Last year I had terrible oneitis for this girl and I asked her out and got rejected (surprise). However me getting rejected basically removed the oneitis from my brain, so that was very good. We’re still friends but I don’t talk to her much at all unless were in a group, recently I’ve barely spoken to her. I also tease her when she’s around so my frame always dominates.

The good part is, I’m going to away college next semester so I’ll meet a bunch of new girls. Finally getting out of my small town and not commuting to college anymore. This is something I’ve been waiting for.

The bad part is, my old oneitis will be going to the same college I’m going to next semester (granted everything is open). What a coincidence. It’s not a huge college, so it’s not like we will never see each other.

I want to get abundance ASAP once I’m in my new environment. I’m sick of being a single virgin, it’s pathetic at almost 20. I’ve lived in this small town for 2 years and commuting gave me no social growth. I’m sure everything this sub preaches still applies to a college environment but I wanted to know if you guys had any tips specific for college?

I’m asking this because I don’t want to fall for my old oneitis or even a new one. Once we move in, I’m sure she’ll want to talk to me and hangout since we already know each other well. Her being there doesn’t matter too much, but if we end up hanging out I don’t want people thinking we’re a couple. Also my biggest fear would be her trying to ruin my chances with other women. Not sure if anyone’s had that happen to them or how likely it is.

This fear is because when any of the other guys in the group talk about other women, she’ll be happy that they have a girl they’re talking to. When I’m the one talking about other women in the group, she kinda gets jealous (one word responses, seems mad and down). I don’t get why, especially when she rejected me but that’s not the point. I just want my abundance without having potential issues, that’s my goal.

I could be overthinking all this shit but fuck it it’s quarantine and I wanted to hear your advice. Any tips on how to get abundance in college?