Can we drop the whole “victim mentality” bullshit?

Nah hahahha in another comment you said that hating men was a trend. You need to be a bit more critical of the things you see on the internet, understand you're seeing messages from a vocal minority, and that most women aren't out there doing their best to ruin men's lives.

As for your first point, where is the statistic for that? If this were true, as someone in this thread stated, every other man would be a walking rape machine.

There it is. I can link other studies if you want as well, but so far it seems that false rape accusations make up for around 5% of all rape accusations. As a man, you are literally more likely to get raped than to be a victim of a false rape accusation. Yet this sub has a fucking hard on for the idea that women are trying to ruin their existence. And no, not every man would need to be a walking rape machine, because 1. sometimes men assault women without realizing they're assaulting them 2. a man can assault multiple women, meaning that it is entirely possible (and I'd say likely) that a small portion of men are doing most of the raping and 3. it only takes one drunken assault to make you a sexual predator. You wouldn't have to be out there doing it 24/7.

While I while admit that my evidence is anecdotal, there’s still a pattern there, and surely by looking at the other comments through this thread you’ll see I’m not the only one noticing it.

I mean, yeah, men in this sub are reporting things that are in line with their beliefs, and this sub tends to be pretty stupid about topics like this one. TRP is great but some of its followers are complete morons, you need to be critical of what they say. Also you need to take into account that if an actual rape is took place, the perpetrator won't talk about it and the victim is often too traumatized to talk about it as well. The discussion around actual cases of rape is rarely public, whereas the discussion around false claims is, because it's advantageous for both the ''perpetrator'' and the ''victim'' to be vocal about it. You still need to be critical of the things you see.

Also , for the point you made about women being pressured and coerced, I strongly disagree. By these standards, if I were to initiate sex with a woman , and she didn’t turn down my advances which led to sex it would be rape.

Every case is different, and I agree that there is a grey area in that regard, however there are many, many instances of coercion that are absolutely not in that grey area. The girl I know who was forced into giving a guy a blowjob cried while sucking his dick. Is that a grey area to you?

My point is that you're being vocal about a (relatively) small problem while ignoring that it is the result of a far bigger and far more serious problem.