We are both 26 and met at a work function (different departments/different locations) and I got her number and 2 days later texted logistics only and fast forward until the present day I've fucked her and then slept at her place 8 times in the last 3 months. She is very submissive and cooks for me too. Always puts fresh bedding on when I get there and let's me do whatever I want to her sexually.
However some things I have learnt are that she got pregnant 5 years ago with a guy who was already in a relationship, got his named tattooed on her body, got dumped, had a miscarriage, and tried to kill herself with sleeping pills.
Has a dog that is her 'baby' and it sleeps in her bed with her and roams everywhere in her house and leaves hair all over. She also cooks the dogs evening dinner in the kitchen and serves it up nearby the dining table and it fucking reeks like, well, dog food.
She mentioned to me the most recent time I visited her that "You know sex without a condom feels so much better for me and for you, just pull out and finish on me, I don't mind" and I was like "Uh, yeah nah I'll pass" and changed the topic. (I always bring my own condoms and rinse it out afterwards before wrapping it in toilet paper and flushing it!)
She has a tendency to try and get personal information out of me too, which I find very fucking irritating. We both spoke about what we were after when we met for the second time and we both agreed that we just wanted casual fun since we have conflicting schedules and whatnot. But no sooner she will ask me "So what are we anyway?" or "So when are we going on a real date?" and all I think is wtf are you on about we already spoke about this..
She also sometimes texts me in a very childish and frankly off-putting way, I don't know why but this sort of shit just makes my dick softer than custard. Shit like randomly receiving a text saying "My clit is wet haha! I wouldn't mind some D later on if you want to stop by haha! insert 5 emojis". It's like she is mentally 15 or something. I just laugh and think wtf act your age Jesus Christ.
The last week specifically she has been bugging me to the point I am considering distancing myself from her. I went over to her place and fucked her, then made a coffee and sat down and started playing her guitar and she was all "So that's it huh, fly in and fly out?" and I reminded her that I said that's what I was planning to do anyway, and that she knew that already. She just said I was being awkward and asked me what was wrong and if I wanted to talk and even when I calmly and non-awkwardly said how I was perfectly happy and not awkward at all while slightly laughing, she just became more like a detective and was like "No really, what's gotten into you lately, you're being super weird" and it just fucking made me realize she is all over the place mentally, she can't let something 'be' she needs to know WHY and HOW or at least to appear that she cares, I don't fucking know man.
I've been cold on her for 2 days and she's sent me 3 texts asking if I am ok, and even tried calling me but I was technically at work so 'missed' it. I don't like childish women and she's carrying some baggage that I don't want to deal with. Do I just stay firm and not respond to her or be straight and say I am very busy lately and some other bs?
First plate in 3 years tbh, can't quite remember how to navigate this shit.