I (18F) have been struggling with being comfortable with my own sexuality and just being confident around people.
I would like to appear more attractive especially to the opposite sex. I am introverted and I tend to have a hard time socializing, talking to people that aren't close makes me feel anxious and when I'm out in public, I usually walk around with my head down and not really make eye contact with others.
I put a lot of effort into my appearance, I am very meticulous when it comes to hygiene and grooming, I dress in proper fitting, feminine clothes, I take care of my hair and put a minimal amount of makeup on just to enhance my features. Coming from a conservative family, my parents don't allow me to wear crazy colorful and heavy makeup so I stick to a simpler look but, I definitely don't think I look like I let myself go. I did gain some extra weight during quarantine but I'm planning on starting to work out. I don't have any issue with my weight.
So with all that out of the way, any advice on how I can be more attractive beyond the physical aspect? And how can I be sexier without being tasteless and coming off as though I'm trying too hard.
Thank you in advance. sorry if I made any grammar mistakes, English is not my first language.
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