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Dad is a turbo beta provider, mother is an overprotective matriarchal bitch, how to ensure younger brother doesn't turn out to be bluepilled fag?

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May 27, 2020
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I learned to be a man when I turned 18 when I finished school through the Internet and through my first job and spending less time with my stupid family.

Before that I was a low confidence faggot beta and I am scared my kid brother is going to turn out exactly the same way, potentially worse since my stupid mother has literally so much influence over every aspect of his life.

He's 10 years old and looks up to me hugely, how do I turn the tides and set him up for an awesome life in high school where my high school experience was fucking shit?


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Title Dad is a turbo beta provider, mother is an overprotective matriarchal bitch, how to ensure younger brother doesn't turn out to be bluepilled fag?
Author throwaway038473
Upvotes 69
Comments 44
Date 27 May 2020 11:40 AM UTC (9 months ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/669659
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/gri5n9/dad_is_a_turbo_beta_provider_mother_is_an/
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[–]Pleasenodrugs94 points95 points  (2 children) | Copy

Lead by example is all u can do

[–]bigmacked441 points42 points  (1 child) | Copy

Exactly. Spend time with him and build as strong of a relationship with him as you can. When he gets to the age where he starts to notice chicks, be the guy he goes to for girl advice.

He's still quite young however. Don't be overbearing. TRP concepts will start to become helpful to him in his mid teens, so don't stress about it yet. Good on you for seeing how shit could play out though.

[–]absolutelynp34 points35 points  (4 children) | Copy

welcome to the hell of western society, Im 35 and didnt shake that shit completely yet. Be carfeful with your brother though, everyone has his own path to walk

[–]Unileetz4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

Man honestly I think there should be a law for having children in which u have to qualify for a parenting test to have children, they're shall be less idiots then. I'm in a second world country and after Knowing more about the culture and society of the west I realise there's so much hidden behind the idealized developed economy and architecture. Now I feel glad being born in my country though I'm not amgonst the majority poor of my country.

[–]eaazzy_131 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Humans suck everywhere

[–]absolutelynp0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I hear ya. I came to the conclusion that the interpersonal connections are more healthy in poorer countries. Im working on leaving here, cant take the bs anymore

[–]Yourlocal_priest12 points13 points  (1 child) | Copy

We bringing faggot back

Yeah

Those other faggots dont know how to act

Yeah.

Take to it to the bridge.

Idk why that title but it made me laugh and this song just popped in my head.

[–]jchrist983 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

LMAO

[–]akihonj11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

Lead by example, he is going to be super glue pulled and nothing you say is going to stop that.

However boys learn by watching and imitation better. If he sees that you aren't falling for the bs then when he hits hard times and he will, he'll be the first one to ask you what he's doing wrong and how to avoid it.

When that happens, my first instinct would be to tell him but as I've said before you can lead the horse to water....

Resist that instinct and make sure he is really ready for what you tell him before you tell him.

You can of course try to start now with redpilling him but understand that he is going to get his main information from the world through your parents, they are while we grow up the single source of truth about the world and he is no different.

[–]drsherbert15 points16 points  (0 children) | Copy

Easy! Sow seeds of discontent and meticulously and methodically undermine your parents authority. Make sure your bro is playing sports and keeping his social life up. Tell him to exceed your parents expectations in a way that elevates him to baby emperor status. If you’re not home, he now rules the household. Tell him he is officially the man of the house now that you’re gone. Buy him the 48 laws of power and quiz him on the chapters weekly. Make sure he does his schoolwork as well. Take him out with you as often as possible. Show him pictures of naked bitches your banging. Tell him not to masturbate to porn(although he will defy you) or at least tell him the dangers of it. Bring him to your college dorm and let all the little hoes flirt with him. You are now his father and he is your young prodigy.

[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

He's 10 years old and looks up to me hugely

So be an example.

To wit, the sons of my various sisters will ask their blue-pilled (but well-meaning) dads, who are high-functioning betas, for advice. When that crashes and burns, they come to their Uncle Vasya to get Actual, Actionable Advice That Works. A couple of them just skip the "ask their dad" part of the equation now.

A word of warning: You cannot help anyone who does not want to be helped. If he augers in on being a bluepilled retard, you are going to have to let that work itself out on its own.

[–]TFWnoLTR3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Lead by example is the obvious answer.

Less obvious is the need to not place tons of pressure on him to conform to the ideal you've made for him. These next several years of his life are the most significant of his mental development into adulthood. Its incredibly easy to push too hard and cultivate resentment rather than self- esteem and confidence.

You'll need to always keep in mind that the end goal isn't to toughen him up or make him less of a fag, but instead to give him the tools he needs to succeed in life. Whether or not he uses those tools is his own decision to make, and you can't hold yourself accountable for his choices. He may be the kind of guy you're trying to help him avoid being well into his 20s before he realizes the value of your advice. You'll need to accept and internalize that possibility moving forward.

[–]33Wolverine335 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

You must teach your brother. No one else will.

[–]jchrist982 points3 points  (23 children) | Copy

Just keep on lifting bro. That will prevent your brother from being a faggot.

[–]Yourlocal_priest1 point2 points  (22 children) | Copy

Not just that , i know plenty of faggots [lame not sexual orientation] That lift more than me but its the mindset too.

[–]500dollarsunglasses-5 points-4 points  (21 children) | Copy

You should cool it with the homophobia.

[–]Yourlocal_priest1 point2 points  (20 children) | Copy

Nope , not afraid of some other faggot telling what i should or shouldn't do bc i clearly made my statement that it isnt based on sexual orientation but a colliness factor , plus 10 years ago you would sound like a dumb bitch if you would confuse the 2.

Now political correctness has gotten us all in a standstill with language and im simply taking back that right as an american

"So fuck you and fuck thisssss..... " [Pornography by travi$.]

[–]BabyHulk1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Dude is a keyboard warrior. My brother is gay and we call each other gay/faggot all the time.

[–]Yourlocal_priest1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Right , im fighting for the new generation to say whatever the fuck they wanna say , the same way these trannies have rights. And wanna corrupt our youth thinking changing your sex is "normal"

Dude if you like guys then fuck them but dont push your ideology/agenda on me. Im tired being a beta fuck standing by .

[–]500dollarsunglasses-3 points-2 points  (17 children) | Copy

It doesn’t matter how you “mean it”.

The fact is you’re using a term that has been used for centuries as a derogatory term towards homosexual men. Your use of it as a synonym for “weak” or “bad” or whatever is blatantly homophobic. I would rightfully expect to be called a racist if I started telling everyone I disagreed with to “stop being such a nigger”, and what you’re doing is literally no different.

[–]Yourlocal_priest4 points5 points  (15 children) | Copy

Oh yeah , go head call someone black guy that , lol i would love to see that.

[–]500dollarsunglasses-1 points0 points  (14 children) | Copy

Yet you see no difference in calling a gay person faggot?

[–]Yourlocal_priest0 points1 point  (13 children) | Copy

Idk why you want to compare the 2 thats the issue i feel your having , im trying to separate the 2 so our kids wont be going out there bullying gay kids for shits and giggles like the old days

Im trying to breed a new hybrid of kids you know.

[–]500dollarsunglasses-2 points-1 points  (12 children) | Copy

Because that isn’t how language works. The minorities who are the targets of slurs can reclaim them, no one else can. That’s why black people can say nigger and gay men can call each other faggot.

White people do not get to reclaim “nigger” nor do straight people get to reclaim “faggot”.

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[–]Yourlocal_priest0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

There we go again with the history card

Hey faggot if you want to live in the past then go ahead , this is a new age. And i want to break different boundaries bc im willing to die for what i stand for.... period im dont , im turning off reddit and im going outside to push my agenda now and instead of wasting my time with this faggot.

[–]skyrunner221 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Still really young, gonna have to spoon feed him stuff, to believe in himself, take pride in himself, as he gets older he needs to be strong to depend on himself, etc. You can get him started in martial arts early. When he gets to middle school make sure he is in activities and active. Expanding his interest. Probably wouldnt get him started on weights till like soph year in high school (it wont take him long to see results)

Also biggest thing is helping him understand what not to do, even drugs/alcohol you can kinda tell but make sure when he is ready you explain to him dangers of porn. That can blue pill a kid really quick and mess with them for awhile.

[–]J-Shykes1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Get your younger brother on a strict daily regimen. Work out together, read together...do things that get him away from your parents. Lead from the front because kids are always watching. Commit yourself to TRP twice as hard. Good luck.

[–]BlackFire681 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

The most important thing to teach him is that the most important affirmation he gains is HIS OWN. Tell him, when life presents you with a problem, where do you look for the cause or solution, out the window or in the mirror? The mirror is what you can change. Don't compare yourself to others, compare yourself today to yourself yesterday and make sure that "today dude" is better.

Nothing beats watching someone do something. Learning theory has developed recently to show that the medical school approach was the only method that EVER worked... watch one, do one, teach one. Be transparent about what worked and what didn't and how you'll do it next time... then do it while he's watching. Tell stories, do life with him...

[–]strainer1231 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

You gotta drop him some redpills when nobody is looking, you're the older brother so in normal circumstances he looks up to you so he will believe you when you say things to him, parents usually have a filter, the older brother doesn't, which means you're reliable to him. Just don't scare him too much, let him experience things for himself.

[–]blacwidonsfw1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Don’t tell him anything, just show him when the time is right. Always project confidence but make sure he thinks for himself. You don’t want to turn him into your Yes Man

[–]blacwidonsfw0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Forgot to say make sure he does a hard sport. Preferably wrestling or something like that. Builds a lot of character as many wrestling programs in high school are much harder than the military.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Buy him a copy of The Rational Male and tell him you expect a full report by next week.

[–]Unileetz0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Lead by example, invoke conversations with him fun conversations whilst adding advice and knowledge. Ask him how his day went and what all happened.

[–]PolesWithGoals0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Become his main role model, lead by example

[–]jsphere256-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Hey now, honor your parents even if you dislike their behavior. Being better than them is your job. Complaining and publicly denouncing your own family is worse than beta, it's OMEGA tier childishness.

Part of being better is honoring your family.

[–]xeroedouttwice-3 points-2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Stop blaming the parents. They did the best they could, now you are a man and it's time to take charge of your own damn life. Right now, the example you are presenting is someone who is bitter and entitled- find a way to overcome this attitude and show little brother how to be an adult!

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[–]xeroedouttwice0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You're grounded, go to your room.



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