But when I think about it it seems like that's the last thing that I think of when we startle typically think of things that women find attractive
I've grown into my looks and my confidence and personality are vastly different and I have a better sense of knowing who I am but I feel like a big barrier is money especially status markers like a car and a house
My ex was way too materialistic and I'm now much more open to finding someone but that's been my biggest fear other than being called too nice or proper
Especially when I was still in college around the age of 18 to 21 because at least I thought money really didn't matter as we were all still in college and learn but the guys I saw that had the most success with the guys with the fancy cars and the better clothes
It's not like I'm against the idea of making more money for myself and opening up opportunities to go more places but most of my life has been concerned about my artistic and spiritual journey as that's something I've always needed to try to tamper with and fix
So many ugly dudes not only get girls because they had to max out there confidence but also they had to make a lot of money and that really does not make me feel like I can respect myself if that's what happens to me
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