For millennia, human nature has been likened to that of our animal counterparts at the very core. Strip away human consciousness, emotions, social media and modern progressiveness and we see the raw, barebones nature of a large majority of human beings. As we are all children of God, at a base level, we are all created with that same, primal and instinctive nature.

Now my journey with RP and RPC more recently, has been a bumpy one in the past. When I was introduced to RP over a year ago, I couldn't quite grasp and swallow that big, fat, red pill. Maybe it was because I thought it was too good to be true, who knows, but I was a bit of an idiot. However, there were a few occasions about year ago where I went out and tried to figure things out for myself that it finally clicked. I had come to the conclusion that deep down, no matter how 'cultured' 'educated' or 'woke' people are, or at least claim to be, more often that not we fall back to primal instinct. Most of the time, we don't even notice it. I finally made the connection.

Cats.

I remember trying to explain this to my old BP friends and yeah I don't need to tell you how that went, hence old friends. But this is what I had noticed, from first hand experience [important later].

A Cat, a feline mammal that on the surface does almost literally whatever it wants, or so it seems to us. When Cats are around people, they tend to get scared and freeze. When said person takes a period of time out of their day and runs after them saying 'awww what a cute kitty', guess what, they BOLT. Worst case scenario, they hiss and attack in self-defence. This leaves said person momentarily confused and a bit sad that they couldn't pet the kitty. Said person then looks like a fool in front of their mates, because they attempted to pet a cat using all the bells and whistles they thought might work, and now they look like fool. And "as a dog returns to it's vomit, a fool repeats his folly". Don't be that guy.

So how do we get to pet the cat??

It's simple. Don't.

At least not to begin with, otherwise you'll end up in the fabled scenario above, which most of us have encountered at least once in our lives, with a relatives cat or even just a random one on the streets.

Cats are peculiar, but at the core, the nature is rather simple. When you enter the vicinity of a Cat and inject your presence into the area for the first time, it knows you are there, even if you might not know it is there, or it's right in front of you. So you just go about your own thing, keep doing what your doing. You know the cat is there but you know it'll run if you try anything. Besides, you're so involved with your own business, the Cat could be doing this, but you'd still carry on. Cats are also curious and seek attention, so when they're not getting it, they get braver. You'll notice it gets closer and starts to scope you out. It might even just sit 2 feet away from you and observe you, but as soon as you move in its direction, BOOM, gone. After some time (variable) it'll gather up the courage and maybe brush past your leg. It knows you're not a threat now, that's a green light to move closer for the cat. Bish bash bosh, before you know it you're stroking the cat on your mates sofa looking like Dr Evil and Mr Bigglesworth from Austin Powers.

Moreover, if there are several cats in the room and they see their buddy getting all of the attention, and they can also see that you're not a threat, you're now the cat man. What if the cat doesn't bite? Or goes to someone else? Put it this way, there are no shortages of cats in the world. If one doesn't come, another will. Take your pick.

Congratulations. You have just been socially proven by a Cat.

The real emphasis in this analogy is this: Do your own thing, and other things will naturally gravitate towards you.

In RPC terms, focus on your mission and God will bring you the fruits of life, including a girlfriend/wife. Of course, the cat analogy focuses mainly on the initial stages of attraction, however it shouldn't be forgotten, as it is a hardwired programme in the female nature which more often than not, will play out once again.

In the bible we can actually see this happening with Jesus and his female followers. Check it out.

Mark 15:40-41

"There were also women looking on from a distance, among whom were Mary Magdalene, and Mary the mother of James the younger and of Joses, and Salome. When he was in Galilee, they followed him and ministered to him, and there were also many other women who came up with him to Jerusalem."

Luke 23:49

"And all his acquaintances and the women who had followed him from Galilee stood at a distance watching these things."

Notice that they are all initially 'at a distance' from Jesus to begin with while He is out there performing his miracles and carrying out the great commission, leading to his ultimate sacrifice for us. They initially just 'watch on' however once they realise that Jesus is not a threat, soon come closer and follow. What did Jesus do to get people to come closer? Absolutely nothing. He simply did what God had commissioned him to do, held his frame, and everything else followed. Did Jesus care if people left or defamed him? No, because He knew that there would always others out there. The two examples above directly address this nature, but there are other less obvious points in the Bible where you can see this nature at work also.

How does this translate to modern society? Simple, You do your thing and inject your presence and frame into social scenarios, and if you are strong in faith, strong in the mind, and strong in physical presence, You won't need to say a word and the cats will all look, even if its just a glance, because they feel it as soon as you walk in. Of course, social conditioning and modern society/churchianity has told us that men should do all of the pursuit. Don't. You're there to do what you're there to do. See someone you like? Keep it low effort, a big cheesy grin and overt hand gest..... just kidding. Just give 'em a smirk and a nod or something like that so that you acknowledge they are there, but you're doing your thing. Then, just observe. No one comes? Cool, you're so busy that you DGAF.

People ask this question a lot over on r/asktrp along the lines of, why am I not internalising RP? It goes back to a point I made earlier about first hand experience. You can read all of the books, literature, posts and watch all of the dodgy PUA videos you want, but the real way to internalise RP and RPC is to get out there and stop being a keyboard warrior. Drop the social media, porn and all that rubbish. The best way to 'get' RP is to go and figure it out yourself. This is the great thing about r/RPC. There are well experienced and well versed people on here much more than me, but I'm sure they didn't amass the knowledge they have by just reading and typing. Get out there and figure it out yourself. Then you can come up with crazy cat analogies... I'm just at the beginning of my journey through life and still have a lot to learn, so I remain humble in my approach.

Attraction is a non negotiable. Cats will be Cats, Women will be Women.

Just don't run after the Cat.

Trust me, I learned the hard way.

P.S. as this is my first long post to the sub, I would be more than appreciative of feedback/criticism, so that the next post will be better quality. Hello from the UK.