I'm All For Feminism, But It's Kinda Making It Harder To Date

SirMavane · 2020-08-09T13:38:30+00:00

every one of these points is: 'I love how we managed to make this change but I don't actually really like the change'

loneliness-inc · 2020-08-09T16:13:10+00:00

Oh boy..... do I ever have a rock hard boner after reading this one..... 😂😂😂

Where do I even begin?

Here's my favorite one:

GUYS ARE STARTED TO THINK WE DON’T NEED THEM ANYMORE. Even though the feminist movement is pretty much the best thing to happen to this world since sliced bread, it’s taking its toll in the dating scene. The thing is, I’m starting to get a bit of a stand-offish vibe from guys, like they’re afraid to make a move, and I think it’s because they think that we don’t need them anymore. I’m not gonna go and cry a river for them because that’s something they’re gonna have to figure out within their own psyches. It’s just something I’ve noticed and it’s a bit of a shame.

Yes sweaty pie. For decades upon decades, your ever increasing shrieking, cried out how women are just as smart and capable as men. How women could do whatever men do while wearing high heels...

You know what? An ever increasing number of men took you at your word. Don't need us anymore? No problem. Have a nice day.

Oh, you do need us after all, you just want to dictate to us when and to what degree you need us?

In other words: you want the authority to decide to be a modern feminist when it gives you more authority over yourself and the relationship, while being a nostalgic traditionalist when it comes to responsibility?

No thanks. Men aren't interested in this shit sandwich.

Authority without responsibility is tyranny, responsibility without authority is slavery! Therefore, when you're demanding is female tyranny and male slavery. Wouldn't you have guessed, men aren't interested! I wonder why, sweaty pie... I wonder why... 🤔

Let's face it: the only way you're successful in trapping a man is if you can bypass his rational judgment. Either through love and sex or through guilt and shame. You then get the government to seal the deal for you. Bravo. You win by manipulation and force. Yay.

And you know what? The truth is, that if you stuck with your manipulation by love and sex, ** the overwhelming majority of men would be gleefully happy!** If you stuck to doing these three simple steps every day, you could keep him smitten under your manipulative spell forever and he'd be happy for it!

Keep his stomach full.
Keep his balls empty.
Keep his ego fed.

That's it. Three simple steps and you have him willingly wrapped around your little finger for life! But no, you have to bitch and complain, nag, criticize, demand, cajole and reject him sexually. Whatever he does for you is never good enough and if he tries, he gets mixed messages. As you say:

IT’S LIKE GUYS ARE WALKING ON EGGSHELLS AROUND US. Guys are feeling the heat and we can all tell. They’re afraid to compliment us or relate to us in the way they were always taught to and trust me, this is a good thing. However, women still like to be pursued (at least I do) and it’s unfortunate that by finally standing up for our rights and demanding respect, we’re totally scaring men away. It’s so messed up and a total shame.

Yeah. You make no sense. You want fried ice. A man may try, but he'll burn out. Eventually - as horny as he may be and as important as sex and female validation may be to him - the juice just isn't worth the squeeze.

sleepyweaselisawake · 2020-08-09T14:23:39+00:00

"I’m on the side that believes whoever does the asking should also do the paying. If I ask a guy out on a date, I would expect to pay, absolutely. If a guy asks me, I would expect that he shells out the money for the evening. It’s just the way it should be."

She's never asked a guy out or offered to take him on a date. Ergo, she expects men to pay for her time and attention.

Newsflash: Dates are a waste of money, time, and effort. I haven't gone on a "date" in well over ten years, and women still find their way into my bed. Go figure.

Suck-Less · 2020-08-09T13:43:07+00:00

That website is a fun place to watch some seriously stuck up and entitled feminists crash and burn.

helloimderek · 2020-08-09T13:50:48+00:00

Check out her other articles. This gal is just delusional and nauseatingly entitled.

2020-08-09T13:37:01+00:00

Full circle.

magicmikefx · 2020-08-09T14:11:47+00:00

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NickTesla2018 · 2020-08-09T16:27:57+00:00

I went on a a date with a woman who said something like, if you wanna do something nice you can buy me dinner and ordered food and stuff.

Halfway through she let it slip she just came from another date before me.

I split the bill when it came and she was pissed and said something like she didn’t have enough money and expected I would pay. I told her that she could call the guy she was with earlier.

siuside · 2020-08-09T14:36:43+00:00

I want men to be manly and masculine, to approach me,

But I also don't want men to be manly, toxic masculinity and all.

"why aren't men interested in me!?!?!?"

MrPaineUTI · 2020-08-09T14:19:10+00:00

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caporalfourrier · 2020-08-09T14:51:55+00:00

Other articles written by this philosopher

"Confession: I Try To Date Losers So That I’m The Cool One In The Couple"

"If I Can’t Find A Date Because I Won’t Settle, I Guess I’ll Be Single Forever"

"A Guy I Liked Called Me Instead Of Texting Me & I Totally Freaked Out"

helloimderek · 2020-08-09T13:42:03+00:00

I'm a a white, female thus among the most privileged individuals in the world. I've decided to solidify my unpleasant behavior into by hijacking a once legitimate movement that fought for equal rights for women and women empowerment and now I've decided this somehow means all rights for everyone. I'm now experiencing unintended reactions to my self-absorbed, delusional behavior can't for the life of me understand why men don't find me attractive anymore?

2020-08-09T14:22:35+00:00

I consider myself a feminist, but I can’t lie—I’m starting to notice its effects on my dating life. This doesn’t change my belief in equality, I just hope that men and women can eventually learn to date in harmony because it’s pretty messy right now.

Harmony and feminism is an oxymoron, but I digress, let's move on.

1. I’m hyper aware of every sexist thing a guy does now. It doesn’t take much for me to overanalyze a guy’s intentions nowadays. I used to see a guy opening a door for me as nice and polite, but lately, gestures like this have been making me angry. I know the guys offering these acts of chivalry have no intention to make me feel small or lesser than, but now that my eyes have been opened to feminist theory, it’s all I’m able to think about.

Yes, you are mentally unstable and need help.

2. Guys are started to think we don’t need them anymore. Even though the feminist movement is pretty much the best thing to happen to this world since sliced bread, it’s taking its toll in the dating scene. The thing is, I’m starting to get a bit of a stand-offish vibe from guys, like they’re afraid to make a move, and I think it’s because they think that we don’t need them anymore. I’m not gonna go and cry a river for them because that’s something they’re gonna have to figure out within their own psyches. It’s just something I’ve noticed and it’s a bit of a shame.

Being a feminist and mastering grammar is an oxymoron. Feminism is ruining dating, the solution is more feminism. You, like a broken watch, are right twice a day about one thing: Men don't need you any more. Only the fuck bois are willing to tolerate you until you spread your legs. But, why don't you just blame men. That should solve all your dating-problems.

3. One little anti-feminist comment can completely turn me off. When I’m out with a guy and he says one thing that’s even REMOTELY offensive towards women, I find it really hard to recover. I instantly write guys off if they aren’t “woke” to the current social mindset towards gender politics and can’t let it go. Let’s just say I’ve gone on A LOT of first dates that never go anywhere.

Mentally unstable.

4. It’s like guys are walking on eggshells around us. Guys are feeling the heat and we can all tell. They’re afraid to compliment us or relate to us in the way they were always taught to and trust me, this is a good thing. However, women still like to be pursued (at least I do) and it’s unfortunate that by finally standing up for our rights and demanding respect, we’re totally scaring men away. It’s so messed up and a total shame.

Guys are feeling the heat of sexual assault allegations. Men should be brave and not be scared of having their lives ruined just because Miss Mentally Unstable is having a shitty day, which is all day every day, twice on Sunday. Come on guys, man up and potentially get raped in prison!

5. I’ve been brainwashed to assume the worst in men. All it takes is one quick scroll down my newsfeed and I have enough feminist rants to last me several winters. I think I’ve almost trained my brain to assume ALL men are here to try to put me down and dominate me when that’s far from the truth. I’ve made it kind of an automatic reflex at this point, though.

Feminist brainwashing. "Assume the worst" is the path to salvation. Did we mention that this woman is severely mentally unstable and is in dire need of help? Because she is severely mentally unstable and is in dire need of help.

6. The debate on who should pay has never been more alive. I’m on the side that believes whoever does the asking should also do the paying. If I ask a guy out on a date, I would expect to pay, absolutely. If a guy asks me, I would expect that he shells out the money for the evening. It’s just the way it should be. However, due to the recent boost in feminism, a guy paying the bill could be seen as anti-feminist and no guy wants to be considered a misogynist in this day and age. The song and dance of who’s gonna pay has never been more awkward and it’s making dating that much more difficult to maneuver.

Basically: "Men, pay and you are a misogynist, don't pay and you are an oppressor." No, you can never do right in the eyes of someone who is severely mentally unstable and is in dire need of help. And no, you can't help her. If you try to help her, she will project her problems onto you, which she already does, but it will be worse.

7. I’m afraid of scaring guys off by being “too feminist.” The same way I’m hyper-aware of when guys are being insulting towards women, I’m also afraid that I’m gonna come off as too harsh and dominant, which could easily scare guys away. Feminism is something I’m passionate about, but I also know how guys can get insecure when I talk about it. I don’t know what to do anymore.

She hates men, but she loves their provisioning and attention and if they don't fall in line with her mental instability, they are insecure. "I don’t know what to do anymore." You can't be helped, but you can help others by spewing your craziness for us to use a warning for others.

8. It’s made us more separate from each other than ever before. Men and women ALREADY have so much trouble trying to understand each other, but feminism has turned our society into a bit of a battle of the sexes. I’m not on their side or anything, I’m just pointing out that we’re currently in a sort of “us against them” mentality and it’s gonna take a while until it all smooths out.

Yes, a political ideology that lacks a sound logical foundation is divisive.

9. Every first date I go on, there’s an elephant in the room. It’s weird because we’re doing the whole “man seeking woman” act when we got on dates, but we both know that this old way of seeing each other is on its way out. I’m not saying dating is dead, but I think we’ll need to find a new way to be in relationships without falling into any sort of forced gender roles. I just don’t think we know how to do it yet.

Lose weight.

10. I swear guys are approaching me less. Is it just me or are guys doing a lot more looking around than actually approaching? Times are a little weird right now and I guess guys are afraid that the way they approach women might offend us or give us the wrong impression. I guess this is a good thing in a way because now guys have to wrack their brain and kinda figure out how to treat women with respect and see us as whole people. That’s a good thing, but it’ll be awhile until we’ll see that as a dating trend.

You are near and or past the wall. Furthermore, your irrational anger does not help you in any way, shape or form.

rubberboots3357 · 2020-08-09T13:58:20+00:00

Maybe she should date a butch.

loneliness-inc · 2020-08-09T14:59:05+00:00

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TheApricotCavalier · 2020-08-09T15:05:37+00:00

When someone says 'I absolutely 100% agree with this...but there is this issue'; thats societies indoctrination. You have to swear allegiance & belief in their holy book lest you be ostracized

Also.. https://archive.is/AwvZp#selection-783.0-785.12

Goddamn, just read the titles. Such gems as "The Self help industry turned me into a Narcissist" & "I thought love would find me but now I reallize I have to make an effort"

2020-08-09T14:13:05+00:00

Thick woman sounds like the typical feminist woman. A below average EQ and about an average IQ.

BluepillProfessor · 2020-08-09T15:00:12+00:00

My God Poes Law strikes again.

How can we determine if this is real or trolling?

The delusion if this is real is amazing to watch!!!

I am hyperaware of anything a man says.

(Which has nothing to do with point 1!!!!!): Guys are checking out and thinking they don't need us.

The Hell you say!

ONE LITTLE ANTI-FEMINIST COMMENT CAN COMPLETELY TURN ME OFF.

Of course it can dearrie! I wonder if there are any consequences to your piss poor Chattitude?

IT’S LIKE GUYS ARE WALKING ON EGGSHELLS AROUND US.

Now I KNOW she is trolling. Nobody can be this clueless.

She JUST SAID I AM A FUCKING BITCH WHO NITPICKS EVERYTHING MEN SAY TO ME......THEN SHE WHINES THAT GUYS ARE WALKING ON EGGSHELLS WITH HER ALL THE TIME.

What...the...ever......living.....fuck!

I’VE BEEN BRAINWASHED TO ASSUME THE WORST IN MEN.

You nitpick and criticize men with your "hyper-awareness" and your demands but it isn't because you are a fucking bitch! It is because society has "brainwashed you." Is there even a single atom of self-awareness in this woman?

If I ask a guy out on a date, I would expect to pay, absolutely. If a guy asks me, I would expect that he shells out the money for the evening. It’s just the way it should be

Oh aren't you clever! Guys must pay if they ask. I will pay if I ask. Guess what Beta Boy: I NEVER ask! She could make her life so much simpler by shortening it to:

GUYS MUST PAY

Well, maybe her company is nice.

Feminism is something I’m passionate about, but I also know how guys can get insecure when I talk about it

I talk about rough sex and dominating women with the back of my hand and I know girls can get insecure when I talk.

Maybe it isn't insecurity about your talking points. Maybe they just know we are assholes and are not interested in our baggage? Nah, it's obviously because men are insecure and womyn are wonderful.

IT’S MADE US MORE SEPARATE FROM EACH OTHER THAN EVER BEFORE.

MGTOW is a bitch gyrls and it has not even begun. They will try bachelor taxes before 2025, watch for it, in order to pay the single mom welfare bill.

EVERY FIRST DATE I GO ON, THERE’S AN ELEPHANT IN THE ROOM.

That's not an elephant and the elephant is not in the room! That's you running top speed at the wall.

I SWEAR GUYS ARE APPROACHING ME LESS

AHAHAHAHAH! See previous answer. Welcome to the first day of the rest of your life darling.

AFthrowaway3000 · 2020-08-09T15:16:51+00:00

"I've been brainwashed to assume the worst in men." So she even KNOWS it, yet meanwhile all she would have to do to fix her dating life would be to drop Feminism.

But no, that would require ACCOUNTABILITY on her part. Impossible.

p.s. looks like she's from Toronto. Explains a lot.

loneliness-inc · 2020-08-09T15:33:32+00:00

Just want to point out the bullshit that is the “I believe whoever does the asking out should pay for the date.”

This sounds great and fair in many aspects, but women know damned well that Men are the ones that do the asking out 90% of the time. If it’s with friends, family, or coworkers, yea i agree. But in the dating world it’s much different.

Edit: Also there is a difference between being the initiator in a group or with someone you like: “hey guys, who’s down to grab food this weekend?” Doesnt mean that I’m paying for all your shit.

2020-08-09T16:50:22+00:00

1. I’M HYPER AWARE OF EVERY SEXIST THING A GUY DOES NOW.

3. ONE LITTLE ANTI-FEMINIST COMMENT CAN COMPLETELY TURN ME OFF.

5. I’VE BEEN BRAINWASHED TO ASSUME THE WORST IN MEN.

7. I’M AFRAID OF SCARING GUYS OFF BY BEING “TOO FEMINIST.”

This is because you've been brought up accepting a form of marxism as your worldview. Women are the proletariat and men are the bourgeoisie. You will be locked in the class struggle that defines the marxist dialectic. Part of that is being trained to view normal male heterosexual behavior as abnormal male heterosexual behavior. No wonder you view male behavior the way you do.

I recognize the marxist underpinnings of current feminism and can see how it would lead to the same oppressive political dictatorship as Eastern Europe and China have and are experiencing. I stand with the inherent/unalienable rights crowd.

4. IT’S LIKE GUYS ARE WALKING ON EGGSHELLS AROUND US.

8. IT’S MADE US MORE SEPARATE FROM EACH OTHER THAN EVER BEFORE.

9. EVERY FIRST DATE I GO ON, THERE’S AN ELEPHANT IN THE ROOM.

10. I SWEAR GUYS ARE APPROACHING ME LESS.

Men may not say it often but we see how common false allegations are and that is a bucket of cold water. Women have created an environment hostile to men because we don't want our lives to be destroyed financially, legally, or socially. Guys have been fired for holding doors open or asking a woman out at work.

False allegations have been exposed on college campuses as a way to delay flunking a class or out of college. Coeds have used false allegations to generate sympathy from a guy they were interested in or to cover up cheating on a BF. Wives do that to. There were those women who used a false allegation on Survivor to get the guy most likely to win kicked off the show. He was screwed up for some time after that.

So avoiding women is the safest path for a man to follow. We may be attracted but we aren't stupid enough to ignore the obvious rigging of relationships so woman can say anything and get away with it.

And work is never a place to find a potential relationship in anymore.

NickTesla2018 · 2020-08-09T14:37:45+00:00

I can only imagine dating an insufferable feminist harpy. TMW = too much work. No thanks.

Banincoming · 2020-08-09T15:25:16+00:00

Loves the power that Feminism gives her over men.

Hates that no powerful man is taking the lead.

Xlaythe · 2020-08-09T15:07:12+00:00

Dude... how many fucking times are you going to contradict yourself? Deluded as shit

Corotrangl · 2020-08-09T18:42:34+00:00

All these contradictions and mental gymnastics reminds me of how pretty much every woman I have on facebook became suddenly feminists but are "traditional" at the same time and crave for times they even didn't live on. Best example I could write now it's a couple of posts (funny enough I'm pretty sure the same people shared both of them):

How the 40's and 50's where the "golden era" of dating and they wish all them men where like on those times, you know, the typical "rEaL mEn"
Twitter screencaps of how our grandmothers of our country had incredibly shit and horrendous lives, being forced to have even 10 children, being raped and kidnapped even with full aproval by their parents, not being able to leave their home, being traded like merchandise, etc.

Captainbuttman · 2020-08-09T17:05:44+00:00

like they’re afraid to make a move,

And

Its like guys are walking on eggshells around us.

This reminds me of when I read Sir Gawain and The Green Knight.

"Dear Lady," said the other, "don't think such a thing, I dare not kiss in case I am declined. If refused, I'd be at fault for offering in the first place." Lines 1492-4

Of course men are afraid to make a move. Even our ancestors knew that if you 'make a move' and are declined, you are at fault. Her reaction determines if you are bad.

loneliness-inc · 2020-08-09T14:27:29+00:00

If a guy asks me, I would expect that he shells out the money for the evening. It’s just the way it should be.

Of course.

MrPaineUTI · 2020-08-09T15:44:56+00:00

Reap what you sow ladies.

SolitaireOG · 2020-08-09T16:05:51+00:00

The problem is that we hear what others say through the filter of our own experiences. Women like this will hear "sexist" things and "anti-feminist" comments because it's what they're expecting. A guy can't win for losing in this scenario.

How to "pursue" a woman that tosses roadblocks out before anyone even opens their mouths? This is just idiocy.

muff_marauder · 2020-08-09T16:08:35+00:00

This has to be satire written by a man -- it's too self-aware.

ryoko227 · 2020-08-09T19:08:25+00:00

2. GUYS ARE STARTED TO THINK WE DON’T NEED THEM ANYMORE.

www, think you got that one backwards

TheUnbannable2 · 2020-08-09T17:43:26+00:00

I’M HYPER AWARE OF EVERY SEXIST THING A GUY DOES NOW.

I used to see a guy opening a door for me as nice and polite, but lately, gestures like this have been making me angry...but now that my eyes have been opened to feminist theory, it’s all I’m able to think about.

Poor woman has been brainwashed by this stuff, unable to see anything but sexism

GayyFieri · 2020-08-09T18:41:18+00:00

The men that are cautious and respectful of feminism are boring and dull and don't give her the tingles

The ones that don't give a fuck about it won't even look at her and those are the ones that get her going.

mimitchi86 · 2020-08-09T20:05:10+00:00

It’s like guys are walking on eggshells around us.

Probably because:

I’m hyper aware of every sexist thing a guy does now. One little anti-feminist comment can completely turn me off. I’ve been brainwashed to assume the worst in men.

Also:

I swear guys are approaching me less.

Probably because:

I’m hyper aware of every sexist thing a guy does now.

Guys are started to think we don’t need them anymore.

One little anti-feminist comment can completely turn me off.

I’ve been brainwashed to assume the worst in men.

It’s made us more separate from each other than ever before.

It's like being handed an exam with the answer key stapled to it.

FactsAngerLiars · 2020-08-09T16:21:14+00:00

Teehee! sips Female Tears

NickTesla2018 · 2020-08-09T16:46:17+00:00

Harder to get free drinks and dinners.

usehername6969 · 2020-08-09T17:19:37+00:00

This reads like a less believable Onion article.

Beautiful_Dust · 2020-08-09T18:10:10+00:00

Heres an idea...let's go back to the way things WERE. Women are not nor ever will be equal to men. Let the men be the men, and women start acting like ladies again. Feminists are nothing but wannabe men, with boobs and cootchies, and hormones scattered all over hell.

frankmarlowe · 2020-08-09T21:37:17+00:00

I do not approve of misogyny at all, but I 100% approve of paradigm shift in the dating scene right now. The boulder has left the summit. Potential has become kinetic and no amount of effort will halt it. There's only forward force and you can ride it with all it's destructive energy, or you can step out of it's path.

It's understandable they're frustrated. They spent generations in a gilded cage, and chafed against it. They yearned for freedom from the social contract, and they got it. But freedom's not free. The cost of it in this scenario is all the perks of that gilded cage, when they were considered a prize. And looks/sex count for very little anymore. And they don't know how to cope. They're dealing with the cultural hangover being raised by more conservative generations and subconsciously developing them same expectation of outcome and treatment. When you change the rules of the game, both the goals and the outcome is going to be fundamentally different. You can't play unbeholden to rules that you expect the others to abide by. That's just sexist.

I myself have never felt more free. I don't think many understand how truly liberating feminism has been for men. Sure, women are no longer obligated to be domestic servants and brood mares for some dude, and that's awesome. I 1000% approve. But by that same token, it freed men from being socially obligated to be a protector/provider for women. And I have absolutely been living my best life because of it.

TL;DR Thank you, feminism and feminists. I say that genuinely, and with 0 sarcasm. You showed the world that men and women don't actually need each other like we've been raised to believe, and it's a massive burden off my shoulders. I'd rather take an apartment full of pets and the occasional wank to porn over a lifetime of indentured servitude to mortgages, child support/alimony, and trying to make someone other than myself happy.

tux_pirata · 2020-08-09T22:25:19+00:00

> like they’re afraid to make a move

almost.....

> I think it’s because they think that we don’t need them anymore

imagine being this fucking clueless lmao

> They’re afraid to compliment us or relate to us in the way they were always taught to and trust me, this is a good thing. However, women still like to be pursued

she fucking contradicts her retarded ass in the same paragraph

2020-08-09T16:34:06+00:00

Ah how the turn tables

blvcktele · 2020-08-09T16:39:07+00:00

im not for feminism whatsoever

Pie_sky · 2020-08-09T16:59:30+00:00

This reads like a joke article, all the more retarded that it is apparently real.

5gil135 · 2020-08-09T17:48:02+00:00

As usual, a feminist article that doesn't even mention divorce rape at all.

Ignore the man behind the curtain!

TheUnbannable2 · 2020-08-09T17:51:25+00:00

3 ONE LITTLE ANTI-FEMINIST COMMENT CAN COMPLETELY TURN ME OFF.

4 IT’S LIKE GUYS ARE WALKING ON EGGSHELLS AROUND US.

gee I wonder why

jihocech · 2020-08-09T19:16:28+00:00

Greeting to Mr. Darwin. Genes of this ... lady are not the fittest.

Magnum_44 · 2020-08-09T20:34:09+00:00

Her Hamster had a stroke.

2020-08-10T00:17:54+00:00

Feminism is a mental illness.

_Nequis_ · 2020-08-10T02:16:53+00:00

When I’m out with a guy and he says one thing that’s even REMOTELY offensive towards women IT’S LIKE GUYS ARE WALKING ON EGGSHELLS AROUND US.

Error 404 Logical Cause-Effect not found

NotLuceBree · 2020-08-10T02:52:12+00:00

It's like a fifth grader wrote this.

2020-08-10T07:21:39+00:00

5: "I've been brainwashed."

On this, and only this, do we agree.

What noxious, toxic, self-absorbed, misandrist, mindless blathering.

And I said more with my sentence than she did in her entire metoonifesto.

ThaiEscapePlan · 2020-08-09T15:02:05+00:00

I looked her up. She's a redhead. Trouble. I initially thought she was this chick. but that Jennifer Lee turns out to be an Asian gal based on a Goggle image search

https://globalnews.ca/news/4277241/toronto-musician-email-sabotage/

ThrowawayGhostGuy1 · 2020-08-09T15:52:27+00:00

Even though the feminist movement is pretty much the best thing to happen to this world since sliced bread, it’s taking its toll in the dating scene. The thing is, I’m starting to get a bit of a stand-offish vibe from guys, like they’re afraid to make a move, and I think it’s because they think that we don’t need them anymore. I’m not gonna go and cry a river for them because that’s something they’re gonna have to figure out within their own psyches. It’s just something I’ve noticed and it’s a bit of a shame.

Or maybe they don’t want to get falsely accused of rape.

Doghouse509 · 2020-08-09T16:26:51+00:00

GUYS ARE STARTED TO THINK WE DON’T NEED THEM ANYMORE

This sentence makes no sense. Too much box wine before she posted?

Daman_1985 · 2020-08-09T17:03:05+00:00

Another enjoyable reading!

CarilPT · 2020-08-09T17:36:21+00:00

Does she see guys as "real people" when they buy her free drinks and she walks away? 🤔

meltboro · 2020-08-09T17:47:30+00:00

I make sure to be clear on the first few dates that i am an egalitarian and therefore anti-feminist, weeds out most of the monsters early on

edgysecularist · 2020-08-09T18:06:33+00:00

How could it not sweetie your nudes are all worldwide and damaged goods no man wants to put up with that MGTOW is growing worldwide

shitposterkatakuri · 2020-08-09T18:09:21+00:00

Idk why you’re all for societal cancer when you don’t like the actual suffering that it brings. I’m all for Nazism but it’s kinda making it harder to be Jewish 😳

2020-08-09T18:45:36+00:00

who wrote this crap articles ? did she had a puff of marijuana and write this . at one point she says she like men and their compliments on other she gets turn off by anti feminist .no self introspect

Thetrvler · 2020-08-09T20:00:07+00:00

If a woman even knows how to spell feminist/feminism, just walk away. Trust me, it’s just not worth it.

I-am-the-lul · 2020-08-09T20:34:00+00:00

I used to see a guy opening a door for me as nice and polite, but lately, gestures like this have been making me angry. I know the guys offering these acts of chivalry have no intention to make me feel small or lesser than, but now that my eyes have been opened to feminist theory, it’s all I’m able to think about.

And yet these same women are constantly complaining that chivalry is dead and how they want it back...

2020-08-09T23:44:12+00:00

This reminds me so much of a woman I work with that left her long term marriage thinking she deserved better (he was by no means an asshole) and has spent the better part of 5 years following the liberal hive-mind, posting smug feminist, climate change, anti Trump and now BLM stuff online, claiming to be a strong independent woman in her dating profile and looking every bit the part as she hangs out with like minded women and a few weak looking beta orbiters she's not interested in.

She thinks that the strong independent woman aspect of her is a selling point. It is... But if you need to remind people that you are, then it's not true.

The irony is that she says she wants a strong looking, manly, bearded tradesman type. The type of guy who won't be interested in a lady like her or share her opinions. She also doesn't go to places where this kind of guy would be.

And while we are at it... She's post wall. Any tradesman with these traits will have better options.

And she can't work out why she's single.

2020-08-09T23:49:49+00:00

It's kind of embarrassing that every single commenter on her article is a man.

2020-08-10T01:02:00+00:00

The comments there were awesome. It's a BOLDE article though. The writers there seem like a bunch of girls in grade 6 who just got their periods. They seriously write like children. They either are children or intellectually stunted young women.

2020-08-10T01:36:20+00:00

The best thing men can do is walk away, and act as if women are completely invisible.

Go MGTOW, and swear off women completely, don't even fathom the idea of dating them, or even acknowledging them!

AnonNo9001 · 2020-08-10T01:46:16+00:00

AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA this post is GOLD!!

This is some fine r/selfawarewolves material right here. She is SO CLOSE to figuring out why her dating life is so hard. If you're so independent, live by yourself. "Don't need no man," right?

independent:

not influenced or controlled by others in matters of opinion, conduct, etc.; thinking or acting for oneself

(copied verbatim from dictionary.com)

Thinking or acting for oneself. others are not necessary. If you're independent, prove it.

EDIT: I thought r/selfawarewolves was bipartisan. I was wrong.

theDukesofSwagger · 2020-08-10T02:07:31+00:00

“This doesn’t change my belief in equality, I just hope that men and women can eventually learn to date in harmony because it’s pretty messy right now.”

Sorry girl, but that’s never going to happen.

ISmellLikeBlackTea · 2020-08-10T05:49:21+00:00

You really can't be an American style feminist and expect men, who you wanna date, to date you. No 6ft, full head of hair, beard, 6 figure lawyer/doctor (or anything else) is going to choose you.

boiiihowdy · 2020-08-10T05:58:36+00:00

This whole article is just one giant bruh moment

Gattaca401 · 2020-08-10T06:05:57+00:00

Is "feminism" even a thing anymore? Can't risk offending the nonbianary people. Or whatever.

MRMRising · 2020-08-10T17:17:35+00:00

I instantly write guys off if they aren’t “woke” to the current social mindset towards gender politics and can’t let it go.

And we write women off that are "woke". I don't need you or that anti male BS in my life, now piss off.

down_vote_militia · 2020-08-09T20:36:04+00:00

Hmm....if I hear "I consider myself a feminist," I'm all for that, but I'm pretty sure that you aren't the one for me. I prefer to know sooner rather than later.

nihilismMattersTmro · 2020-08-09T21:32:42+00:00

I love these articles so much.

I also love knowing I don't care what any gender is doing, I have ZERO interest in dating ANY of them. It is so freeing

RealMcGonzo · 2020-08-09T22:15:48+00:00

When I’m out with a guy and he says one thing that’s even REMOTELY offensive towards women, I find it really hard to recover. I instantly write guys off if they aren’t “woke” to the current social mindset towards gender politics and can’t let it go. Let’s just say I’ve gone on A LOT of first dates that never go anywhere.

Immediately followed by:

IT’S LIKE GUYS ARE WALKING ON EGGSHELLS AROUND US.

I bet she can't count out the change in her purse and get the same number twice in a row.

2020-08-09T23:00:58+00:00

stupid ho finally realizing that feminism is cancer, but is too self-awerewolf to see it.

kek.

CAPSLOCK44 · 2020-08-10T00:10:55+00:00

Look at these other great articles written by the same author

EarlPowski · 2020-08-10T02:00:29+00:00

Yeah cunt we won't need you. Sensible self respecting men went to countries like Thailand and Philippines that have no feminists. Because guess what?

MEN ARE TURNED OFF BY 'DOMINANT' WOMEN
REAL MEN LOVE CRUDE DIRTY OFFENSIVE TALK. ANY MAN WHO WALKS ON EGGSHELLS TO AVOID OFFENDING A WOMAN, IS NOT A MAN
YOU MAKE THE WALKING ON EGGSHELLS COMMENT THEN COMPLAIN ABOUT BEING HYPER AWARE OF ANY LITTLE THING THEY SAY
DATING ISN'T GOING AWAY, MEN ARE JUST FINDING CLEVER AND CREATIVE WAYS TO DATE ANYONE WHO ISN'T YOU

Ishabaka · 2020-08-10T18:51:09+00:00

"I hate men, but I need them to do my bidding when it suits me".

Massacher · 2020-08-13T06:27:34+00:00

She's right. We don't need feminists.

2020-08-17T09:07:12+00:00

I instantly write guys off if they aren’t “woke”

Don't worry, most of us are safe!

IT’S LIKE GUYS ARE WALKING ON EGGSHELLS AROUND US.

Harry Potter and the audacity of this bitch. Seriously, there is just one (short) sentence between these quotes. How self absorbed do you have to be to not realize the connection?

I SWEAR GUYS ARE APPROACHING ME LESS.

No shit sherlock.

Seagram7 · 2020-08-10T01:24:45+00:00

Another girl that wants her cake and eat it too but it is coming off as a girl that wants fried ice. She wants the best of both worlds but not the negative consequences.

They’re afraid to compliment us or relate to us in the way they were always taught to and trust me, this is a good thing

Feminism crave this power or the illusion of power. Freud may have been on to something about penis envy. They think that fear they created and enhanced by poundmetoo is power. "Men FEAR me! I must be POWERFUL!"

I’M AFRAID OF SCARING GUYS OFF BY BEING “TOO FEMINIST.”

Diametrically opposed to that is their natural survival instinct of needing men for attention, validation, provisions and resources. It's an instinct from caveman times, if a guy cut you off, you were dead. No alpha seed to reproduce with your precious eggs, and no beta resources so you starve and/or are killed by a warring tribe.

Her article can also be viewed in the lens of AF BB and hypergamy. "I want beta Bob to fear me and be the victim of my power BUT, I also want Alpha Chad to approach and put me in my place and dominate me. I want the illusion of power when guys fear me because my powerful accusations can destroy them, BUT I don't want Alpha Chad to also avoid me. Also, even though I absolutely despise Beta Bob, I need his attention and resources."

Title	I'm All For Feminism, But It's Kinda Making It Harder To Date
Author	yelo777
Upvotes	734
Comments	240
Date	August 9, 2020 1:22 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/comments/i6j8xu/im_all_for_feminism_but_its_kinda_making_it/
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