I bet you think you’re right? That you know the “truth”. You think you’re in a “special group”. Better than people who “date”?
Grow up. It’s embarrassing and pathetic.
I came to this realisation a few days ago and I’ve felt much better since:
a) Women are humans. They’re just people! They are not all bad. Some are really good, some really bad, most somewhere in between! EXACTLY like us. Yeah, they’re a little different in some ways, but by and large we are quite similar. Stop thinking women have to be perfect little angles. Are you? Are guys? No. Also stop thinking so low of women when they do the EXACT same things we do such as promiscuity and cheating... we do those things just as much!
b) Stop relying on women/sex to change your life, make you happy! This is very, very important... like I said above, girls are just people. Having sex or having a GF can make you less lonely, and bring you happiness, but to be honesty they aren’t the end all be all. You need to be happy on your own! I think a lot of “incels/MGTOW” think women need to come and “save” them, or that girls and sex are the gateways to happiness, thus, these guys feel betrayed and left out because they aren’t experiencing that. However if you see women as just other people, and sex & relationships are fine, but not the end all be all - you’ll be much happier and not think that way anymore.
I’m in my late teens, I’ll probably never get laid or a nice relationship. It’s fine! I’m not entitled to anything, no one is. If girls want to have sex with successful and attractive guys - guess what!? That’s their choice! You should just accept it. I want to love and respect women, be happy and have a healthy mindset REGARDLESS of my sex/love life. So I might never have sex or anything, and guess what! I’m gonna be happy nonetheless. We ain’t entitled to ANYTHING, girls are just people, like us and they aren’t responsible for our happiness.
I am on the path to become a better person. I have got quite a few messages from self proclaimed “incels” once they saw my posts. This sub has a lot of “lurkers” this is for them, please guys for your own sake and for the sake of those around you, take my advice. I already feel much better, I am posting this to spread positivity!
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I love most of what you wrote except the fact that you’ll probably be single forever. There’s no reason at all to think that. Keep working on yourself and you’ll go far.
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Not an incel or mgtow. I agree with what you saying. But going around and saying "you're not entitled to anything" is dangerous. I agree that you're not entitled to sex from any woman you want. But a little bit of entitlement in life is neccessary to keep your value - you need to ask for things in order to get them. Yeah, you have to work for them, but you have to let people know. I work hard in my job so you bet that I am ENTITLED to get a pay for my work. If boss came to me after long day of work, saying I'm not getting paid for my work today and just told me to suck it up because "no one is entitled to anything" I would have a huge problem with that.
Sorry if I triggered you or anything, but I just wanted to point this out.
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