The comment that made me bring this up:

Basically, " if you didnt want us at my worse, you don't dont deserve us at our best". When they are in their 20s women are not there to grow with the men their own age. And as a result when those men are in their 30s and 40s they won't be there for the women their own age, as they were never there for them. You didn't help bake the pie, so you don't get any of it.

Did we forget how much men hate women like that?

Why should I be around a shitty person just because they have "potential"?

"It's an investment!"

Investments are risky.

Didn't we all laugh at the women who tried to change their bad boy boyfriend into a Good Man? This is no different.

So if you're a man-child who throws tantrums at the slightest problem and lives in his mama's basement, I'm suppose to put up with you because YOU COULD become a stable productive person in society?

While you mature and grow, you also OUTGROW PEOPLE. This can include your girlfriend/boyfriend.