I didn’t go the college route. My social circle is small. Dating apps are bs.

The girls I have been around are super flaky. One minute we’re making out, the next they’re gone.

Honestly feels like I’m the problem. Even though I’m a good looking dude and decently successful for a 25 yo. No debt. I’ve travelled. I’m outgoing but disciplined. Did hit the gym before the quarantine and gonna get back into it as soon as my state opens up. I still hang with people. I’m intelligent and witty.

Dated a girl for 2 years. Thought I was gonna get married, nope. The breakup screwed my other social circle so I left that.

I still grind and work on myself. Still have goals. Still have humor and we’ll cultured/mannered.

Idk what I’m doing wrong but girls just slip through my fingers. They’re hot when I strike and then they grow cold and it fizzles out.

I like to keep a balanced lifestyle of not too much partying. I don’t get wasted.

How do you retain these chicks? How do you keep them in your circle?

I know they won’t last forever but a couple weeks and they’re gone... is it me? Is it them? Is it competition? Idk yo