment to cheap pussy. Makes no sense. Even if all top males entered a relationships that leaves 60% of woman pump and dumped alpha widows.

[–]Noodlesoupe22 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Do some introspection here. Beta and mentally ill guys tend to go after mental chicks for many reasons including the love-bombing and constant attention, the need to be captain save-a-hoe, relating to their feelings of pain, and especially the fact that these girls tend to give up crazy good sex on the first date. Plus guys tend to like drama just as much as girls do and a crazy chick will send you on a rollercoaster that will make you addicted to her.

[–]devenstackz2Q3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy

Part of it i think that all humans are disappointing and we are programed to see women with high regards and see them as a civilizing force but they aren't they are just regular humans if not worse

[–]HellSpeed0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

They are just regular humans if not worse

Lol'd at that

[–]devenstackz2Q0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

The reason of < if not worse> not because they are bad but because girls have no values for example what does it mean to have values it means following your values no matter how you are feeling but girls follow feelings so this is why they are worse not because they are evil...

[–]Noodlesoupe23 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Confirmation bias. Those girls tend to be easy so you get exposed to them more often in the casual dating scene

[–]Str8_Pillin3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

You already know a ton of people that have mental health issues.
But they keep that shit to themselves because its none of anyone's fucking business.

But when it comes to your girlfriend, suddenly its the worst form of anxiety that's ever been invented, and you need to pick up her slack while she lays on the couch and watches Vampire Diaries.

It will be sold to you as a temporary thing, but its a chronic disorder. And once you cave once she'll get you every time. Death by a thousand paper cuts.

Once you hear the words "I have anxiety (or whatever else)", she's telling you, "here's my ticket out of every adult responsibility that we(you) are going to come across". 80% of which she is going to cause.

Attracting them isn't the problem, keeping them is.

[–]Snowboard181 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

A fuck ton have mental health issues, my guess would be like a good 75-85%.

As far as the cause of this in women, firstly, they generally don't have the mental fortitude of men to deal with these problems, so its a feedback loop.

I wrote a paper on this one, social media. That shit is terrible for you mentally. It amplifies FOMO. It causes girls to compare themselves to super hot models all the time. They basically build their entire self worth on how many likes they get or how popular they are on social media. Same goes for guys, delete that shit now.

[–]deville051 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Women are emotionally sensitive because of their hormone fluctuation and how they are wired. This world we live in is not easy. This century with all its city living and world problems is not something we have evolved to cope with. Almost everyone, man or woman, has some sort of a mental issue. Most people don't know how to get help. Depression is very common and Men don't admit to it.

[–]mrrooftops1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

You might find that the only 'hot' girls who are attracted to you are mental ones because you are thirsty for hotness and are willing to overlook red flags. If you take an HB8/9 girl and give her serious mental issues then she be becomes, in her mind, an 5/6 because of the experience she has with top guys rejecting her. So they are receptive to lower value men if those men are thirsty and more forgiving because grateful. So you are probably 2 to 3 points below these girls. Maybe we need a ranking of HB AND SM (sane mind)

[–]psychotropy2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

You attract what you tolerate...

[–]mr4kino3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Nope, it's normal mate. This is what society wanted: a generation of degenerate. Don't think men are that better, it's just that the damage has far more reach in case of women at a personal and society level.

[–]RIchardjCranium2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

One revelation I came across a few years ago is that "It's not her, it's them..."

My mom, my ex, my sister, my landlady, significant others of friends, it's all of them. They're all in some way messed up and nuts. Some more than others. It's all in how you're able to manage it.

[–]millenialprincess0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

What if dating assholes drove them insane? This could definitely be cyclical.

[–]baron_vladimir0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I'm the same. Read this. Everything made sense for me after reading it: gettinbetter.com/dance.html

[–]hfyxythrowayway2320 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Big tell of whether or not she will have major mental sissies is how she gets along with her parents (father specifically)

[–]mr_chgr0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Bit of both

[–]Vloneturtle0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This thread is interesting and this topic is such an underrated topic as well. Gotta be honest, almost every woman I've met had these issues in a way.
And there has been days when I've thought "how come all of these women have this issues, am I going insane who let these people in to my life". Well I guess the rabbit hole goes pretty deep here since I am not alone.

[–]Besthater0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Bitches be crazy

[–]davidcoryhartin0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I just got through with someone who thrives on conflict, first time for that. So exhausting. Sorry, had to vent.

[–]LostInVayne0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This just made me realize that all the relationships that I had were with women who live in a divorced home, or their father died at an early age.

[–]Correct-Star0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I would say that being a horrible Fucking person probably only attracts people that are as disgraceful as you are. Like for like.

[–]the_sea_witch0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Don't men have far higher levels of suicide and homelessness? Which is often a result of untreated mental health and addiction problems.

[–]HorvathRed0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Pretty much all girls have a really high amount of random anxieties and neurosis. No matter how hot, how successful.

[–]Unlikely_Composer0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Women are like a squirrel having sex with an acorn.

They’re all fucking nuts.

[–]madfrombrad-2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy

They do be lookin kinda nuts doe 😳

[–]tudor070 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Where do you meet these women from? Tinder?

[–]madfrombrad-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Tinder hoes try to use you

Bumble hoes will drive across the country to fuck you

If you wanna see how lame sex with a whore is, download bumble LMFAO

Otherwise hit the park and spit some game ;)

[–]Black JesusDerekMorganBAU0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Some bitches do it to themselves, some are unfortunate because mental health issues set in around age 25 and it's extremely sudden. Like literally waking up one night to hearing voices. It can be just that quick without any prior warnings.

Either way you gotta deal with it. In my nightmares niggas keep pulling techs on me. Shit happens

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[–]BPasFuck1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

"ran off to sea org"

Hahahah, fuck. Every man should be so lucky. Problem girl? Tell her about sea org. Escape!

[–]disgruntledearthling0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah but she's got to be really, really gullible to throw her life away like that. It's a billion-year commitment!

[–]WolfofAllStreetz0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Women are bisexual or bipolar, it’s your job to figure out which.

[–]JackStraw1972-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Quality men attract quality women. That being said if your in the US we’re all fucked in the head(it’s more fun) so that could be it

[–]Thizzlebot-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

I just expect it at this point.

[–]PositiveMaleGuidance-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Here's the real red pill on mental illness. TL;DW - Godless hoes

[–]axiscontra-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Honestly, every woman deals with something. I don't think it's just you. Never settle though.

[–]123456789012345a-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

The reason you only attract women with mental issues is because you have mental issues, the girl feels an emotional connection with you, because you are both fucked up.

Sorry breh.

[–]spedoid-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

On a scale of one to ten in terms of crazy, a woman is always at least a 4. Even the most rational women are still fucking retarded

[–]dutchgguy-4 points-3 points  (0 children) | Copy

not all, try older girls

[–]KnightBlue2-3 points-2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Seriously almost all women in today's age have mental health issues. It's extremely difficult to find one that doesn't have damage, doesn't freak out over non-issues, and isn't extremely selfish. It honestly just seems like a lost cause these days. You're definitely better off with your own hobbies and bettering yourself.

[–]TravisScottNL1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Why did you get downvoted lmao

[–]KnightBlue20 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

🤷‍♂️ Reddit works in mysterious ways.

[–]3chazthundergut-3 points-2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yes

[–]Whitefarmer-4 points-3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I asked my plate turned LTR if this shit she’s taking for anxiety works? She said not really. I said throw it out and take these ( vitamin D3 zinc and magnesium) she did and now has a redpill perspective on health care and hopes every woman finds a man like me to clear the air about this shit

[–]ProFriendZoner-4 points-3 points  (0 children) | Copy

From a clinical standpoint, a LOT of women have had some type of sexual trauma in their childhood. That fucks you up. And yes, men do too, and again, they're fucked up as well.

Women have always been sexualized.

Think about it.

Take a look around you, we ALL came from a woman's womb.

That's their purpose.

How do they get pregnant?

Sex!

Also, most victims of childhood sexual "assault" become hypersexual. Don't think that that shit doesn't fuck around with your wiring when someone is giving you the "Who's Yo' Daddy?" at 6 years old.

That being said, as humans we are creatures of not only habits, but patterns as well. This may be your pattern. Maybe deep in your brain your thinking they are easier to have sex with.

But ... to answer your question ... yes, all woman are fucking nuts!!!

[–]zboo1h-5 points-4 points  (2 children) | Copy

I forget the link but I read a wonderful little article once called something along the lines of "Every girl under 25 is a cenobite these days".
Very accurate, very disgusting.

[–]TheProfitMotive-2 points-1 points  (1 child) | Copy

Yh there are no wives in Gen Z or the millennial generation.

I've realized long term when you want to settle down your lowest chance of not getting divorce raped is going for a girl who was raised extremely conservative Christian from Day 1, or other religion (Jew/Muslim)

[–]xxx69harambe69xxx0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

and immigrant from a rich family



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