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So I had a talk last night with my sister and female childhood friends about female sexual promiscuity and I really have to ask...

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April 14, 2018
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First of all, I love my sister and my female childhood friends to death and think the world of them. They are all in college about to graduate and visiting. I'm still in high school at eighteen years old. I don't know either it's a generation shift but the topic of sexual partners came up and when I told them I was a virgin at eighteen years old they all burst out laughing. When I asked them, they all gave a number from 25-40 sexual partners. My jaw dropped and asked if they were serious. They all however told me this was completely normal and the average for women their age (20-24) and that I shouldn't be so judgemental. They also talked about how it's completely normal for men to have numbers these high too and talked about how sex felt just as good for men to women, just as easy for them, etc. Now, I have known them all throughout my life and our families know each other so I really think they were being honest. They just tried to shame me about my opinion but I know this is false because most of my male peers are virigin (least I think). Anyways, this gave me a huge shock, because I didn't know it would be so high. I admit, I'm still very naive about how the world works and would like to know if it's true about most females? Thanks


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Title So I had a talk last night with my sister and female childhood friends about female sexual promiscuity and I really have to ask...
Author marcusreed1337
Upvotes 68
Comments 113
Date 14 April 2018 08:11 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/669
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[–][deleted] 81 points82 points  (5 children) | Copy

Don't forget that pretty much ANY women can get laid instantly if she wants to, so it shouldn't surprise you.

[–]mrrooftops1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy

I used to think this, but I'm sure you could if you aimed low enough.

[–]beginner_18 points19 points  (2 children) | Copy

Women can get laid any time without aiming low.

[–]mrrooftops6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Problem is they say they can't because they always aim too high.

[–]askmrcia1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Lol true

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon68 points69 points  (6 children) | Copy

They also talked about how it's completely normal for men to have numbers these high too and talked about how sex felt just as good for men to women, just as easy for them

They are talking about Chad. They don't know not all men have this experience.

They just tried to shame me about my opinion but I know this is false because most of my male peers are virigin (least I think).

Most women have had a lot more sex and partners than most men. Chad is getting all the action, not you and your friends.

[–]MormonRedPill19 points20 points  (0 children) | Copy

Exactly, like the post on TRP right now about the 80-20 rule. To them, guys other than Chad do not sexually exist. They think about betas sexually as often as you think about 90-year-old women sexually. So of course "it's normal" for guys to have a 30+ n-count.

[–]EhzmwGGh5 points6 points  (4 children) | Copy

There is a reason Chad gets all the pussy and it's called plausible deniability in my opinion. Women don't want to feel like sluts, they are not going to offer sex to anyone. They expect to be approached by a man who is looking good enough by their standards and literally 'forces' them to have sex. That way they did nothing wrong since they had no option. So when some beta guy approaches them they know there is no possibility of sex in he near future so they just shot him down so they are available for any willing Chad.

[–]Endorsed ContributorAuvergnat13 points14 points  (2 children) | Copy

No need to over-analyze the sexual marketplace.

Guys are horny. They all want sex. If you're a young woman getting propositioned for sex by 20 guys a week, you'll say yes to the hottest of the 20. Done.

[–]Future_Alpha-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy

Define "hottest"?

Best face? Biggest muscles? Big muscles and ugly face?

[–]Endorsed ContributorAuvergnat2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Alphaest. The best combo of appropriate looks, good game, and highest local status at a given time for a given woman.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is a great analysis.

[–]babybopp25 points26 points  (11 children) | Copy

OP .. they are not lying. By age 24 a girl will have average fucked at least 20. That is normal for a girl. That is why your roses and love letters don't work with them. They are already Osiris deep in dick. You by the other hand is still a virgin. Ready to work hard and save enough to take Stacy for a date to hit first base.

Skip the classes dude. I was a virgin at 21. Fucked my first girl who turned out to have lied to me and had like 6 guys before. She was my first love. Ten yrs later I have fucked 89 women. Meaning I have had sex more than 1000 times. Now you can believe me or not I don't really care, but I did this before trp. I was hurt. Decided to fuck and fuck. And the more I did it, the more attractive I was to girls. So start now... I suggest you start with your sisters friend... I guarantee she will be game.

[–]Future_Alpha2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Ten yrs later I have fucked 89 women. Meaning I have had sex more than 1000 times. Now you can believe me or not I don't really care, but I did this before trp. I was hurt. Decided to fuck and fuck. And the more I did it, the more attractive I was to girls.

I dunno how you did it in 10 years....I lost my virginity like you at 21...since then I've managed to bang only 4 and I am 25 now...

it seems weird that you can just 'decide to fuck'...I've decided to but nothing happens and not due to lack of approaches lol

[–]babybopp0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah I just stopped giving a fuck about serenading girls

[–]marcusreed1337[S] 0 points1 point  (8 children) | Copy

I believe and want to believe in the virgin unicorn I know this will sound cheesy but do they really exist?

[–]empatheticapathetic12 points13 points  (1 child) | Copy

A virgin unicorn is just a girl who hasn't hit 25 n count YET.

[–]babybopp2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yes. They practically will erase a beta or lousy fuck from their mind and say it did not exist.

[–]mrrooftops3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

They do but you'll have to get Sherlock like skills to sniff them out. Then, be prepared to be disappointed as hell.

[–]1Soultrane92 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

They do, I dated one during college.

Their downside is the only reason they haven't sucked 30 dicks is because they come from a small sheltered community.

But they still go fo chad, as a virgin faggot you have 0 chance of landing one.

[–]RandomTRPan0n1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

They do but are so incredibly rare it's unlikely you'll ever meet one let alone date her. Layer on attractiveness and it goes even lower. Then layer on any other specific criteria you look for and the odds are minuscule. Like one in 5000 women. You probably haven't even talked with that many people.

Assume AWALT and overcome the mental obstacle. Try not to drown in despair or anger.

[–]ReefaShark1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I have met the legend which you quarrel with. I have faced this angelic myth. They aren’t the Christian ones (they horny), they’re the isolated Christian ones. I used to work at a summer camp as a counselor, and the last summer I met one girl that was 17 (i was 20), an actual 10 who worked out and played soccer every day. Somewhat socially retarded, but so am I so I loved it. Her single mom, who has homeschooled her all her life, came one week as a speaker, and she’s one crazy preaching nut. That’s about 6 months before I stopped being religious, after which I never saw her again.

Anyways, back to my main point. My name is Ekken the Sage, and my group of affiliates who all live in a secluded town with me have benefited from paying an annual sum of $12,000 to me for a cleansing process and a blessing for entry to the 3rd layer of sanctification. The young women in our community never see outside our small village, for culturally purifying reasons. Once you have fulfilled your duties to the community and paid your yearly tithe, you shall take 3 of these women unto your loins, and make a nation.

TLDR; join a cult, or swallow the pill.

[–]pridebrah1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I had one in college (Christian girl) but the downside was how shitty she was in bed. I was able to teach her some things over time of course and she had a fairly high sex drive, but it just wasn't anything compared to the girls I had before/after her that had experience and could suck the chrome off a pipe. I ended up dumping her.

I personally wouldn't want to sleep with or LTR a virgin again. I think the allure of one is better in fantasy than reality.

[–]throwinghthisoneaway-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Its possible to find a cute virgin homely girl. But soon theyll see their friends fucking other dudes and want to know what their missing out on. Let them leave.

Im still wondering if its ever really worth it for them to ride the cock carousel. If theyre beautiful theyll always find a dude whos willing to be with them and never have to worry about support.

[–]ParadoxOfReplica50 points51 points  (0 children) | Copy

"They told me it's normal and I shouldn't be so judgmental"... Typical whores hamstering, bring up the topic at a family dinner and say that your sister and friends had already fucked 30 guys and they say that it's normal. I am typically okay with women's nature nowadays, but I kinda threw up in my mouth.

[–]acidbath646464 points65 points  (8 children) | Copy

Most woman hb6 and above have a relativly high n count. About 20 and above. It may be a hard pill to swallow, but its better to accept it then to date around looking for a unicorn virgin.

[–]rayrayray123449 points50 points  (5 children) | Copy

i would say hb6-7 have the highest n count. 8-10s are able to get commitment unlike 6-7s, so they dont need to hop from dick to dick as much

[–]acidbath646414 points15 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is very ture

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (2 children) | Copy

This has been my experience too.

I would say HB6/7 have higher N count than any other.

I think 6's get fuck n' chucked the most and 7's are in that range where their ego gets inflated a bit more than it should be so they trade sideways and up often for validation.

[–]Rhynocobear2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

I concur and thats not including dark triads or personality disorders in women which pushes up n-counts too

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Good call.

[–]mrrooftops2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Spot on from my experience... unless they had certain events happen when they were a kid (abuse, emotional abandonment etc)

[–]braindead8868 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy

hb6

I know what HB8 means, but what does "HB6" mean? It's not on Urban Dictionary. I usually check there before I ask.

[–]Yousuflol9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

HB means hotbabe. The number next to it is their ranking out of 10 HB6 means 6/10 girl.

[–]physicalbitcoin46 points47 points  (9 children) | Copy

Then figure that they are probably rounding those figures down. Could be higher than 25-40.

One guy a month from 18 to 25, seven years, is 84 guys.

When a 27 year old guy marries a 27 year old woman the guy is getting a terrible deal.

[–]beginner_12 points13 points  (3 children) | Copy

Yeah and 1 new guy a month is actually a rather conservative measure.

[–]physicalbitcoin2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Yup, It could easily be 2-3 guys a week, but my calculator would break. Rollo Tomassi wrote a story about a waitress getting with a 27 year old blue pilled guy and lying to him about her past. He wrote about husbands finding out the true n-count of their wives and divorcing them. Can't find the link now.

If a girl wants to sleep with a lot of guys, OK. But when an ex-slut locks down a 30-year-old man into faux-monogamy that she probably won't even honor, she's robbing him of his best years.

[–]clausternn0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

But when an ex-slut locks down a 30-year-old man into faux-monogamy that she probably won't even honor, she's robbing him of his best years.

You mean the best years for a guy are in his 30s rather than in his 20s? Why do you think that?

[–]hrm08940 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

God I'm so disgusted lol. I know women have high n counts but jesus christ a new cock every single month? Disgusting.

[–]mangoat128 points9 points  (2 children) | Copy

What’s so disgusting? I’m sure you wouldn’t hesitate to get new pussy every month. But you wouldn’t view that as disgusting . That’s just how things work for women

[–]hrm08942 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Contrary to TRP, I'm not into the whole "plate" thing. I don't really enjoy hooking up since, to me, it's futile and can have immense consequences. So even if it were me, I'd view it as disgusting.

But 1 dick a month? Jeez. The thought of these women trapping some poor bluepilled sucker and becoming mothers one day is disgusting.

[–]physicalbitcoin0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I don't make the rules. ha. I honestly don't know if you're being sarcastic or not.

[–]2comment13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy

They are all in college about to graduate

The modern cock carousel was created by the college and career system.

Women away from family will slut around big time. Modern tech (cars, phones, etc) just gives them unlimited opportunity.

[–]2alpha-zach10 points11 points  (2 children) | Copy

It’s prob dependent on social circles. This seems high to me for a church group but low for sorority life or a stoner/party group.

What social circles do these girls run in?

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

What social circles do these girls run in?

They’re obviously sorority girls.

[–]2alpha-zach1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

It would def seem like it, but I like to confirm

[–]Yes-Sarasly10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

Wait, so they laughed at you for being a virgin, then they tell you not to be judgemental of their high numbers? First off, that's just rude.

When I was in high school, I had a friend that could count 30 different guys by the time she was 18. It was a big shock. It makes you feel like you're the one who isn't normal. In a way, to them I guess you aren't.

I know maybe 2 other girls that have a low count (1-5) and are relatively good looking and have a nice personality. I also live in a rural conservative town so... not much choice I guess?

Just always assume the girls you sleep with could have anywhere from 5-50. Wrap it.

[–]Wrath_of_Trump 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy

Our society turned daddy's angel into a prostitute, and it's daddy's fault for letting it get that way. Buy American, don't marry American.

[–]hrm08945 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

Yup, if you choose to get married, import a bitch.

[–]pridebrah2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Downside of international chicks is their family ties are ridiculously strong. There are STRONG downsides to that shit too. They may not be fucking Chad, but good luck dealing with them going back to Zimbabwe for a year to take care of their uncle or their 10 cousins coming to stay the night at your place.

[–]waynebradysworld1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

(((daddy)))

[–]Endorsed Contributorleftajar8 points9 points  (4 children) | Copy

Welcome to the new generation of superhoes. Enjoy the easy pussy, and lament the lack of quality long-term mates.

[–]Future_Alpha-1 points0 points  (3 children) | Copy

. Enjoy the easy pussy,

LOL dude. I dunno how it is easy cuz i'm not getting it and i'm 6'2 and not fat.

Maybe its due to shit logistics? I haven't had good logistics for 5 years (since I started pickup) and I am beginning to think i'd get laid more if I had a place to invite girls but maybe i'm wrong.

[–]dthlist2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

It might be because you are a loser and have nothing to offer beyond being 6'2

[–]Future_Alpha0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I dunno tbh. I am well read, more-so than most my peers. I have participated in sports all my life from soccer to lifting (now). I may not have much to offer financially now, but i will in the future. Guys who don't have my qualities have more success. So who knows.

[–]dthlist1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Keep working on urself and options will appear.

[–][deleted] 16 points17 points  (3 children) | Copy

Women today just want to be men so bad and rack up their n-count.

Femininity is pretty much dead.

[–]mrrooftops6 points7 points  (2 children) | Copy

Yeah, the good bits of being a man without the negative responsibilities... like, you know, disposability.

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy

I keep coming back to this post today and I think I get sicker every time.

Some poor bloke is going to marry one of these whores.

[–]hrm08942 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I'm so glad I've had guidance early on from TRP and my mother.

I had a classmate in college that worked at Home Depot and bought his fiance a $4,000 diamond ring. SMFH. These men gon' learn!

[–]blackedoutfast7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

good rule of thumb is to assume they lost their virginty around 16 and then have fucked a couple of guys every year since then. and that's an average. sometimes they'll be in an LTR with one dude for a few years, sometimes they'll fuck 3 different dudes in one weekend.

but if your sis and her friends have fucked 40 dudes by their early 20s (good chance it's bullshit btw) they're huge sluts.

[–]nofilmynofucky23 points24 points  (1 child) | Copy

While TRP will openly acknowledge that low N count is very important to establish before you consider seriously dating a girl, it's somewhat of a taboo subject around here that it's almost goddamn impossible to find a girl who's decently attractive and hasn't fucked 20+ guys by 18

[–]beginner_1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

And if they are either ugly, fat or have some mental issue like social anxiety or hormonal imbalance coupled with low libido. Either way not really what you would want too.

[–]wawakaka14 points15 points  (1 child) | Copy

Women need a toxic waste sticker

[–]LethalShade2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

LOL

[–]Hottosmart 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy

Not all women. Depends on upbringing.

I am a 30 years old woman with a count of 3. Not fat nor ugly. Was a size US size 2-4, very good body genetics and lifted weights for many years, around an 8 in the face but 9 with makeup and done up, always attracted men left to right. But I have a low sex drive and I hate casual sex. Also from a religious family.

It really depends. A female friend is a 4/10 and she screwed about 8 dudes.

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon19 points20 points  (16 children) | Copy

I am a 30 years old woman with a count of 3

SURRREEE. 3.... plus all the ones that don't count....

[–]empatheticapathetic10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

I don't think you heard but she is a woman. She. A woman. Is. Her. She is. #notallwomen

[–]Hottosmart-2 points-1 points  (14 children) | Copy

Dude, maybe I am an exception but women with low counts do exist.

[–]keep_improving2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy

Says the women who lashes out on redpill without even understanding it in other subs. Learn something, understand it, then come to Reddit again. If you don't wanna do this then shut the fuck up babe.

[–]hrm08942 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

Bro can you even blame her?? Just look at this fucking thread. She's saying women with low counts exist and she's being downvoted.

AWALT isn't meant to be taken literally. AWALT just means women have to prove to us they're not sluts. But good genuine women DO exist (even if they're in the minority).

[–]keep_improving0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I don't blame anyone for fucking someone. I am blaming her for putting out misinformed opinions in another sub. I didn't mention awalt at all in my post. My post was towards her Reddit behavior, distributing bullshit. I told her to either learn something about a topic or shut the fuck up. Yes, I get that this wasn't on topic, but her "yes but nice girls do exist" is a hollow phrase. That's tautology level, she's giving as an answer.

[–]hrm08942 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I was saying can you can't really blame her for lashing out when a good portion of our community is stuck in the anger phase.

This is an album of comments people always link to when attacking TRP: https://imgur.com/a/bGiiW

Those people make us look bad.

And I mentioned AWALT because it's relevant to the discussion. She's saying women with low N counts exist and the people in this thread are downvoting her even though she's correct.

Plus she's giving her viewpoint and contributing to the discussion, I don't really see an issue with that.

Lastly, the #1 rule of TRP is DONT DISCUSS TRP outside of the community because you WILL be a target for hatred. At this point, it should be expected that people will shit on TRP, so who gives a fuck? They're the ones advertising for us!

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon1 point2 points  (7 children) | Copy

women with low counts do exist.

Yes they do, but they are much less common than women who lie about their n-count. "3 guys who counted.... and 12 one night stands, they don't count. 20 guys used condoms, so they don't count. I mean, unless it's a long term boyfriend, it doesn't count right?"

[–]Hottosmart-1 points0 points  (6 children) | Copy

Maybe a majority of women are like that, or maybe you are bumping into these types of women over and over again, who knows.

I have had friends who are like me. But they were very reserved women interested mainly in LTR and marriage.

Can't you men sense if a woman is promiscuous or not? If she's banging you on the second date, that's should be clear as daylights.

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon1 point2 points  (5 children) | Copy

Can't you men sense if a woman is promiscuous or not? If she's banging you on the second date, that's should be clear as daylights.

Thing is for men...... it sucks either way. It's why we're here.

Either she fucks on a 1st or 2nd date and she's likely promiscuous. Or she insists on 25 dates. With the man paying a lot more. And it's not 25 dates, because in many cases she changes her mind after 15 and the guy has to start again. And who knows if she's saying "no, I'm not that kind of girl" while she's busy fucking Chad after Billy Beta is paying for all the dates.

And in the cases where things do actually go somewhere, the sex usually sucks and it turns out she isn't "only interested in you" like she says, she's just low sex drive and/or provider-hunting.

And that's before you account for the female propensity to lie about her n-count - which even you must agree is the norm.

So no, we can't sense the difference between promiscuous or not if she doesn't fuck us. If she fucks us then yes, likely promiscuous. If not, then most likely she's fucked dozens of other guys but now enters the epiphany phase, declares "I'm not that girl any more" and stops having sex. Doesn't make her higher value, but she likes to think it does.

Are we to infer that if she doesn't fuck us, she hasn't fucked a hundred other guys? Hardly.

[–]Hottosmart1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy

Here is the thing. Nobody and nothing is perfect. No woman is perfect, and same goes for men.

My perfect Chad is a 6 ft tall surgeon in great shape from a good family background. He is supportive and generous and so on.

But let's be realistic here. That guy is rare. And so is his counterpart female.

People need to be realistic to an extent. Back in med school, I wanted to date a surgeon. Not anymore. I don't care for dating doctors. I am a doctor myself and that's all I care for in the end. My partner is in a different field and I appreciate the diversity.

You can't want a good girl but expect her to act like a slut in bed. Be realistic.

I get that it hard for men to gauge a woman's interest if she is conservative, but it's just as hard for women to find marriage material man. Our culture is pump and dump.

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

You can't want a good girl but expect her to act like a slut in bed. Be realistic.

Which means we have to choose between a slut and being sexually frustrated and bored. That's a fucking dumb choice and noone should have to make it.

I get that it hard for men to gauge a woman's interest if she is conservative, but it's just as hard for women to find marriage material man. Our culture is pump and dump.

Oh sorry, I thought we were talking about men. Well done on changing the subject back to you. AWALT.

[–]Hottosmart1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Hey, I am speaking from experience. But I get it, my experience does not conform to this sub.

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Your stated experience, which may or may not be true, and your friends stated experiences, which also may or may not be true, does not conform to the majority of male experience of women.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You can't want a good girl but expect her to act like a slut in bed. Be realistic.

Bullshit. "Good girls" are the kinkiest in bed in my experience

[–]ShotgunTRP0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

My friends dog was born with 2 dicks. It’s normal for dogs to have 2 dicks

[–]empatheticapathetic1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Woah. Do they taste the same? I mean uh look the same??

[–]markinsinz74 points5 points  (3 children) | Copy

Not exactly upbringing (I've seen good girl with good parents become a whore ) it's a combination of circumstances environment and many other factors like ur low sex drive for eg. But you'll be suprised that almost 90% of girls have 20+partners whereas only 20% of guys have 20+partners this results in fucked up relationships both sides.

[–]mrrooftops2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

The more partners the girl has is a pretty clear indicator of some form of negative character-forming influence in preteen life. For example, a 'good girl with good parents' might have experienced emotional neglect from them due to their work responsibilities. It can be as simple as that, no matter how much they love her.

[–]Hottosmart-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Okay you make a point. But I cannot relate to men on this sub complaining about women riding the cock carousel when I am like, uh, hell, I am here men!

[–]Hottosmart-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Other thing is I was interested in long term and my family placed a very heavy emphasis on education and career before any romantic relationship.

[–]Scheme000 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

Just low sex drive or do have a hard time getting close to people you date?

[–]Hottosmart2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Today's culture is pump and dump and I wanted marriage material man early on. Two men were a flop, and the third was the charm.

[–]Hottosmart0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

I was looking for a LTR early on and decided sex was reserved for a high value male who showed me time, effort and money and potential. Sure, I went on dates but as soon as a man showed finicky behavior or I sensed the casual thing going on, I lost interest and never bothered continuing.

[–]Scheme001 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

How long did you wait to make it physical? I’ve always thought that if the woman didn’t want sex writhing 3-4 dates she just wasn’t into it

[–]Hottosmart0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Around 8-10 dates for my current LTR and we are very serious.

That's your problem. 3 dates? If you are looking for marriage type, then you wait. You're not going to hang around a fat woman that long, so why would she date you without sex for that long if she is not interested? If it's fling, it does not count.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Only if they have been single; some girls go through LTR's.

[–]marcusreed1337[S] 1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

Is this reality? If it is, man this sucks

[–]hrm08940 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Just like the other guy said, yes and no. But your job as a man is to have the mentality that they are all like that. This just protects you from falling for the "right one" and ending up learning the hard way. AWALT is a concept not to be taken literally; but for purposes of dealing with women, AWALT.

[–]chasebandz011 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

yea man. i hung out with a circle of 6 girls in hs/early college. me and my friends fucked all of them. their n-counts were at LEAST 20. this was circa 2009. its probably worse now lol. buckle up, ki--...i mean...strap up, kid.

[–]deimos314151 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Ok so no woman I know well personally has had more than 10 sexual partners by the age of 20. Of course there are some that fo and I don't believe it's the norm as your sister and friend declare.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Any girl can get laid any time she wants. The only thing she needs is:

  • Tinder app with one mirror selfie

That's all.

But there is one thing you need to be aware of. Getting laid is not the end goal of women. Their end goal is getting commitment from a high value man. Top 5%. In order to achieve this, she needs to:

  • Be young
  • Be attractive
  • Have low n count
  • Be submissive
  • Be able to cook and clean
  • Be able to have sex whenever her man wants
  • Be completely absent from social media
  • Give her man unrestricted access to all her electronic devices

How many of them are able to fulfil these requirements? Not many.

[–]Grimsavage0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I for one am baffled, thank you for the light

[–]eccentricrealist0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

The guys they usually sleep with do get that many girls

[–]Shaney960 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

It's as easy as men to get pussy as it is for women to get cock if you're chad.

Consider the 80/20 rule in this context: 20% of men get 80% of the pussy.

[–]writewhereileftoff0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Watch that number dwindle to close to zero when Chad is in the room. Welcome to life trough a red pill lense.

[–]RedGunnera0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I know this is false because most of my male peers are virigin

Remember the 80-20 rule, 20% of the guys will get 80% of the women if you disregard the monogamous people.

[–]oyoungpadawan0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Haha a girl I know once told me that the number of guys she fucked has three digits..... and knowing her I'm sure it wasn't just 100.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

The real question is why you have fucked none of those sluts (excluding your sister of course that would be sick).

[–]valerioluc 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy

Let put it this way: There is a way to know if they are virgin or not, and if you are a true valuable man, you are not going to accept anything less from your partner. Others men can do whatever they want, and have their retard children who is as retarded as the father.

Work on living your life, work on expanding yourself, dont renegate the reality and expire for a superior one, and if you are never going to get there, at least you werent a pussy to start with.

[–]sirbassist832 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy

if you are a true valuable man, you are not going to accept anything less from your partner.

L. O. FUCKING. L.

[–]huntersam134 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Men are biologically programmed to desire women with fewer partners. This is natural. Before DNA testing, how could a man be sure the child he is rearing is in fact his? Only by ensuring his partner has no other partners... this is just instinctual. Like it or not, it is in the mind of almost all men...

[–]ARUKET0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Wanting every plate to be a virgin is pure autism, but L.O.L.ing at the idea of wanting a virgin wife is a whole new level of stupid. Good luck with your divorce rape goals of 2018

[–]hrm08940 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I agree with you in the way that there are many "valuable" men that settle for less, but a man that has value and knows his value won't settle for less.

[–]valerioluc3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Downvote me all the way. You are the same guys that always try to keep their fake self preservating pathetic frame when i am around.

[–]sirbassist83-2 points-1 points  (1 child) | Copy

im 29 and have slept with close to 40 women, and i dont even think of myself as promiscuous. lots of guys here sleep with more than 40 new women every year.

[–]Throwawayman900010 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

29 this year for me!

At least a third were fatties though.



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