I'm trying to understand how other people view different cheating scenarios.
Would you stay or leave any of the following cheating situations? Also, would any of these scenarios change if you caught them in the act verses your partner coming clean on their own?
- Long term physical and emotional affair.
- Short term physical and long term emotional affair (sex happened once).
- Long term physical affair with no feelings.
- Short term physical affair (1 night stand).
- Long term emotional affair.
- Short term emotional affair.
- One sided emotional affair / limerence. In other words your SO had an obsession with another person but nothing happened.
- One sided emotional affair / limerence with intent to make it physical. In other words your SO had an obsession with another person and attempted to progress it further but you found out.
- Stalking. Your SO is viewing another persons social media every few hours and driving by their house 4-10 times per day?
- Both 8 and 9 scenarios together.
For the record, I was dealing with scenario 8 and 9 last year (so #10) when I caught her and she lied. I'll edit this post and add my own answers in a few days.
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