I'm going to keep this short because no one likes having his time wasted. Guys often get the impression that everything is their responsibility. Even TRP reinforces this notion that you are always in charge. And this is often true.
But not in every case. Modern day women expect a whole lot of men. Sexually they expect to be fucked and dominated like their ultimate fantasy books. Every woman wants this, even fat and ugly women. This brings me to my argument.
Being sexually attracted to women is not our responsibility. it is theirs. We put in all this time and energy to be of high value so women want to take our attention and commitment. Equally they are expected to put in sufficient time and energy to appear desirable so we want to take them sexually. The truth is that not many women succeed at this nowadays.
Don't beat yourself up when you don't feel like rough fucking some girl. It doesn't make you less 'Alpha' or dominant as a man. When she looks like this you might not be enticed, even if she expects you to. But when she looks like this it should come to you naturally. There's only so much you can do as a man with any particular woman
Understand that your behavior will vary from woman to woman based on her looks. Don't settle for something that you aren't attracted to. No one can negotiate attraction.