As an ugly old balding dude, I’ve learned to own that I’m the weird, gross loser to most hot girls.

The funny thing is, many women seem to have a kink and get off on banging me because “what would my friends think!” I think being unattractive (but in decent shape good hygiene) can actually work psychologically if you wear it like a badge of honor.

When I’ve incorporated this IDGAF approach (usually with booze) I’ve been able to have filthy sex with women precisely because they don’t GAF about locking me down.

It’s rare but when it happens it’s beautiful.