New friend u/freelance_sector gave us this short and well written piece on where he is in his life. He tells us what his life looks like and how he enjoys his life.

There might have been some mild disputes between the married men and the single men, whether never married or divorced, about what is best for men, or what the best life is for men.

I prefer to avoid such arguments or distinctions among men and I prefer they not be fomented or entertained here. And here's why.

The entire point of our subreddits are to help men live the lives they want. We aim to help men shape and form their lives so they look the way men want them to and so that men get the most from their own lives. One way we do that is by pointing out and identifying low value women, and helping men avoid those women in the first place.

So many of us come from former lives where we believed the lies. "Happy wife, happy life!" "Behind every great man is a great woman!" "Women civilize men." "You can't live a fulfilled life without a woman." "You have to be single/married/divorced/whatever to be happy".

We believed people who we thought knew better than we did. What they did was give us the 1955 playbook for a 1990s-2000s sexual and marriage marketplace.

And it has been an unmitigated disaster.

We have been working to fix that. And we have, individually, for our own lives.

Most of us have lives that look the way we want them to. Or, we are working toward that goal. We have our own corners of the world, and we are masters of our domains there. Single, married, MGTOW, no matter how we identify. We are men who have cast off the old and fully embrace the new. And the new is of our invention. It belongs to us, individually.

And it can belong to you, too. You, too, can make your life look the way you want. It will be work. It will take discipline, sacrifice, and planning. You might have to fix relationships you have. You might have to tell others they need to do some repairs. You might have to get rid of some relationships. But you can do this.

Get your corner of the world. Shape it to your liking. Then invite others to share it with you. Or not.

It's up to you.